Over the years we’ve had to extend the definition to cater for home girls who relate but do not fit the conventional first born status. If you feel our organisation caters to your needs, please join us. Whether you’re the first, middle, last born or an only child. ✨

First Born Feels: 🎶 Join us as we reminisce through melodies that resonate with the experiences of being the eldest daughter. Have a song in mind? Drop your requests in the comments below! 🩷

Eldest daughters, how do you spend your alone time?

Eldest daughter reminder: You don’t always have to have an answer. Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is admit you’re still figuring it out. You’re allowed to be uncertain, to pause, and to let life unfold without rushing to hold it all together.

Eldest daughters, at what point do you think it’s appropriate to stop paying for your siblings?

Eldest daughters, when it comes to discipline, who has more influence — you or your parents?

Eldest daughter reminder: You don’t always have to be the one who understands, fixes, or carries. Some days, you’re allowed to simply exist — quietly, imperfectly, and without purpose beyond being yourself.

Eldest daughters, at what age did you realise your parents treated you unfairly?

Quotes from Eldest daughters: Dixie D'Amelio Eldest daughters, who is your favorite eldest daughter, whether from media (such as books, movies, or TV shows) or from real life? 💕

CONFESSIONS OF AN ELDEST DAUGHTER

@HomeGirlsUnite Baby Steps - Olivia Dean Self Saboteur - @jadethirlwall

Films that help eldest daughters feel seen: The Last Song The Last Song follows Ronnie Miller, a teen reconnecting with her estranged dad over one summer. As the eldest daughter, she carries the weight of her family’s pain, trying to hold everyone together.

First Born Feels: 🎶 Join us as we reminisce through melodies that resonate with the experiences of being the eldest daughter. Have a song in mind? Drop your requests in the comments below! 🩷

Eldest daughters, what’s your go-to way of lowering expectations?

Eldest daughter reminder: You don’t always have to have the answers. It’s okay to be uncertain, to learn as you go, and to lean on others for support. Strength isn’t about carrying it all alone — it’s about knowing you’re worthy of rest, guidance, and care too.

No one.

Notice??? 🤔 never heard of her

@HomeGirlsUnite My second lil sis 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

@HomeGirlsUnite My daughter.

@HomeGirlsUnite Not a soul ✨️

Eldest daughters, who in your family is usually the first to notice when you’re struggling?