IBIFUBARA
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Embracing the goodness, the beauty and the abundance of life. 💛 • Standing at the intersection of Psychology, Research and Tech.
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Her words.
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Omg I think people are always startled by how Nigerians talk because he thought she was upset for a second. 🤣
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If you’re 20 and you have to lie to a 14 year old that you’re 16, it means you know what you’re doing is wrong.
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You know they’re genuine because they didn’t say jollof rice, Tems or Burna.
Also for them to actually have answers to these questions that are not particularly what you’d expect, you can tell they’re in tune with where they’re from. My fave through and through. ❤️
When Arsema Adeoluwayemi Thomas isn’t playing the young Lady Danbury in
#QueenCharlotte
, she is vibing to Fela while feasting on Moin Moin, her favorite Naija dish 💕
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Gosh this moment was the cutest, I almost fainted from happiness.
Outfit Twinning is actually my fave thing to do. Thank you for finding me. 🥹💕🥰
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Ngl I understand because she did more than Mercy in that house.
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1. He raped her. Use the right words.
2. Instead of getting help for the woman that's mentally ill, you are giving a rapist the choice to be with her as some sort of punishment.
Clearly, you people don't care about women, regardless of our mental state.
Man who forced a mad woman to have sex has been given two options either to be jailed for 10 years or to stay with the mad woman as his wife.
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I love her because she’s creating a niche for herself in African (Nigerian) literature.
From
@thedamilarekuku
, the author of Nearly All The Men In Lagos Are Mad, comes a new novel about a young woman who plans to reinvent herself with a BBL and move to Lagos.
'Only Big Bumbum Matters Tomorrow' will be released by
@HarperViaBooks
in 2024.
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Being chronically self aware doesn’t stop me from making stupid decisions and that’s how I know mental health care is so deep and tasking. So many layers to this thing. 🥹
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She was a life coach (ugh) and she made us dance to Better When I’m Dancing by Meghan Trainor every single morning to make us hyped for the day. 😭
I quit a few days after I was employed with hot tears rolling down my eyes. I was crying because I really hate forced enthusiasm.🥴
What’s the weirdest reason that has made you resign from a job?
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My partner dying, getting poor or becoming a pastor.
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You’ve been his friend for years, it’s impossible to speak with him without hearing shit like this, so please spare us. You’re not going to cut him off and will still chill with him so please disrespectfully, gtfo with this face save you are trying to do.
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The same DJs from Femme Fest were about to play OB’s part of E don cast but Hertitude babes shut it down and that’s my highlight of the night.
The No they shouted >>>
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The reason why Nigerians can’t see what they do to Baye as bullying or degrading in a lot of instances is because the average Nigerian that’s older than you speaks over you and pretty much does the same thing and hates it when you point out their bad behavior.
Razz lot.
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Nigerians I beg you, this is not for you. The people she’s taking to clearly understand what she’s saying and it’s a geographical/cultural thing CLEARLY. Before you react, sometimes do research first.
No love and light because you people are annoying.
There's a very common misconception among girls that you shouldn't take shower when you're on a period. YOU CAN. No, it has nothing t do with infertility. It will not stop your period. It will not make you fat. It will not cause any issue.
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Yup, a boy will have a father, two older brothers, older male cousins, uncles and in the end his older sister will be the one to teach him about consent, respect, body image, self love, sex, money, every bloody thing, man. It is well.
Dads, uncles, older cousins need to be hands on. Not by “how far. You are focusing on school Abi? That’s good. Keep it up”
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There’s a way your body just accepts some people. You might be talking and before you know it, you’re hugging then you’re legs are touching, then you’re just laying beside each other and your hands are joined.
There’s tenderness with each touch in between a normal conversation.
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If you think gender war is women attacking men on Twitter, maybe you should read or go on insta blog or step outside and maybe you’ll see that there’s an actual war against women and what is happening on Twitter is a tiny fraction of what women have to go through everyday.
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Bisola can proper act, sing, host, make you laugh, rap, is a gorgeous babe and an all round entertainer. Please please.
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Femme Africa (Femme fest) and their friends who are defending their rubbish are a bunch of unserious people.
Okay even if you say you didn’t say it was only for women, how did you screen the allies? Did you ask questions at the gate or while buying tickets?
NO!
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@The_amakaaa
Meet in the middle & compromise on both angles. For things like this I find that there’s a reason why. Figure out what it is that makes them uncomfortable or hate dates and then plan the kind of dates that involve them not being uncomfortable. You both aren’t miserable that way.
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This is not weaponised incompetence. Please can we start reading more so we can start analyzing things better as a society. Jesus.
Refusing to use your brain when you’re around your man >>>>>>>>>> 🤭🥰
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Beverly Naya deserves that AMVCA. Skin is such a good documentary. It made me remember so many things and how people made me feel about my dark skin. Then the honest conversations with Bob and the sulfur/coconut oil woman too. Phew.
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My advice to people that are soft and emotional is not to toughen up totally, but to find people that care about them enough to take care of their hearts.
We need more caring, soft and kind hearted people in the world and we can’t lose the ones we already have.
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Evidence.
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Admitting that you hurt people constantly doesn’t automatically make you the bigger person sha. I hope V knows this.
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My babes please don’t take Postinor frequently.
Go to the hospital and speak to a doctor about a birth control option that’s suitable for you.
