@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
I think we don't really talk enough about how much of the reflexive association of gay with pedophilia comes from the people being loudest about it extrapolating from their own experience of attraction including teens and kids, which they will also defend as right and natural.
@OwenJones84
Owen Jones
11 months
no, I don't?
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@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
The reasoning in the screenshot there is: 1. "I, a heterosexual man, am attracted to female people of all ages, including, explicitly, very young girls." 2. "You are attracted to male people the way I am attracted to female people, so you must be implicitly attracted to boys."
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@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
The same person would doubtlessly defend their self-identified attraction to minors with some evopsych nonsense about how it's "natural" to prize youth, while also insisting that it's harmless because they are constrained by accepting social bounds and fear of consequences.
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@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
But a person who is openly or identifiably gay has stepped outside of at least one boundary the homophobe strongly feels should constrain everyone, and may also be the subject of an otherwise rare opportunity for the adult male homophobe to imagine unwanted sexual attention.
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@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
So, the predatory tendencies that the homophobe allows to fester and possibly even wallows in within himself is projected onto gay people, cast as being "unnatural" in the same way that it is "natural" within himself, and then becomes a serious problem that must be addressed.
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@AlexandraErin
Alexandra Erin | patreon.com/AlexandraErin
11 months
I'm referring to a male homophobe in these tweets as I suspect this is a strongly gendered phenomenon, but it's hardly exclusively the province of one gender. See Germaine Greer, and also the misogynistic apologetics of grown women who are quick to believe girls "tempt" grown men
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@typingloudly
Typing Loudly ⌨️
11 months
@AlexandraErin @molly0xFFF Every accusation is a confession.
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@dauntlessdalton
david zaslav haters club
11 months
@AlexandraErin Is there a single conservative who isn’t a pedophile? Seems unlikely
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@alketrolyat
tekla 💜✨
11 months
@AlexandraErin “it’s fine when I do it, somehow”
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@ThermKitty
account inactive
11 months
@AlexandraErin He really just tried to pull a "we are ALL pedophiles on this blessed day :)" like it was nothing
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@chel_c_cam
Chelsea M. Cameron
11 months
@AlexandraErin It’s PEAK “my experiences are universal truth”
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@CuddlePotato
Shin Megami Tenser's Floating Disc
11 months
@AlexandraErin God you could write a doctoral thesis on that paragraph, but the core is "Liking women is fine. Liking men is fine. Liking girls is fine. Liking boys is wrong." UH hang on go back one???
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@o76923
James Endicott
11 months
@AlexandraErin Thanks to people like Ray Blanchard and Michael Seto, teleiophilia (sexual attraction to adults) means over 15±3. To be consistent with other chronophilias, it uses Tanner stages instead of age. Transphobes define pedophilia around their attraction to minors.
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@steubens7
furtive pygmy (parody) 💨
11 months
@AlexandraErin @hungrybowtie if you've ever interacted with catholic posters, this is the one move; they do the no true scotsman and "they were gay and not part of the church"; they're locked in, there's so much abuse they see in their church & this is how they ignore it
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@SorexOrnatus
🍉 כּלבֿטע
11 months
@AlexandraErin "I am a pedophile, therefore you are a pedophile" is a hell of an argument.
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@mobiledorktoo
Jeffrey Young
11 months
@AlexandraErin The last people I want to be bothered with are children. I barely want to be bothered with ADULTS. The Peter Pan syndrome of eternal youth by association is a toxic masculinity/patriarchy psychosis, not a sexual identity.
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@kozuruba
Scubistacy
11 months
@AlexandraErin Similar reasoning: If a man is willing to r*pe someone he expects that a gay man would do the same to him.
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@pharmasean
pensive calypso music
11 months
@AlexandraErin So much of anti-LGBTQ bigotry is rooted in unexamined anti-maleness, meaning an ingrained belief that within all men lies a dormant sexual predator waiting to emerge, and that desire to predate is what motivates gay/trans folks. It’s a real self-indictment
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