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my BDSM archetype is "Heartless Use" lmfao
(link to quiz below)
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Sexual fetishes on the political compass, men and women. Total sample size was over 19,000!
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schools should include a class called Truth Is Hard, where u get bombarded with examples of confused eyewitnesses, incorrect public outrages, studies that failed to replicate, super convincing arguments that fall apart with one additional fact u didn't expect, etc.
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ive been doin lots of reading bout native american tribes and theres so many stories like "and then they slowly roasted a 6 year old girl to death" or "then they sliced the bottoms off his feet and made him walk over coals" that im like idk mebbe colonialism was an improvement?
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one of my partners once was like 'you're not that pretty' during a tender moment
i rolled over in the fetal position and groaned for like an hour, and then he went and made me an im sorry card out of construction paper and markers and stickers
being a girl’s boyfriend is all about committing to the bit that she is a 10/10 and the most beautiful woman you have ever seen
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for my birthday, my partner and some friends organized a huge bang gang for me, with 42 attendees! Here's the breakdown of how the event was organized, exit survey statistics, and what it was like for me psychologically. 1/
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Last year an FBI agent showed up at my house and told me I was under arrest and to come with him.
Except it wasn't the FBI, it was a stalker impersonating the FBI and trying to kidnap me.
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Porn is the canary in the coal mine. Wherever freedom gets eroded, porn is the first to go, because so few people are willing to publicly defend it.
You might cheer if it gets banned, but wait until something you value becomes the thing nobody's willing to publicly defend.
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the more i learn about statistics the more horrified i get at how much personal interpretive choice is at play at every step of the process. i came in expecting a hard science and feel like i'm getting slapped with way more art than i expected
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after a lifetime of defiantly not running, I have finally started running and i regret to report that it seems to have improved my life in every way. mood, energy, sleep quality, even *desire to do work*.
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Imagine a circle laid flat on a table, with a little spinner on it that you can flick. The circle is 80% red and 20% yellow, like a yellow pie slice.
You flick the spinner. It spins, and slowwwly stops.
Where did it land?
On the red
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one of the most ominous papers i've read, where ppl training AI to discover ways to improve human health instead go "hm, i wonder what happens if we just flip the direction of training from 'help' to 'hurt'"
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Well actually fuck the nyt. I felt roughly neutral about them but now that I saw them write about a topic I'm deeply familiar with I realize how actually inaccurate and misrepresenting and unethical they are.
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hate to break it to you but the anti-woke stuff isn't turning out to be a shining beacon of principled reasonableness either
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My 2022 in stats! Image is my mood each day
And some # - how many times I ___ this year:
went outside: 222
pooped: 194
socialized: 165
worked: 137
took adderall: 126
drank alcohol: 118
danced: 64
had sex: 63
cried: 59
wrote: 51
gamed: 44
had a good meal: 42
showered: 37
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If you swap the races in a conversation and it suddenly feels like a KKK meeting, then the discourse is bad.
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it really feels like the internet is getting sanitized. Stuff used to be the wild west but content is gravitating to bigger platforms, which are getting more prudish along every dimension. I think we're exiting the internet golden era.
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If you're a man actually trying to date, go borrow a woman's tinder account and swipe as her for a few days. go read a friggin romance novel. Join some online ladies discussion forums about dating. Why are u trying to build a product when u haven't studied the target market?
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i have a friend who's self employed, but they've never paid taxes in... almost 10 years? they get 1099 forms and just basically ignored everything.
What happens in this case? Are they just gonna get arrested one day? There's *no* way they could ever catch up on taxes owed.
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My dad has an officially tested IQ of 146 and believes evolution is a lie. Being smart often doesn't make you right, it mostly makes you more effective at believing what you believe.
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yeah turns out it doesn't take even close to a full school day to learn. we're just making kids sit still and then wasting their entire childhood, but it feels ok because "education"
I know homeschool parents who spend less than three hours a day “doing school” and their kids test several grades above age level.
The kids spend their time building forts, climbing trees, digging holes, helping out around the house, and reading books for fun.
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fundamentalist religions have no place in our modern world. Islam as it's practiced in the middle east is an atrocity. The only version of Islam we should tolerate is the toothless, aesthetic version as practiced by progressives.
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I wonder if in the next few decades we'll see an uptick in homeschooling as a reaction to wokeness infecting the schools
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i kinda suspect women going 'men dont u dare fucking approach us, dont soil our presence by forcing us to tolerate your interest' is kinda a gigantic cultural shittest to weed out the men passive enough to obey them. Only the dominant pass the test and thus get laid.
Fact: Women do not want to be "eye candy" and have weird creeps "slip them their number" while grabbing food with friends.
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turns out neither of us knew who the guy was, we'd both assumed he was friends with the other person. It was some anon who, with a confident email intro, somehow friggin got two rando people to meet.
