whatever you are building, make sure there is love in it.

I hope you realize that there is no shame in waiting. No clock can measure the worth of your love, or the timing of it. Marrying late has never broken a woman. But marrying wrong has broken many. I hope you choose peace over pressure and standards over settling. I hope you choose.

I hope you realise healing is not just light and love. Healing is grief. It is burying versions of yourself you once thought you could not live without. The woman who stayed when it cost her peace. The woman who dimmed her glow so others would not feel small. The woman who.

I hope you realize that you were not born to hustle yourself into depletion. Sleep 8 hours, not 6 if you can. Rest is productive. Read to expand, not to escape. 2 hours is plenty when your heart is present. Move your body for joy, not punishment. One hour of intentional movement.

RT @sade_without_h: I hope you realize that this valley is not your final stop. It is just your prep ground. It is uncomfortable, yes. But….

I hope you realise that there is a difference between being loyal and losing yourself. You can care without carrying what is not yours, love without betraying yourself, and show empathy without draining your own spirit. Loyalty should never feel like silent suffering, and love.

I hope you realize that this valley is not your final stop. It is just your prep ground. It is uncomfortable, yes. But it’s not punishment, it’s positioning. You are not stuck. You are being set up. What feels like delay is divine alignment. Trust it. God is about to elevate.

I hope you realise that hiding your light is not humility. Hiding your light is a quiet betrayal of the soul that trusted you to show up. You were not anointed to blend in. That oil on your head? .It is sacred. Every time you shrink, you teach the world to live without the.

I hope you realise that you cannot flirt with the past and expect the future to take you seriously. One foot in yesterday and one in tomorrow will split you in places no healing balm can reach. You cannot keep sipping from the same well that left you thirsty and call it growth.

I hope you realise that how others paint you says more about their palette than your soul. Let them label, judge, rewrite the story if they must but, stay rooted. Your heart is pure. Your loyalty unwavering. Your intentions come from alignment, not ego. You do not need to prove.

I hope you realise politeness is not peace. Being liked is not the same as being safe. Being agreeable is not the same as being seen. We were taught to stay small. To swallow truth and call it grace. But that wasn’t maturity. That was survival. Every time you chose silence over.

❤️🙏🏾🌻.

RT @Eneore1: @sade_without_h You deserve love that fills you too, not just love you pour out.

RT @PapermanZA: @sade_without_h The people who love you properly won't keep score of what you give them. They'll notice when you're running….

RT @pricet0g: @sade_without_h This right here? A whole reminder. We weren’t made to carry it all alone.

RT @Maleekback: @sade_without_h I hope you realize that you are not out on this earth just to pour.

RT @Alameen___Abba: @sade_without_h You’ve poured enough. Now it’s your turn to receive love, softness, and peace, fully. ❤️.

I hope you realise how powerful it is when your name is spoken in rooms you have not even walked into yet. While you are out here doing the work, someone is quietly advocating for you. That is not luck; that is alignment. That is proof that integrity travels further than noise.