crazy realizing it was pitch black during the sinking of the Titanic....in the film everything is lit up, but when it actually happened no one could see anything...a huge structure buckling beneath them and all they could hear were screams & loud creaks of metal
If your child leaves an argument to go cry in their room, go after them. After arguments my parents would just leave me alone to cry & then when I sucked it up & came back they would act like nothing happened. It felt like being emotional was a secret, something you do in private
A lot of ppl (women esp.) discover they struggle w/ ADHD by 18-25 bc that’s when all of the structure provided by school, extracurriculars, & even certain relationships goes away & you have to start creating structure on your own, which, for someone with ADHD, can feel impossible
One think I think is so interesting is how the majority of people reacted to Rue’s sister, Gia in Euphoria
“Why is she even here”
“She adds nothing to the storyline she just cries in the corner”
And the whole time that’s the point. Bc Gia is a Glass Child.
sorry i said i didn't go here anymore but maddy trusting rue to tell her the truth about cassie and nate right after cassie claims rue can't be trusted bc she's an addict... maddy and rue are literally besties and we've been deprived of it
Everything suddenly makes sense now bc I’ve always thought Ryan Gosling looked way hotter in The Notebook than any other film I’ve seen him in, and I just found out he wore brown contacts for The Notebook and naturally has BLUE eyes 🫢
Kim Kardashian returned to the White House to announce a partnership with Lyft that will provide former prisoners gift cards to help get them to and from job interviews, work, and more:
The most triggering part of Euphoria to me is the realistic depiction of addiction. That anxiety you feel watching Rue destroy her life...the realization that you have to just sit there and watch her hit rock bottom with no way of softening the blow. The sheer helplessness.
If you’re committed to the single life, that’s awesome and I genuinely love that for you, but you have to be willing to accept that your friends might eventually prioritize their serious, long-term partner whom they’re building a life and possibly a family with, over you.
she’s 100% speaking clearly and in coherent sentences, she’s just trying to get it all out before they cut her off lol and obviously she’s dealt with this bs before bc look at how the internet is coming for her and not actually listening to a word she said lol
Not me finding out perfectionism not only comes from watching your parents never apologize, it also comes from being in a family that is very “evaluative”— discussing movies, critiquing meals, analyzing one’s performance, etc. etc.....
This is what my family does for fun.
That mother/eldest daughter relationship...so much can be healed by being honest with each other, the mother being honest about her struggle and the daughter being honest about her feelings of abandonment
I just found out chewing gum sales are at an all time low and I think that’s so interesting lol I remember chewing gum all the time and now I don’t anymore and I rarely ever have the desire to, one day I just stopped lmfao and everyone around me did too?? No one offers gum
What is dumped on the signs in childhood:
Aries- emotional baggage
Scorpios- alienation
Sag- manipulation
Taurus- expectations
Gemini- routines
Aqua- guidelines
Cancer- extremes
Leo- intensity
Pisces- information
Libra- responsibilities
Cap- aggression
Virgo- movement
Looks like she needs more time to formulate her words in general but she feels rushed bc she’s talking in the presence of people (men) who are ready to cut her off/correct her/invalidate what she said the moment there’s a long enough pause for them to chime in lol
Me knowing this is a defense mechanism developed in childhood bc you were in an environment that forced you to predict the reactions and emotions of others in order to defend yourself and your own emotions
my entire childhood was spent going out of my way to empathize w/ my parents, giving them a pass bc they struggled, so when I speak my truth & they say “We know it was hard for you, but it was hard for ALL of us.” I want to scream lol I was a CHILD, u were supposed to protect me?
When I realized I wasn’t indecisive, I just didn’t trust myself enough to make decisions that would genuinely improve my life. Conditioned to distrust my instinctual nature & this caused me to fear making any “life” decision without input from someone I consider an authority.
Your partner setting a healthy boundary with you should not feel like an attack on your freedom or autonomy. It’s an opportunity to strengthen the relationship by managing or rejecting attitudes and behaviors that bring your partner emotional instability and discomfort.
Bc a relationship with a Capricorn is almost always followed by an immense amount of shadow work for both parties. People tend to forget that Capricorn is represented by The Devil in tarot 👹⛓
Being anti-relationship bc you need to “heal yourself first” is just avoidance of the pain you associate with relationships, and avoidance of the healing work that needs to be done within our relationships in order to dispose of that association
Everyone talks about the Leo ego but NO ONE talks about the gemini ego....
"i'M aN intElleCTuaL" oh really? or does your ego just revolve around making other people feel stupid?
Rising signs are SO important y’all, they are not just a mask you wear, or your first impression. Your rising sign dictates which signs rule which houses & can tell you what energy you bring to each area of life. It truly is a road map to your chart.
If you are hush hush about a child’s emotional reactions in this way, you consequently instill issues with intimacy into your child. Your child will fear having emotional experiences with others, which will cause severe dysfunction in their relationships. Trust me, I know.
And when I say “go after them” I mean actually going to where they’re at and sitting with them while validating their emotional reaction. It’s normal to be upset after an argument, it shouldn’t be this hush hush, taboo thing.
I feel we need to retire the idea that the black sheep of the family is the one getting the brunt of the abuse and instead recognize that they’re the only one responding to the abuse in a way that disrupts the dysfunctional family system
She didn’t want to accuse Cassie of something she had no evidence of and she didn’t want to believe her best friend was capable of those things, but Rue’s outing of Cassie was all the proof she needed lol she could confirm she wasn’t just paranoid
Scorpio and Gemini are both control freaks, here's the difference:
Scorpio: that's not how I like to make my bed, you're doing it wrong, STOP.
Gemini: I think ⒨⒜⒴⒝⒠ we should do it like this *takes corner of sheet from your hand and starts tucking it under the bed** see??
Y’all Billie Eilish’s career is progressing at a rate that is eerily similar to Brittany Spears. I just hope she’s not crucified by the press/public like Spears was. They’re both Sagittarius suns/Aquarius moons and they both have a 12th house mars.
Being extremely passive is a symptom that is a direct result of trauma, along with being unable to trust people, feeling unlikable, and generally keeping to yourself. The “chillest” people in your life are more likely the most traumatized.
This video is so funny for so many reasons 😭 the earth signs saying “we’re the earth signs” in that tone 💀 the drunk af water signs 😂 the Aquarius leaving the frame of the video🌚 the sheer amount of earth signs there, no surprise Sagittarius was missing from the fire signs😭