So impressive.
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im kinda embarrassed that, when researching racial disparities, i heard 'poverty causes crime' and just accepted that wholesale. I didn't ask myself '*how* does poverty cause crime?' or think of basic questions like 'does this rule hold true across the globe?'
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Learning Python has been really hard so far. Here's a thread of me breaking down my process of learning it from 100% scratch so far (day 2)
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ppl be like "sex with a bunch of people desensitizes you to sex and makes it less special" but ignore the fact we expect ppl to bang the same damn person for 30+ years and this is magically supposed to be immune from that same problem??
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cut my hair, felt cute, and then took the first posed sexy photos ive taken without monetary incentive in like a decade
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Not knowing too much about the middle east, I was like "idk there's rarely good guys and bad guys, I'm sure it's complicated, media can be biased, I reserve my opinion till I know more"
But the more I learn the more I'm like ok Israel seems clearly more good here
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the people have spoken
Should I continue posting clothed-but-thirst-trappy photos of me every now and then on this twitter?
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This was probably the longest interview I've ever done, and covered such a wide amount of topics. Ty so much Lex!
Here's my conversation with
@Aella_Girl
all about human sexuality. She is a sex researcher and a sex worker, who has done some of the largest psychological survey studies on these topics in the world. This conversation was fascinating and fun!
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i had no idea learning programming was such an emotional experience. like half of the process is managing rapidly alternating between feeling like im the lord almighty here to graciously gift my genius to mankind, and wanting to pour my coffee into my keyboard and die
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once someone emailed me that i should meet his friend [author], we'd get along, he made a lovely intro, mentioned mutual interests, linked my work.
so [author] and I meet for coffee, and i mentioned i was glad his friend made the recommendation.
he was like "...my who"
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it seems a lil weird that AI just casually passed the turing test without much fanfare about that milestone? The turing test was such a big conceptual landmark pre-AI, it's strange that it seems so trivial in hindsight
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when a man (correctly or not) sees me as a massive catch from the get-go, this is unfortunately unsexy. If a guy is kinda ambivalent about me, but then gradually starts perceiving me as a massive catch as he gets to know me more, this is way hotter.
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got railed by six different ppl at an orgy last night and i have a glow today, my soul is joyous, i am nourished
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in yalls older/conservative culture, the only reason men wear stuff like this is when they're being gay.
but in younger/progressive culture, men wear stuff like this to show confidence in their masculinity *despite* fem outfits. it's a high status power ploy, extremely masc
If you're into these guys, you might be on the pill
(& should consider getting off of it)
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all i want is for a warm man who smells like good hair and sweat and has broad shoulders to come over and cuddle and make me hot tea and gently walk me step by step through how to perform factor analysis on very large datasets in python
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i just want a cozy, quiet bar a 10 minute walk away from my house where my friends are already hanging out most nights of the week
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I think I would really like to have kids, except most ppl with kids seem to have an unhappier life, no free time, much higher stress, and a worse relationship with their partner. That's a scary thing to willingly enter into.
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To be fair he said it in response to me mourning that ppl are not incentivized to be honest about each other's physical appearances, he was trying to be helpful by giving me his honest opinion since I wanted ppl to be more honest
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imgur is banning nudity, all posts with nudity will be deleted.
This is probably from payment processors censorship, which is super tragic. We live in a society where massive corporations are slowly stamping out all human sexual expression online.
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I asked 600 women 'how much do you like when guys do [thing] in bed?' and also 'how much do guys actually do [thing] in bed?'
turns out there's a lot of low hanging fruit. (/1)
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Crypto rerouted a huge amount of wealth into the hands of young tech nerds who dreamed real big about how money and governance might change for the better. That alone is probably one of the best things to happen to society in the last five years.
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people who don't believe IQ is a real measure then shouldn't really care if we get the tech to do embryo selection for IQ then right? Since they'll believe we're not actually selecting for anything that has any impact?
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i keep seeing ppl saying that the jews are colonizers and palestinians have original right to the land.
idk much and i might be an idiot but um, didn't the jews start out in israel? like way back? sure u can make arguments but idk if the 'indigenous rights' one is the move here
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i think women would be generally more tolerant of men's sexism if the men were more muscular and occasionally died in war
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its fucked that our culture expects a husband not to have sex with other people in situations where his wife has lost all interest in sex (often for hormonal/biological reasons), even if he's put in good effort. We're just like 'no more sex ever again? suck it up lol'
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I used to play piano when I was a kid, and (despite not being allowed to play the game) I was obsessed with final fantasy 7 soundtrack music, but especially Sephiroth's theme One Winged Angel. Now this is the only thing I remember how to play
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I asked 499 people who were sure they *hadn't* experienced ego death, and 436 ppl who were sure they *had*, to rate 97 images on which ones they thought best represented ego death.
