Solaris 🇺🇦
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I am getting blackmailed in a very stupid way and I've decided to share my story today 🔽
1. Year ago I've started "e-dating" a person I met through mutual friends.
2. During that time (autumn) we shared some private pictures.
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3. After meeting him IRL I've decided to stop that, because he was acting really weird, drained me mentally and seemed to be lying a lot. It didn't seem like a big deal, because we were never in a relationship to begin with.
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4. Even though I said I'm not interested in continuing that communication he insisted about "being friends someday again".
5. In spring he started accusing me in "abandoning him"/"playing with other people and not inviting him".
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7. When he came he just stayed at my place for a whole week playing dota on my pc and watching reels on the sofa. He went to "see friends" twice, and both time it was less than 4 hours. I think, second time was even less then 2. When train to Frankfurt takes at least 50 minutes.
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6. Later on he started talking about how he's gonna "visit his friends in Frankfurt but hotels are so expensive". I've offered to stay at my place, since it has enough space + I've expected him to be gone most of time.
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Also, I felt like I owe him because i stayed 2 days at his place (even though he wanted me to visit?). Obviously, it was a mistake, but what done is done. At that time I still thought of him as a harmless person, who might be dealing with mental health troubles.
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8. Last day he did things that he admitted was a sexual assault. He even said that words in text afterwards, but when i checked my history, the messages were gone, and it looks like I've had conversation with myself.
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9. He also gave me a speech about how he has a debt, a health problems, that his cat died the day he was here and plenty of other things that he later said was a lie (except the cat) as an excuse of why "he wasn't himself and did all that".
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10. After he left, I've tried to stop any communication but shortly after that he started going very wild and saying he's gonna "off himself" and how he just needs help and so on. There was at least two acts of "I took pills, please forgive me, goodbye" (obviously he was fine).
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I have nothing to be ashamed or afraid of. If he decides to share the photos, or my address (which doesn't matter anymore since I'm moving), I will try to deal with that legally.
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11. When he realized that suicide strat is not working, he started blackmailing me with photos he kept from almost a year back.
He kept changing demands: "please ban me in your chat so everyone knows im shit or I leak", "can we be friends again? you are a bad person too, admit
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you are a bad person or I'll leak", "don't you dare telling anyone about what happened or I will leak".
12. Why haven't I blocked/banned? I was pretty stressed about that possible leak and I hoped I might talk my way out of it. Hoped he might get bored, or find something else to
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Obviously, I don't want my private photos leaked on the internet. If there was a way to prevent that, I would gladly do so, but since it's too late I guess there's only one thing to say: I'm a grown up person, in a free country, who used to have some personal life in the past and
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focus on.
Beside that issue, he knew my address, and also mentioned he's gonna "dox" me.
13. He really tried to get an excuse to harm me - was trying to make me ban him, was acting like "i know you told people about what happened, now you gonna pay" (I didn't tell anyone about SA
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> u're a female dota2 player
>playing doto for 10 years
>more matches than irl interactions
> a guy comes to your chat to explain you how manta works
10/10 coaching, would ask again
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messages are still there, so I assume he perfectly knew what he was doing.
15. I do not have a proof of a SA, I also don't have most messages with blackmail saved. And I understand some people might not trust me, but I at least have a bunch of screenshots to prove some parts of
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14. When I figured, I don't want to be dealing with this anymore and it's better to share the story, I've realized he deleted not just the recent history, but messages from WAY back. On both instagram and discord. He did not delete the whole history, the memes and harmless
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because beside not having any proof, I felt like that shit is not something I want to share). When I started a stream he'd just type some emoji or "lul" just to make me open discord and see another message of blackmail.
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that story - the "suicide", the last blackmail, the part with "I've made everything up". Also, I'm sure some of people who knows that person and me could confirm some of the events I've described. Having that. I hope that is enough to at least prove that the story is not madeup
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with constant background stress.
The last drop for me was message saying "if I hear about it from anyone, it's over for you".
The person, who's been terrorizing me for months, lied to me countless times and sexually assaulted me, acts like I'm the one to be afraid and ashamed?
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16. I've had some problems eating, sleeping and it was hard to remain pma or neutral during last streams, which I'm sorry for, because I didn't enjoy bringing the despair vibe to my viewers. Getting this off my shoulders, I hope I will feel more comfortable and won't have to deal
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Made it to Poland. Giga exhausted but will keep going to Warsaw
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@sxndrxdee
thank you, I just hope he didnt borrow any money from you because after posting this I've heard bunch of stories how he borrowed $$ for his "cat treatment" after leaving Germany
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dressing up to stay home and take a selfie because why not
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Why share the story? To feel better. To get rid of constant stress. To not be silent about the shit that I was trying to keep private for too long, til the point it started hurting my daily life a lot.
