Soymeii
@soymeii
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You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.
Joined February 2024
my mom didn't raise a quitter, she raised someone so afraid of failure that they don't even start something.
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my toxic trait is that i don't feel any sense of accomplishment after achieving something. just a mild sense of relief that it's done.
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it's very manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours”, as if when we are happy and being kind, we're being fake.
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have you ever?? been annoyed by someone's mindset?? like you can't believe they actually think like that??.
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did it hurt? when you had to fade your voice out while you were telling a story to a group of people once you realized nobody was really paying attention?.
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not getting excited about your own birthday.
What’s worse than a heartbreak.
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someone said, “the reason you isolate when you're struggling is because you were left alone as a child to deal with your emotions” and i felt that.
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how anti-social are you? i can stay in my house for 1 week straight without getting bored as long as i have food and good internet.
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how embarrassing is it when you talk so highly about someone who ends up disappointing you.
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you think you're asking for too much until you find someone who does it all naturally.
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“be the bigger person” be sounding a lot like “accept the disrespect”.
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my idgaf era only lasts about 8 hours and then suddenly i'm in bed sobbing about everything that has ever happened to me.
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sorry for over-explaining myself, i got yelled at a lot as a child.
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do you guys say "my mom" or "our mom" when talking to your siblings?.
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have you ever typed a message but halfway through you think “you know what, they don't even care” and deleted.
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y'all ever feel like your mouth is stupid but your mind is smart? like you're intelligent but you can't express it when you're speaking? it's so frustrating.
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have you ever lost all respect for someone? like you don't hate them but you don't feel the need to associate yourself or say anything to them anymore.
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yeah breakups hurt, but have you ever been a super talkative, enthusiastic person but slowly over the years and after trauma you watch yourself become more quieter and quieter to the point where that enthusiastic bubbly person just isn't who you are anymore?.
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i’m a short-term memory girlie who likes to read, i will forget everything that happened in a book and call it my favorite book of all time.
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i lowkey feel bad for not checking up on the people i care about, but then i remember the phone goes both ways and no one checks up on me.
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i love smart people who can teach me stuff without making me feel dumb for not knowing it.
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can we just admit that we all lost a bond with someone this year that we wanted to last forever.
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she’s a 10 but doesn’t know how to regulate her emotions and goes from super obsessed to completely cold.
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YOUR FRIEND who’s NOT MY FRIEND should never know my business.
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it's always “be nice to your parents, they did so much for you” but never “be gentle to your child, she's trying her best to continue with life just to make you proud”.
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i lowkey don't wanna tell anyone what's going on in my life anymore.
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having shitty mental health but your personality is naturally bubbly and outgoing is the most confusing thing. a constant battle of emotions.
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can??? we??? normalize??? being??? concerned??? to??? someone??? without any??? romantic??? feelings??? involved???.
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sometimes as an adult you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” & stand on it. rather that be family, a relationship or a friendship.
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stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone.
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girl culture is holding hands in crowded places so no one gets lost.
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do?? you?? ever?? read?? an?? old?? conversation?? and be like “wow, i miss this moment”.
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i can’t explain my music type, it’s just every song except the ones i don’t like.
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maturing is realizing that one deep talk and apology can fix a lot of things but a lot of people ain't mature enough for that.
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have you ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don't say anything, but in your head you detach yourself from them completely.
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i'm not a fan of flowers before until someone gave it to me without having to ask. that's when i realized i'm not fan of asking, i want something to come naturally. without begging. i want someone willingly to give me the things that i deserve.
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for me, the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make u feel. pays attention to detail. holds u in regard when making decisions that could affect u. in any bond, how much they care about u can be found in how much they consider u.
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i hate being yelled at, like there are so many ways to effectively communicate without raising your voice at me.
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everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are.
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people don't understand how draining it can be to try to explain what's happening inside your head when you're struggling to understand it yourself. there are times when you just unintentionally feel sad and start to feel alone.
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she doesn't know how to ask for help. she just disappears and comes back when she's better. take good care of her.
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“you handled it so well” thank you (i cried everything as if it's the last straw).
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have you ever just randomly cried because you've been holding shit in for too long?.
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do you??? ever get??? second hand happiness??? like someone is happy??? so you're happy??? because they're happy???.
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no one talks about how hard it is when your mood is constantly switching between "it's okay, i don't care. i'm fine" and "i don't know how much more i can take".