Here's the top images disproportionately rated as egodeathy by ppl who *hadn't* had ego death 1/
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we're in the first days of the AI revolution and i can't believe the first head under the guillotine turned out to be art
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all a girl wants is to get rammed by someone she feels accomplished for getting rammed by
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I'm gearing up for the world's greatest i-told-you-so
Daily showers are purely ‘performative’ and have no real health benefit, experts insist
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If you want people to change, you have to give them an out. When they give an apology, accept it. When they show signs of changing their mind, give them praise. When they do good, respond with warmth. If you don't give people a way to become better then they will never be better.
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Treating someone with compassion and dignity is not the same thing as believing what they believe, and philosophies that equate these two are real toxic.
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Guys r/place is so incredible it makes me want to cry. it's a visual representation of the collective memes of reddit-esque humanity; symbols abound, the larger the symbol the greater a mass of humans who've managed to coordinate behind it.
LET ME TAKE YOU ON A JORUNEY 1/
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say what u will about elon running twitter, the intense corporation (e.g. apple) pushback he's getting despite the actual rules and moderation of twitter being barely changed feels like evidence of some petty political retaliation
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i feel weird when ppl use the term "survivors" for people who went through an unpleasant but not-even-close-to-life-threatening-thing
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Sometimes it feels surreal that there's so little rape. Men are stronger and hornier and I am so grateful we live in a society where they just constantly go around not raping. Like *half* of all non-human sex is rape, but we managed to get our rape down to a tiny percentage.
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Only twitter blue ppl can vote in polls?!? God noooo, please no, don't destroy sample size, twitter polls are so fun with the sample size, this is like 90% of what twitter is for. I'm gonna DIEEE
Starting April 15th, only verified accounts will be eligible to be in For You recommendations.
The is the only realistic way to address advanced AI bot swarms taking over. It is otherwise a hopeless losing battle.
Voting in polls will require verification for same reason.
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Just saw this in a FB group. The comments strongly disapproved of this meme. Guess what aspect of this meme was upsetting for them.
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once years ago twitter was cancelling me for smthn dumb and they were demanding i apologize. i was like 'but i didn't do anything wrong' and they were like 'how could you think that when hundreds of people are demanding you apologize'
i still think bout that sometimes
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who the hell thought it would be a good idea to shove a bunch of kids of the same age into a room for most of the day and let them figure out social interactions from *other kids their age*?? For like, *all* of childhood and teenage years? What the fuck are we doing
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all the dudes i know with high bodycounts, tend to be mostly banging women who have high bodycounts. it's less 'preying on wholesome, virginal women' and more 'all the sluts are in a giant slutcloud fucking each other'
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One of the things that makes me most pessimistic about the future of human civilization is that we have no system for evolving new nations and methods of governance. There's no experimentation, no way to make your own country and actually try new things.
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Onlyfans ranking % and how much actual money that corresponds to:
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If your friend is shitting on someone it's socially acceptable to shit on, consider that perhaps the only thing preventing them from shitting on you isn't kindness or principles, but rather fear of social punishment.
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ew who wants a slutty man? banging so many vaginas until his dick compacts down smaller? virgin men have the biggest, uncompacted penises. get yourself a pure man, not a manwhore with a run-over cucumber
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I love partner dancing, here's a video of some practice! As usual, this is fully improvised. My background is ballroom, his is blues, and this dance is a swing-influenced fusion.
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should I start a "how to get laid" class for men so I can increase the chances I get properly seduced
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I regularly am open about vulnerable or unflattering parts about myself despite this causing thousands of ppl to dunk on me, because it feels important to demonstrate that self acceptance and freedom from shame is possible even in the face of intense social pressure
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lol i just heard about a friend of a friend who wanted to find girls to date, so he built a high end matchmaking website and paid a charismatic lady to go around recruiting women to sign up for the site.
Except nobody else was on the site, everybody just matched with him.
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imma say it, i think ppl's inability to consider morally charged hypotheticals is a sign that society is bad at thinking.
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some men be like 'i could never date a girl who bangs other guys'
sure but also you haven't seen true wingmannery until you've had a gf rep for you. little is more powerful than a girl goin 'my bf is incredible at sex u should try him out' to her horny girlfriends
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Also the other card on the fridge behind that one is from an incident all y'all would find much worse (but I find less worse) so I'm not gonna show u lol
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here we go again, my 2023 in stats. Image is my mood each day.
# of days in the year I ___
went outside: 248
socialized: 171
pooped: 192
worked: 162
took a stimulant: 71
drank alcohol: 121
danced: 65
had sex: 39
cried: 55
wrote: 38
gamed: 73
had a good meal: 53
showered: 37
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