@nobodyhere23
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
No, relationships shouldn't have you arguing or crying often nor should it make your partner argue or cry often. If it does, you guys aren't compatible and need to break up. Life is too short to stress yourself out constantly over someone, it's not good for health. That's real.
Relationships are not supposed to be hard like y’all say they are. Y’all have this warped view. If your relationship is consistently going through hell and high water, it’s time to let it go. You should not be crying over someone on a regular basis baby love. Like seriously.
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
That's cause y'all believe in fairytales. relationships are tough, ebb and flow.
If you take care of your side of the street, learn what you don't know, put in the effort, and you have much more ebb than flow you got to reevaluate.
@rockinfabblue
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
Sometimes relationships touch that deeply/. It's part of it. People often think they know exactly how they are going to feel/act when they are touched deeply, the truth is they don't.
There's no such thing as compatibility, either you learn how to be in relationship or not.
@nobodyhere23
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
There's such thing as compatibility, it has to do with people having the same values, morals, wanting the same things out of life overall. A person who doesn't want kids isn't compatible to someone who wants kids, a person who loves to travel isn't compatible with a homebody etc.
@rockinfabblue
@nobodyhere23
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
This is kind of true but some people are just sensitive & cry over everything the fact of the matter is you don’t make it years on years without bumps in the road(CHEATING IS NOT A BUMP BTW) the good should outweigh the bad always & if it doesn’t then it’s time to move on
@ROCKBETHENAME
@nobodyhere23
@zoraslovechild
@shyshunterria
I'm not talking about little arguments, I'm talking about people who truly aren't compatible. If two people are constantly having bumps in the road, they aren't compatible. The road shouldn't always be bumpy.✨