Hi yall I don't think I'll ever use this site regularly again (I am having too much fun enjoying being mentally stable now), but I am on bsky with the same handle.

for the forseeable future. If you got divorced young, especially if you're gay I would love to have any advice you have to share.

What do you want to know?.

It's completely changed how I view certain things about myself and relationships and the future and friendship and it's taking me longer than i expected to even feel the slightest bit normal since beginning the process in July. So that's context for any way that I show up.

Oh also I never shared on here, but I'm no longer married. Divorce is painful, scary, often feels shameful, but also exciting, liberating, sexy (30 year old divorcee whats not hot about that), all of these different things.

You can also find me here. Hope everyone has a good end of the year.

I’m not letting it go. Just say you made the whole thing up! It’s really quite easy. You let an incorrect tweet get engaged with by dozens of people, left it up for engagement, got caught (cause I know your ass didn’t think I would reply) and are doubling down.

How long does it take to delete a tweet that is incorrect just wondering.

And for people who engage in this behavior offline, I don't consider you trustworthy. If you're going to talk about my friends or other people online with these baseless accusations I'm going to tell you I don't feel comfortable around you.

wake up to fucking posts where I have to clear my name about people I've never even met.

And sorry for going off but its like? I'm quite literally having one of the hardest times of my life right now in regards to my mental health. My depression is at an all time high. I'm trying to do my best to get by and live my little boring life. Why am i having to.

Its miserable behavior, and I don't deserve to be subjected to it.

who has experienced multiple forms of sexual violence? It quite literally made me sick, exacerbated my lupus flares, caused me to retreat from friends and family, and has really caused me to be consistently paranoid for years about who I let into my life.

It's activating and sorry it's triggering to be constantly accused of being an abuse apologist for instances that haven't even fucking happened, with people I don't fucking know. Do you know what that does to someone's mental health? Especially as someone.

These are real things that have happened to so many of us who are constantly maligned. You can't convince me this is out of a desire to keep people safe.

Its really troubling and scary that rape, abuse, accountability, harm, etc are thrown around as gossip and fodder on this app. Is no one else scared by this behavior? It's one reason why I no longer tweet.

again, not true. why do you keep saying this.

Like why is it bad to have protected tweets? Are we 13?.

because im normal and dont spend 30 hours a week on here like yall.

I also didn't argue with people about supporting him as again, I do not know him.

As always if you have questions, thoughts feel free to text me. And if you don't have my number you're probably not close enough to me to be thinking about me :).