TechFreq
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Joined August 2011
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When someone assumes your feelings instead of asking, reacts instead of listening, and rewrites your intentions instead of hearing your truth, the relationship stops being safe. Leaving isnāt giving up ā itās refusing to lose yourself.
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Love isnāt just effort or emotion. Itās follow-through, honesty, boundaries, and repair. I stayed, tried, supported, and explained ā but I canāt be responsible for healing wounds I didnāt create or fixing patterns I didnāt control.
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Doing āeverythingā except listening, respecting boundaries, and taking accountability still leaves damage. Love shouldnāt feel like defending yourself constantly or proving your innocence.
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I didnāt walk away from love. I walked away from repeated misunderstandings, broken promises, financial imbalance, and being blamed for things I didnāt do. That decision came after months of trying, not one argument.
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I cared deeply. I showed up. I paid, planned, supported, and stayed longer than was healthy. At some point, protecting your peace isnāt cruelty ā itās survival.
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Sometimes people rewrite the story because facing the full truth would require accountability. I know what I did, what I asked for, and why I finally stopped asking.
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I didnāt leave because I didnāt love hard enough. I left because love without accountability, trust, consistency, and respect becomes a cycle of blame and fear. I tried to talk, fix, wait, explain, and stay. Walking away was choosing mental health after patterns didnāt change
My loss? No, your loss. You lost a woman who would do everything just to see you happy. A woman who gave her time and efforts just so you could feel loved and appreciated. You lost a woman who kept trying to fix things even when she was the one hurting, just so you wouldn't
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Being misunderstood hurts. But being blamed for things you didnāt do hurts worse. Explaining your pain doesnāt matter if the other person only hears what protects their narrative. I didnāt break promises. I stopped accepting patterns that kept repeating.
Getting betrayed by someone you've explained your pain to, someone who knows your past and what you've had to overcome, and then they go ahead to do the exact same thing they promised never to do. This is one of the worst ever. It breaks you completely.
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I be so drained when someone turns out to be inconsistent, inconsiderate, and insensitive. Like why did I allow myself to stress over you in the first place
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A lot of relationships fail because women forget their MAN happiness matters too!
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they swear they don't wanna lose you but act like they ain't tryna keep you either
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I used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they donāt understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
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Women donāt say āletās break up.ā They mistreat you, become inconsistent, wait for you to leave, and then blame you for walking away.
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Damaging someoneās nervous system or mental state should be a crime.
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your partner, is supposed to be your safe space, not another battle in your life.
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I kept trying while being blamed, assumed, and punished for things I didnāt do. Hurt doesnāt excuse hurting someone else, and apologies donāt mean much when the same behavior keeps repeating itself. Accountability goes both ways.
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When someone constantly assumes the worst of you, you donāt just feel misunderstood, you start questioning your own reality.
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Theyāll pretend it was miscommunication to dodge the truth that they knew exactly what they were doing.
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