Deepen the effect of your seduction by making its sexual culmination seem like the spiritual union of two souls.

Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious: Why are you trying so hard to please?. The details of a seduction, the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do, are often more charming and revealing.

Seducers see themselves as providers of pleasure, like bees that gather pollen from some flowers and deliver it to others.

What people lack in life is not more reality but illusion, fantasy, play.

Successful seductions begin with your character,. Your ability to radiate some quality that attracts people and stirs their emotions in a way that is beyond their control.

A seducer sees love not as sacred but as warfare, where all is fair.

A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle.

Today no political campaign can work without seduction.

Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthy, both innocent and cunning.

A seducer does not turn the power off and on,. Every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste.

Never force the physical; instead infect your targets with heat, lure them into lust. Morality, judgment, and concern for the future will all melt away.

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Manufacture the illusion of popularity by surrounding yourself with members of the opposite sex-friends, former lovers, present suitors.

Giving too much can be a sign of desperation, as if you were trying to buy someone.

When people's vanity is at risk, you can make them do whatever you want. According to Stendhal, if there is a woman you are interested in, pay attention to her sister. That will stir a triangular desire.

To capture and hold attention, you need to show attributes that go against your physical appearance, creating depth and mystery. If you have a sweet face and an innocent air, let out hints of something dark, even vaguely cruel in your character.

Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.

If no resistances or obstacles face you, you must create them. No seduction can proceed without them.

Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.

Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.