I say this as someone approaching 30 who is freaking out about it. But then I think— other than societal BS that shames women for getting older, I wholeheartedly do not want to be in my early to mid 20s again lol I love what I’ve been able to evolve into & understand about me.

I feel like me at 30 will be amazing. Me at 40 will be amazing. Me at 50 will also be amazing. Like I don’t ever want to feel like I have to stop the journey of being and expressing myself because of my age. Life continues AND the bag will only get bigger. I want to embrace it.

@thekayanova I keep telling people the 40’s are lit AF!

@thekayanova I am 34 and 30s so far are so amazing. Literally your brain isn’t even done developing until 25..20s hype and glorification is so overrated and harmful

@thekayanova How exciting is that ✨

@thekayanova Agreed. I have no intentions on dying my grey hair as they continue to come in. It’s such a beautiful thing to see. It is apart of the aging process, no need to hide it.

@thekayanova I'm 38 and I've only felt free enough to operate in my true self 2 yrs ago. Oh life is just getting good

@thekayanova It’s lowkey lovely in a lot of ways. I think I’m a way more interesting person at this age. I just do more things, have more hobbies and interests. Way more comfortable in my skin and self.

@thekayanova Pls tell ‘em again! I’m almost 50, and so many things are getting so much better over here!

@thekayanova Honestly as someone who’s had adrenal issues since I hit puberty I already got grey hair by age 11 so I said fuck it imma just be happy your body doesn’t always need to determine your level of enjoyment in life.

@thekayanova Some ppl act like life is over once u hit 30! I enjoyed my 30s.. grew up.. matured.. meet interesting ppl..did some traveling...had my 2nd child.. now I'm bout to close this chapter n get ready for 40! I love salt n pepper hair.. I'm ready😂

@thekayanova My 20's literally been my worst decade

@thekayanova @theroyalbadness I'm over 50. I say, keep the birthdays coming please. Most of you will feel the same way. Life is good.

@thekayanova FYI, the years between 35 and 55 fly by in a blink. Best advice: learn what your “homeostasis”point feels like then always honor it. Work/Life balance, getting needs met w effective communication, equal exchange of energy in close relationships, what is nurturing/nourishing etc.

@thekayanova @themightytrqmul I’m in my early 30’s and could not imagine having to endure my 20’s ever again. It was a rough road that paved the way to my being able to be so independent and happy now. It really does only get better! 🧡🖤

@thekayanova @evelynvwoodsen I’ve been saying for the longest that I can’t wait to hit my thirties bc the twenties are soooo ghetto. Like now is my time to figure out what I wanna do and how to get there so by my thirties I get to enjoy it

@thekayanova Turning 30 next month and I’m feeling this in a deeper level🤍🤍

@thekayanova @maracharese Enjoy the journey. Each year, the more comfortable in your skin, better financial decisions are made, nurture the relationships that serve you, let dead weight go. Wishing you a smooth ride. ❤️