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              • Gojo’s side piece • I crochet • Med student • feminist
              
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           women's obsession with trying to make themselves seem dumb and inferior fascinates me specially when you consider the fact even the most stupid man alive would never degrade himself in such a way 
          
          
                
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             we're never making it out of the patriarchy 
          
          
                
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             Oh. I may be too woke fr 
           I told the Man I’m dating that he hasn’t actually asked me to be his GF so its technically not official until then. He said he’s not asking me because 1. We too grown and I’m not a girl. I’m a grown woman and he refers to me as his “Lady” 2. Asking me would imply that I have a 
          
                
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             not to mention that it’s also just so draining to be so constantly and cautiously strategising every move you make bc you’re so afraid of being taken advantage of 
           i say this with love; girls, i'm not saying the extent of your kindness should be experienced by every man you meet but please get it out of your head that you can withhold consideration and care and still be seen as someone worth being with. the internet is lying to you 
          
                
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             Mental hell lmfao 
           Okay, I also hate the overthinking that comes with this, especially if you love them. It makes me feel disorganized. Like I will feel restless and uncomfortable. Just let me know what's going on please. Archived their chats, still me checking if they've replied. God abeg o. 😭 
          
                
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             as someone who struggles to ask for help, acts of service is really up there for me. having someone who willingly tends to you without you asking, someone who quietly does things for you because they want to. to be considered? greatest measure of care. 
          
                
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             If I threw up in a man’s car, personally I’d ghost out of embarrassment 😭 Wth am I supposed to say to him after that? Worse if it’s a man you’re just getting to know too 💀 
          
                
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