I think that may be the first time I’ve heard someone champion solitude and partnership at the same time, and that’s beautiful. Because more of us need to know we get to evolve in and out of love. And that endings of things also represent success too.
Tia Mowry said her marriage was successful, but it ended because she had evolved. She spoke about divorce being a “graduation” not a failure, that success in a marriage is not about longevity but if two people are happy together. That message is gonna save some lives for real.
@thekayanova
Marriage isn't about your feelings & love. It's a sacred bond by God that tie you to responsibility & expectations. Its used to carry on your legacy by a man & woman working together as a team for their offspring. If you don't understand marriage you shouldn't get married.
@thekayanova
As a man I support this 100%. So can we please stop pretending by wasting $10,000 on rings, $3000 on dresses...not to mention $30000 on the actual wedding and not risk losing half??? Let people just cohabitate until either one of them gets bored ..
@thekayanova
think you're confused because of the conflicting points and instead of actively questioning what's really at play, you're trying to find beauty in it because it's a Woman taking a "brave" stance on giving up her husband.
Yet marriage is a covenant til death, so is this beautiful
@thekayanova
We evolve out of lust and infatuations. True agape Love never dies. Lost of income, lost of job, illness, sickness or conflict may lead to counseling or treatment. However, true Love never dies!
@thekayanova
It’s crazy because 1 of the first comments I saw under her video was how you could hear pain in her voice & TO ME I heard growth & peace in her tone. Seemed like it was overdue & she just came to the realization. We’ll never truly know the details but I think she’ll be just fine
@thekayanova
No you are justifying failure 34 years I know, you all are spreading Misinformation. When she looked cute while being married, you all grinned and wanted to be like her. Now she is lying to wrap her image in. Divorce is crazy hard children hurt and Tia is hurting stop the madness
@thekayanova
People evolve in relationships, when growth occurs adaptation is needed to accommodate it. When this is lacking then the growth collapses. The ability to evolve and adapt is what determines the success/failure of any relationship IMHO 🤷🏽♀️
@thekayanova
Lol, maybe you shouldn't get married then. If you so believe you could be graduating or that someday you would want to evolve, then simple don't get married.
Just be partners, date y'all selves and graduate into separation later. It's not that hard.
@thekayanova
that depends on what she defined as success going in. if she went into the marriage thinking this, then yeah, success. but going into a marriage thinking divorce is a good thing may not be a great mentality.
@thekayanova
So why bother to get married in the first place???
Why not just move in with a dude you fancy, live with him for a bit, and then when you "evolve", you pack your things and move out? Isn't that better for everyone?