Also, to show how common and easy it is for someone to turn your life into ☠️
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I honestly had no idea my post would reach so much people and I had also no idea HOW MUCH people have had similar problem in the past
I am very glad I shared the story and that this problem is getting more visible in society
Big thanks to every kind word I've received today🥹🥹
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why do people dm their exes when they drink, personally i just wanna play dota
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Got plenty of messages which I'm really grateful for and I really want and will read and answer to every single one, but I was not expecting this big of a reaction and I will go try to get some distraction for now, so I can come back to it because I dont even know how to react rn
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choose your fighter
(i swear, i clean this mirror every day im just bad)
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unironically realised that i was the happiest when I watched anime, played OSU and listened to Avril Lavigne
TIME TO BECOME THAT HUMAN AGAIN
bonus, pic from 2018
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hi there I have 3 tickets for Berlin major (5-7th May) and I need to give them away today so if u wanna go major and feeling lucky reply with "+" and ill choose 3 random ppl later today
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So much volunteers 😭 both polish and ukr, offering food, shelter, transport and everything
Thank you Poland ❤
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whoever the fuck designed this shit should get fired if not imprisoned
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year away from home
big thanks to every person who made it possible for me to start a new life after basically losing everything♥️ cant believe i survived a whole year on my own in a foreign country with no one around (except time in spain, ty rebi you're the best)
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free tip to grow your twitter: mention "female dota palyer", add random dota experience
congratz, you have 50 random plebs explaining that not everything is about you, man have the same experience and you're such a snowflake ❄️
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Turns out it's cheaper for me to fly to Poland, take a bus to Ukraine, go to hospital and travel back
Than actually get some kind medical care in Germany
Huge despair before new years
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third grandmaster tier hero 😎
probably my favourite hero of all time, much love
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@Kipspul
we had broodmother, medusa, spectre, legion, ench and other ones that dont have any of those qualities (even though I'm not sure whats wrong with stun or mobility) so im not sure i get your point here
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hecking love getting lastpicked (most important heroes are picked last)
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feeling totally empty&unmotivated
i already barely streamed anything this month, but i probably need to have some more time cuz im being in negative mood 24/7, cant really eat and i cant do shit about it
no idea how im gonna end this phase but wish me luck and cya
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we playin It takes two with
@hoxieloxie
later today ❄️prepare yourselves for epic brain power duo!
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KLMAO I WAS SO CONFIDENT IM NOT GETTING ARCANA IN CANDYWORKS I ACCIDENTALLY SKI{PPED ONE XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
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@babyhoxie
I scrolled her insta until 2018, didn't find a single nipple. Where should I look? Asking for a friend
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lost a bet
gonna play 10 games as wr
and take a pic in a trash bag
gg
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*MindControl trashtalks russians in pub*
russians: wtf! nazi! ban him from tournaments!!!! how hateful and unacceptable😡😡
*Pure supports war and genocide of Ukraine and gets punished*
russians: wtf??? why you mix dota and politics??? he's a good player why ruin his career!!!!
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only reason why i like twitter
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played too much druid, had another dream where I have trouble getting on train because they dont wanna let my bear in
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depressed, burnt out and i really miss the bakery near my home and how i went there every day at 11pm last winter
i feel like life didnt let me relax for a day for last 20 years and if before it was making me angry and helped doing what i had to do, now im just fucking done
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Drowning in sadness last days (or weeks even?)
Feels like life is a race and I'm not even participating
Not asking for a support, just sharing 😢
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we grindin for once
(i know i will lose 500 mmr after posting this)
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THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME REACH THAT INSANE DONATION GOAL THANK YOU SO MUCH ♥️♥️
now I still need to find a place to rent, but the risk of becoming homeless is way lower
i cant express how much i appreciate it
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can wait for that point of my life where ill have a BALCONY with a SOFA and LIGHTS and PLANTS
every time i lose dota ill go to my BALCONY with tea and sit on my SOFA and enjoy the LIGHTS and stare at sky (my plan since 15yo btw)
meanwhile, alcoholism
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went to supermarket to buy soap. bought ice cream, chocolate, croissants. forgot soap
oh well
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@yxo7
@gunina_ok
на 55:45, каже "досвід роботи з буржуями, не з нашими", а наші, перпрошую це хто? не кажу вже про саме слово буржуї, ще б про піндосів запитав
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Reminder to all the backseaters: you can click this green button and try you own strat yourself!
"Buy *itemname*" - you can lasthit creeps and buy it too!
"Play *heroname*" - you will also have FREE access to all 124 heroes in dota!
Why playing dota simulator if can play dota?😉
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after almost 2 months in Frankfurt I still cant believe how happy I am 🥲 every day here is a blessing
(im not drunk just happy)
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me yestreday:
twitch the next day: NO ADS ON TWITCH TY
coincidence?🤔🤔🤔
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