Yes, they all sound like they suck but a lot of times when you find the one that sticks, you won’t regret it.
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@kaitoxhi
@speakintoexist
@nunuobe
See, ever since Nunu stepped into this show, they’ve bullied her. So I hope she actually stops being involved with the whole franchise. After he spoke and she wanted to speak, see them telling her it’s okay and she should let him cool off, that’s them enabling him.
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Update: I was accepted. The second email was a mistake. I'm so excited. 💃🏿💃🏿
Just got an acceptance and rejection email from a fiction-writing workshop. Now I'm scared to call or email them to find out which email was for me. I'm stressed.
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I liked November 👍🏾
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Not to be dramatic but this babe is the most beautiful babe in the world, please.
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It’s not really healthy for one person to guide your stance in a movement. This is what you get when you disagree with the person. You begin to believe the person existed only to get you somewhere meanwhile she’s just a person that has her own journey.
Chinamanda was good for the awakening. Her usefulness has expired and that’s okay.
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At the point sha, White Money and Angel are my top 2. I hope Angel’s fans have the energy to vote, I just hope.
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It’s only Misogyny that’ll make someone say Buju is bigger than Ayra. And no, I will not be saying how these things are related. Put on your thinking cap.
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I don’t think love like that exists in friendships or in romantic relationships.
It’s a perfect love, where no matter what I do, she only sees me as greater than the sun and moon. I always feel like I can be my best and worst self with her, accepted and free.
People with a good relationship with their mom, what does being loved by your mom feel like to you?
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A year ago I was on the streets of Lagos, Nigeria protesting Police Brutality against women. Today I'm here again to protest against the rape culture that has become almost normal in our society.
#JusticeForUwa
#JusticeforTina
#justiceforjennifer
#SayHerNameNigeria
#NoMeansNo
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All the books written by writers that have lived or have affiliation with Port Harcourt are good AF. Don’t @ me, it’s my personal bias.
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I don’t know why people laugh at rude and dumb (if we are being real) comments like this. You saw everyone there but it’s easier to say mean things about the women there. Are there any male equivalent of the baddies there?
Take it away from this picture how many do you even know
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Another story is my fave song for now. I think it's because I always go on and on preaching that same gospel. + M.anifest ✨
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The way abusers operate
1. “Choose” you because you shine
2. Praise you
3. Start to get jealous
4. Berate you
5. Emotionally abuse you till you don’t recognize yourself
6. Hit you
7. Unalive you
Sometimes you make it out before you get to the end. Sometimes.
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This is why I want a baby sister. I miss acting drama with someone. 🤣
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My name is Ibifubara Davies and I'm a psychologist. My goal is to help people who are currently experiencing worrisome thoughts, feeling sad or anxious, having trouble at work or school, or people just trying to navigate life get the support that they need.
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Lmao CU students (ex students too) pretending to be shocked with everyone after hearing this story 1 million times.
I remember when I was pregnant with our first son, one day I saw blood flowing from me and when my husband returned home, I told him that I had a miscarriage. Boldly, and without any hesitation, he said, “You can’t have a miscarriage!”, and then asked to be served his meal.
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scream
so that one day
a hundred years from now
another sister will not have to
dry her tears wondering
where in history
she lost her voice - Jasmin Kaur
#SayherNameNigeria
#AbujaPoliceRaidOnWomen
#FuckthePatriachy
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- If our values align as feminists, we can’t be centering men in life.
- If they are kind and sensitive, a lot of sad and beautiful things will happen to us for sure.
- If they are not religious fanatics. I can’t have a guilt ridden relationship with them, I’m grown please.
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Yup! If you teach physical education in schools, you can teach mental education.
Big Sean believes mental health coping skills should be taught to kids at an early age.
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“Save emotional real estate for the ones that will stay”
Titilope Sonuga 💛
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Today I watched my brother get married traditionally, I watched him give himself to his wife and my heart is full. 🖤🖤
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Sabi girls and sabigays, and sabi boys, please subscribe to my channel, muah. 😘🥰
Hi guys, in this video I speak to Ayra Starr’s makeup artist MerakibyOnome while we have a conversation about being an MUA in the entertainment industry.
Please watch and share 🫶🏿
Things I wish I knew about "Makeup" in my early 20s with Ayra via
@YouTube
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Sure
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Lool if you don't define a relationship, anything you take eye see, na your luck.
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I’m sorry but nobody is giving her a run for her money. Bisola is the most talented person to come out of BBN. If you even want to say someone that’s super talented in his field you can now say Elo (still not a competition) but please let’s be real, Bisola is talent personified.
Lol,Lady?Bisola is arguably the most talented person to ever come out of big brother franchise.Only Tobi and Elozonam can give her a run for her money. She is like the Keke Palmer of Nollywood.She can sing,act, dance,do stand up, host at 1am in any planet without breaking a sweet
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2nd ❤️
It means hope.
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@LanaireA
"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism
is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat."
- Rebecca West
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@ibisokioharry
Sex with a minor is statutory rape and that’s it. A minor can’t consent. Any form of coercion isn’t consent. It’s the job of the adult to shut anything down.
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@Tehmii_
The worst part was that I used public transport that time so my legs were paining me daily from walking and sitting in an uncomfortable bus.
I honestly can’t look at her office anytime I’m on Ozumba Mbadiwe way, I get slightly angry. 😭
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This country reminds of Covenant University
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