Cultivating compassion for each other is key. seeing each other as perfectly flawed, capable of making mistakes and capable of learning from them as well. But this involves both parties to admit to being human.

@sagistarbb lol my mother is in DENIAL

@shreemastrology And the eldest daughter always picks up on that denial lol every time

@sagistarbb Ha it’s very tricky.

@sagistarbb I genuinely wish this for whoever has this opportunity w their mother, I unfortunately don’t think I’ll ever get there w mine (tbh don’t really need to atp in my life) bc there’s too much mess on her end and thankfully I’ve realized I don’t need to fix any more of her mistakes

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@sagistarbb My moon sign is my mother's sun sign ♏️. She was an engima - distant, too - for most of my childhood. Since I've become an adult, she's still an engima; but not a distant one.

@sagistarbb me asking her to take accountability = “so I’m just a terrible mother and my ungrateful children hate me” 🫠

@sagistarbb Omg this is my lane.

@itslauralol @sagistarbb I do not bother with them anymore. Healing isn’t linear & we don’t always have to keep those connections open if they cause us more ongoing pain or trauma 🙏

@sagistarbb Does anybody know why this happens? The relationship between my mother and I is rocky

@sagistarbb i’m the eldest daughter but youngest bc i have an older brother and it fr would be so great

@sagistarbb A message!!!!

@sagistarbb @dreamyflames_ My mom goes back and forth

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@sagistarbb the problem is me being honest sends her into an egotistical rage 😭😭

@sagistarbb This is the path my mom & I are now on, & I was SO CLOSE to tapping out, thinking it could never happen. But, then we had a brutally honest 1-on-1 where I was open & pointed about all of my feelings & what boundaries I needed, & everything since has shifted! 🥺🙏💞 #Grateful