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stop being considerate in situations where you aren’t considered.
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i'm officially in my quiet era. whatever happens, happens. i don’t have much to say about anything anymore. it is what it is and life goes on.
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anxiety fucking sucks. you unintentionally make yourself sad, you feel alone even when you're not, and sometimes you don't even know what's wrong.
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honestly i can't find anything more peaceful than sleeping during the day to avoid everyone, and staying up through the night because it's the only time when everything is quiet.
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i don't understand why people are so afraid of communicating like adults. don't like me? tell me. don't wanna talk to me? don't ignore me. you're mad at me? express yourself. i'm wrong? explain. we don't agree? share your viewpoints. it's not that hard lol.
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you never realized how fucked up someone treated you until you explain it to someone else.
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"communication is key" but so is a sense of understanding. if i tell you something and you are not willing to see where i'm coming from, then what's the point of telling you anything.
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maybe in another life i am easier to love and easier to handle.
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lord please let the tables turn, i'm so tired. let me experience genuine things in life.
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“you’re so distant now” you made me feel unwanted so i fell back.
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i always claim to be independent, but deep inside it melts me when someone does something for me without being asked. it's a reminder that being independent doesn't mean being on your own all the time.
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i’m a very observant person, so if you think i didn’t notice, i did. i just decided to keep quiet.
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in my era of giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. i accept you as you are and reject you.
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do you ever get mad at yourself because you’re not even good at the things you thought you were good at?.
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when i went to my notes to find my password but accidentally opened the most gut-wrenching, emotionally charged paragraph i had written months ago.
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i can't be a giver anymore. i want to be loved, nourished, taken care of, spoiled and prioritized. not just by words, by actions too.
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i'm naturally a loner. even towards my own family. i don't care to be in someone's face. i'm clingy when i love someone, but the distance i can give a person is unreal.
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i apologize if my isolation feels like rejection to you, but if i don't put myself first i'm going to break.
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be so fucking proud of yourself for passing the hardest moments alone while everyone believed you were fine.
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female rage is pretending to not be upset about something you have every right to be upset about.
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nothing hurts more than wiping your own tears, knowing that you can’t tell anyone about the things you were crying about.
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yes, i cry a lot in bed. but no, not always because of boys and love. mostly because of money, my mom, friends, studies and why the hell am i not good enough.
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i hate my period because it's either i cry a lot or i get mad over literally everything.
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it's annoying as hell when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if you did it to them.
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i cringe sooooooo hard when i think about some moments in my life like WHY DID I EVER DO THAT.
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i wish i had the money for all the outfit ideas i have in my head 😭.
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i used to believe i was toxic, and i was. but i was only toxic because i needed a defense mechanism. i'm not toxic to those who are kind to me, who don't belittle me, and who make me feel loved. i'm nice, kind, and loving until i'm given a reason not to be.
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i don't think people understand how hard it is when your toxic trait is self isolation + avoidance, everybody instantly think you're ignoring them but you're just struggling to find peace.
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me crying in the middle of the night because i don't understand what i'm feeling. everything is built up, sadness, anger and guilt.
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born to say "please don't leave me" forced to say "do whatever you want".
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i got called lazy by people who didn't even know i was trying to keep myself alive.
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“my child is fine” . your child stays up until a ridiculous time of night/morning because they feel it's the only time they're free of pressure and expectations and can be totally alone and just vibe being themself for a little while.
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i love when i realize i'm handling situation better than my old self would have.
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"stop being sensitive" no‚ you stop being insensitive. respect how people respond to things and situations what’s little for you might big to others. if you can’t empathize with other people’s emotions‚ at least learn to respect different levels of sensitivity.
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i passed my hardest moments alone while everyone believed i was fine.
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“girls support girls” nah, i only support nice and respectful girls who know their boundaries as they should. gorgeous women should only support nice girls‚ periodt.
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my twenties have taught me that people really are THAT horrible and they would really do you like THAT.
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i saw a post today that said, "when you finally learn your place in people's lives, your feelings won't get hurt" and i swear that's the truth and one of the most important life lesson you will learn. whether it's family, friends, or whoever.
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my mom said, “there are hearts that do not know how to hate no matter how much they have been wronged” and i felt it on another level.
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I can’t believe i allowed myself to be disrespected so many times just because i care about other people’s feelings more than mine. never again.
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to avoid disappointment, stop seeing the good in people and start seeing exactly what they've shown you.
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