Me and myself we decided that we will be joining the challenge of buying at least one homeware item every month, no matter how small it is. From a glass to whatever, I’ll pin this and make it a thread ✨️

Adult friendships are not built on proximity like childhood. It’s intention! You have to make a choice to be in a friendship and upkeep that bond.

My number one piece of advice is to step back when you feel like crashing out and remember who you are, repeat it till it sticks, acknowledge what leverage you have in the situation and assume that identity, ignore everything that betrays that identity

Major cheat code in life: Understanding you can reinvent yourself at any time. New habits, new standards, new friend group, new career, etc. There's no rule that says you have to stay the person you've always been. You're allowed to decide, "I'm done being this version of me."

Timeless tune 🔥🔥🔥

R8.90 worth of happiness.. oh what a delicious concept 😍

My Queer identity is not a phase, not a performance and not a problem to fix. It's the most beautiful part of my becoming.

I have learned to let people enter and exit my life freely. Nothing is forced.

So the friday episode was going to be the last one? Hehe.. we deserve the extra episodes manyani

Inyanga le yonke mntase..

Adulting is when you realize all you truly want is a cozy home, a stable job, and a partner to build a life with.

Please don’t think you’re the only one struggling. Most of us just don’t share our tough moments online. Our lives aren’t perfect, and we’re not happy all the time. You’re really not alone.. life is testing everyone right now.

Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.

If we’re dating and your intuition makes you overthink, let me know. I have no issue over explaining myself and giving reassurance

i am not ashamed of responding fast and double texting. i want to talk you. i am an adult.

the more you work on yourself, the easier it is to recognize what is authentic and what is performative. peace carries its own unique frequency and once you tune into it, energy wrapped in false light becomes too loud to ignore.

Seli la ka, mponesetse tsela, Ke tsamaee; Ho lefifi, hape ho sebaka, Ntsamaise! Ha u le teng, ha ke batle tsebo Ea ntho tsohle, uena, u ntekane. Khale ke ne ke sa u lakatse Ka ithata Ke ne ke re ke ‘na ea bohlale Ka itšepa Empa joale ke ntse ke itšaba Se hopole boikhantšo joa

A person doesn’t have to drain you only through arguments and fights. They can also drain you through lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of accountability, lack of acknowledgment, and by not fulfilling your love language. Pay attention to the red flags!

I’m so considerate of other people’s feelings, so when mine aren’t considered, I really take it personal.

O mphe Moya wa lesedi, Wa bophelo le matla; O mphe leha e le hlase, E bonese ka ho ‘na. O Jesu, Mong’a ka, O se ntebale le ‘na! 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

you deserve someone who can't WAIT to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. It's sooooo much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you FEEL alone.