People get hung up on the external. “I’m afraid to restart”. Ur only afraid of a restart if ur the same dude u were 10 years ago. if u hit the gas when u should have u should be able to get it all back in 10-100x less time based on who you are now. Ur new power level should.

Imagine someone was going to swoop in and finally save you. They were going to somehow find you, take full account of where you're at, say "yep. it's time for you" & then wave a magical wand that pulled you out of exactly where you're at now by giving you exactly what you needed.

Nothing will make you happier as a man than striving for absolute & total control over yourself. Getting yourself to the point of being able to say "i want that" and then KNOWING you CAN and WILL make it happen IF you decide to will it so = the absolute pinnacle of internal.

I wish i didn't typo the "oh no" quote so horrifically or that would have been a banger.

This is also why going back to an ex is hilariously & astronomically retarded. How it ended 1st time is exactly same way it ill end 2nd time. Enjoy.

Controversial opinion is “working” on relationship communication (or any part of the relationship) is completely fake. You’re either a fit or you’re not. Changing the way YOU communicate or “fixing” someone else’s = waste of time. Everyone just defaults back to themselves,.

Just trying random shit and documenting it as a nobody is by far easiest way to build your brand as you go. People are like “but i’m not an authority on anything”. Wrong frame. Eventually you realize every “authority” you thought WAS qualified is actually a giga retard spewing.

“I’m in same spot 3 years later!”. You literally haven’t done anything. You don’t DO anything. This is elephant in the room. The mental gymnastics around this is hilariously astounding. NOBODY WORKS.

Like nobody does ANYTHING. I don’t know how else to convey it. Remember when u told ur friend u “worked 8 hours today” when you literally did nothing? U just doomscrolled & avoided doing literally anything?. That is everyone.

It genuinely IS once you REALLY think it through. Like why the fuck WOULDN’T you win? NOBODY DOES ANYTHING. Going .001 steps BEYOND “ABSOLUTE MINIMUM EFFORT” literally puts you in 1%. NOBODY DOES ANYTHING. Once u realize all u gotta do is BARELY MORE FUCKING EFFORT THAN BASE.

“BUT what if its wrong?”. Who cares. Then you’ll learn when you get there. Fix your relationship with being wrong. Lean INTO it. Ur not a “knower of everything”, ur a retarded scientist tryna figure shit out. Get off ur high horse & start testing & looking dumb. Learn real shit.

If your life progress feels too slow, it’s because you’re avoiding stuff. It’s really that simple. But this doesn’t mean you’re lazy or broken - it’s how the brain deals with uncertainty. It’s not a YOU problem, it’s moreso you haven’t developed the SYSTEM for yourself to deal.

“But what if it doesn’t work out?”. Then literally nothing. Like literally nothing negative happens to you. Are you retarded?.

If you really sit down & think through something “not working”, you realize there is actually zero downside. WORST CASE you’re in the exact same spot with MORE LIFE EXPERIENCE and MORE SKILLS. Beginners are always like “but what if it doesn’t work?” and it’s like then ur in the.

By “explode” i simply mean not allowing that opinion to control YOUR life. At some point u gotta say fuck it.

Worrying about what people think about you is just proof that you’ve had a monstrously easy life. If you’ve actually had problems, you’d realize how miniscule other people’s opinions of you are. a spec of nothing in a larger game. Think about where u want ur life to go. Now think.