Using the ‘hijabi muslima’ aesthetic to achieve fame and build an influencing career only to start bashing the same religion because you’ve now rebranded and are now doing the complete opposite of what the religion permits / preaches is wild to me.
They tell women to be patient and endure emotional/physical abuse for the sake of their kids but they don’t tell the men to be better men for their kids to be raised in happy homes.
I’ve made it a goal this year to completely stop going the extra mile for people I know wouldn’t do the same for me and it’s been going pretty great. Set boundaries today!
This reminds of the time my mom and brother both fell ill at the same time and were admitted in the same hospital,she would drag her drip and go to his room after every 30 minutes,she was feeling very uncomfortable not being with him,God bless our mothers❤️
I’ve recently been experiencing something very weird,I could go days without feeling any emotion,I just feel blank,not happy not sad not angry,no excitement just blank,does this come with age?😂
Dreamt I got married to someone and I have to give sadaqah and pray two raka’as in hopes that that dream doesn’t come true with the way he has been persistent 😂
My dad wore a kaftan I bought him,when I didn't notice and comment he had to bring my attention to it ''baki ga nasa kaftan din da kika siyan mu bane'',he wanted me to see him wearing it ❤️
If I and my partner can only properly cater for one kid at a particular moment,we are having one until we're comfortable enough to have more,don't be selfish by bringing kids into this world and making them suffer a life they didn't ask to live.
Okay I completely forgot to post you here (and we have a rule)😂,Happy birthday once again to the sweetest baby brother ever,Your courage and hardwork inspire me everyday,love you 💕
Earning someone’s trust has to with being as transparent as possible,making everything as clear as it needs to be,it’s not by shouting you can trust me you can trust me.
This is always how I picture my marriage,I love getting support from my significant other so I know I will give as much as I can to my husband Insha Allah.
My husband had some financial challenges but didnt want to mention to me cuz he felt he would have it al sorted out before end of month. I our daily conversations i observed he tried avoiding talks that wil make me ask about his business and all
I understood him so i didnt push
One thing about patience/tolerance is over time it builds resentment,without you even realising it & most times it takes something very little to trigger it
I just went out with my brother and we met his friend
Friend - yane,yakike?
My brother got furious and went ‘’baka iya gaisuwa bane?yaya ta ce’‘I’m sure the friend assumed I’m his girlfriend 😂,I love my brothers so much ❤️
So I was having a conversation with someone about shea butter oil and how it beautifies your skin and I then mentioned how I had to discontinue using it because of how it darkens my skin and she literally took offense and started asking me why I thought
Girls are usually emotional to things like this,it’s about the joy of spending the rest of your life with the love of your life nobody is thinking about who’s doing who a favor
Can we stop telling people that happiness is a choice when they are going through stuff?because it is not,circumstances determine all of that,no one willingly wants to be sad.
My point exactly,I feel like your relationship after marriage will be entirely different from that before marriage,it’s so important to know eachother better before bringing babies.
Eldest daughters, as your younger siblings mature, do you feel they come to appreciate you more, or do you believe they simply become accustomed to your roles?