after Adam Levine cheating on his wife let’s remember & normalize the fact that cheating was never about a woman’s lack of beauty, worth or anything for that matter but instead a man’s abundance of insecurities, unworthiness & desperation. don’t let men manipulate that reality
i swear you hit an age where the late nights & hangovers aren’t that fun anymore like all i wanna do is relax, bond with the people i love, save my money, get prettier & build my future
my mom used to put my clothes in the dryer before school in the winter so i’d be extra warm, straightened my hair every morning, made sure food was cooked before i got home & tickled my back while i laid on her crying during a heartbreak & that’s all i wanna be for my daughter
idk who needs to hear this but you deserve people in your life who think you’re a big deal !! no competition, no backhanded comments, no jealousy, no comparison, no hate, just “i love you & there’s no one like you & will only ever be one of you” energy 🦋
don’t know what to get your girl? candles, sugar scrubs, fuzzy socks, wine, flowers, hand written letter, her fav snacks, cozy blankets, your sweater, loyalty, 2 kids, a house & your right arm
marry the one that pursues & prays for you. marry the one that calls you back. marry the one that checks on your mental health. marry the one that would rather lose the argument than you. marry the one who puts your friendship + relationship + God before the image & romantics.
morgan wallen’s new song really has me out here hoping my exes/ old friends are thriving & living their best lives. like it’s a beautiful thing to have crossed paths with people, heard about their dreams & now see them fulfilling them today. God’s plan is always a perfect plan
morgan wallen’s new song really says i can love you more than all the things/ circumstances in this world but i can’t change WHO i am for you & honestly that’s beautiful. remember that love is about compromise & choices but you should never sacrifice YOURSELF in the process
you deserve someone who treats you right the first time, someone who shows love without you having to ask, someone who keeps their word without you having to remind them, someone who pursues YOU selflessly. don’t let anyone guilt you into settling
October will be kind to you. October will bring growth & reconnection. October will give you clarity. October will be filled with unexpected blessings & memories.🦋
marry the person who adds to your life, who boosts your confidence, influences good decisions, works hard, saves, builds towards a future, picks you up during the hard times, shows up for you during the good, is soft with your heart, gentle with your body & loves you selflessly
okay he’s cute but can he remember to pay bills on time? does he have good credit? a career? does he respect his mama? love Jesus? know how to cook? is he slow to anger? a good role model for your future children? it’s time to start holding men to the standards they hold you sis
my biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what’s going on in my life, where i am, who i’m with or my next move unless i make it KNOWN therefore anything anyone says about me is just an assumption. privacy is peace
ladies good men don’t cheat. good men don’t have back ups. good men don’t move on within a week. good men don’t intentionally hurt you. good men don’t leave you confused. good men don’t use. good men pursue. good men lead. good men reassure. good men invest in what they want
you can LITERALLY do what you want, dress how you want, act how you want, speak how you want, spend how you want, work how you want & BE however you want because what others think of you is just a perception & you’re a unique being with one life
marry the person who calls back when you hang up, who doesn’t entertain others when things get rough, who values the relationship more than temporary fixes, who would rather hurt you with the truth than ever tell a lie, who pursues you. every. day. without question
marry the person who cares about things like credit & savings, who values a relationship with Jesus, their family & friends, who would rather spend nights in with you than nights out, who understands that love is a verb not just a noun & who values your heart over material things
imagine someone loving you so much that they love you through the lows, the confusion, the uncertainty & never think twice about letting you go through it alone.. that’s love
i used to think loving people more than myself made me a good person but in reality it made me a very sad person. i had to start all over with myself & teach myself what i deserved. soft reminder that you don’t have to wait for people to care about you the way you wish they would
picture this: it’s raining, you’re in bed cuddling with the love of your life in freshly cleaned sheets, country music is playing in the background, you’re at peace, you made it
no one talks about how getting ahead can look like staying in on weekends, eating at home, watching movies with your loved one, being bored, staying sober, going on not disturb mode, routine & letting go of the fear of missing out
eventually you hit that age where you wanna live in private, love in private, be happy in private, make money in private, fail in private, get back up in private & grow in every way possible as a person.. in private
men talk about wanting a good woman but are you a good man? are you soft with her, kind to her, slow to anger, a man of your word? do you have goals & are you pursuing them? are you willing to make her a part of them? a woman will submit to a man who can lead her, remember that
September will be kind to you. September will bring growth & reconnection. September will give you clarity. September will be filled with unexpected blessings & memories.🦋
God heard the way you prayed for them but saw the way they didn’t think twice about you & that’s why He removed them from your life. you might not be able to see it now, but that is your blessing
my biggest goal in life is to make people feel seen & like they can be their authentic selves around me. you’re talking? i’m listening. need support? i got you. got a joke? i’ll laugh. you’re sad? i have a shoulder. miss me? call, i’ll answer. love is selfless & unconditional
girls who learn to love themselves after someone took that from them, who glow up & realize their worth are so hot like they’ve been through the ringer & now they’re untouchable
men who wake up at 4:30 am to go to a job where they work in heat all day, where it’s physically & mentally exhausting just to provide for their future or family deserve it all
the backbone, the trend setter, the flex, the kind of man to have
i hope you find someone who watches that video you asked them to, who respects your boundaries when you say no, who knows your orders by heart, who brings you those $5 just because flowers, who can tell your mood by the shift in your body gestures & is intentional with your heart
if he thinks a 30 minutes drive to see you is too long HMU & i’ll drive 8 hours to comfort you babygirl. always remember that people prioritize what truly matters to them
i wanna be remembered for my kindness, for showing up, for giving second chances, for acknowledging my own toxic traits & for loving selflessly. if that ain’t it then i failed horribly. remember to extend grace because we’re all just walking each other home
having a man who protects your name, defends your honor & treats you as his pride is a FLEX. having a man who sticks by your side no matter what, right or wrong, is a FLEX. a man who is selfless in love is a FLEX. men ain’t built like that these days
God is gonna wreck your world just to give you what you needed & asked for & just because the process isn’t what you expected doesn’t mean your blessings aren’t coming. He’s got you babe
she’s moving on with her life & becoming the best version of herself. she’s learning how to make herself happy & becoming a better person. she’s falling in love with herself & putting her faith in God. you won’t know how to approach her again🦋
i’m such an “i’m just tired” type person because i don’t wanna explain that i feel out of place, like my presence is unwanted, or that i’m uncomfortable when my energy is off
watching men be openly in love with their girlfriend is the cutest thing like this man really loves his little emotional human so much he just wants to protect her, spoil her, love her ahhhh & it always makes her glow & look even more beautiful being loved correctly
“if she went to a Halloween party this weekend she’s not wifey material” but let’s talk about the girls who do go out & who could pull anyone there but stay loyal or don’t entertain or speak to guys at all? wifey is a girl who’s loyal in every environment not just at home in bed