@thekayanova
KAYA NOVA
2 years
I think that may be the first time I’ve heard someone champion solitude and partnership at the same time, and that’s beautiful. Because more of us need to know we get to evolve in and out of love. And that endings of things also represent success too.
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@thekayanova
KAYA NOVA
2 years
Tia Mowry said her marriage was successful, but it ended because she had evolved. She spoke about divorce being a “graduation” not a failure, that success in a marriage is not about longevity but if two people are happy together. That message is gonna save some lives for real.
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@thedigitalyenta
Olivia (she/her)
2 years
@thekayanova This is exactly why I founded @FreshStartsHere - divorce is a gift. It’s a celebration!!
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@savedbythbelle
Ol’ Busty Bastard
2 years
@thekayanova the message i didn’t know i needed
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@Ballerb601
BlackMajesty
2 years
@thekayanova Marriage isn't about your feelings & love. It's a sacred bond by God that tie you to responsibility & expectations. Its used to carry on your legacy by a man & woman working together as a team for their offspring. If you don't understand marriage you shouldn't get married.
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@billygoatblanks
Billy Blanks
2 years
@thekayanova As a man I support this 100%. So can we please stop pretending by wasting $10,000 on rings, $3000 on dresses...not to mention $30000 on the actual wedding and not risk losing half??? Let people just cohabitate until either one of them gets bored ..
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@SullyTheeDragon
SullyTheeDragon
2 years
@thekayanova think you're confused because of the conflicting points and instead of actively questioning what's really at play, you're trying to find beauty in it because it's a Woman taking a "brave" stance on giving up her husband. Yet marriage is a covenant til death, so is this beautiful
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@Cashmanjnr
𝗢𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗢𝗻 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲_The Inner You
2 years
@thekayanova Success is measured by attaining of the envisioned end goal.
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@Godiswise
Financial
2 years
@thekayanova We evolve out of lust and infatuations. True agape Love never dies. Lost of income, lost of job, illness, sickness or conflict may lead to counseling or treatment. However, true Love never dies!
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@PopCultureBits
Poppy Poppins.
2 years
@thekayanova It’s crazy because 1 of the first comments I saw under her video was how you could hear pain in her voice & TO ME I heard growth & peace in her tone. Seemed like it was overdue & she just came to the realization. We’ll never truly know the details but I think she’ll be just fine
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@hereasista
Lisa Ratliff
2 years
@thekayanova No you are justifying failure 34 years I know, you all are spreading Misinformation. When she looked cute while being married, you all grinned and wanted to be like her. Now she is lying to wrap her image in. Divorce is crazy hard children hurt and Tia is hurting stop the madness
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@SerendipityNTC
Sena
2 years
@thekayanova People evolve in relationships, when growth occurs adaptation is needed to accommodate it. When this is lacking then the growth collapses. The ability to evolve and adapt is what determines the success/failure of any relationship IMHO 🤷🏽‍♀️
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@PragueM3
First Last
2 years
@thekayanova I believe you have to periodically fall in love again. Your significant other changes as time goes by. Marriage is a work in progress.
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@CbTooReal06
Christopher Luther King ✊🏿🔴⚫🟢
2 years
@thekayanova Okay, men don't marry these women. Because they will break up the family at anytime fir their own selfish reasons and call it beautiful.
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@MilagroNero
Milagro
2 years
@thekayanova Lol, maybe you shouldn't get married then. If you so believe you could be graduating or that someday you would want to evolve, then simple don't get married. Just be partners, date y'all selves and graduate into separation later. It's not that hard.
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@KIDGoggles
K.I.D.Goggles
2 years
@thekayanova But we Will and Jada stay together using basically the exact same reasoning I feel like it wasn't received the same way
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@annabeth2004
Pusheenie
2 years
@thekayanova that depends on what she defined as success going in. if she went into the marriage thinking this, then yeah, success. but going into a marriage thinking divorce is a good thing may not be a great mentality.
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@DAW_IT
Dave
2 years
@thekayanova You know what, just shut the whole account down. Not everyone should have internet
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@NatchezIndian
CuhzitsCooper
2 years
@thekayanova Marriage was a God sent concept.. Now look at this.. a “contract”
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@CoreyCu47812086
Corey C
2 years
@thekayanova If you evolved beyond marriage (the streets) doesn’t that defeat the purpose of marriage?
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@LadyThorpe82
Temi Tope
2 years
@thekayanova So why bother to get married in the first place??? Why not just move in with a dude you fancy, live with him for a bit, and then when you "evolve", you pack your things and move out? Isn't that better for everyone?
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