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This generation doesn’t know how to build healthy relationships.. We end up saying stuff like “I don’t owe anyone anything.” You do owe people something. You owe those you offended an apology. You owe those who gave you support, gratitude (1/2)
We don't talk nearly enough about "papercuts" in a relationship. Everytime there's raised voices, cruel words, lack of support, short temper, lack of affection, etc., a tiny wound is created. Not enough to make you leave, but enough to make part of you pull away & lose a
"I'm just blunt." No you aren't blunt. You just dont care how you talk to people because you think your opinion is more important than respect or courtesy. I hate when people think the only way to be truthful is to be blunt, harsh or rude. (1/2)
THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:
* My feelings
* Having boundaries
* Saying NO to something I’m not really interested in doing
* Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it
* Taking a break
(1/2)
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better (1/3)
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is (1/3)
The older I get the more I realize that everything really is that deep. The people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, where you work, the opportunities you take. What you watch, what you eat, and even what you consume +
i am still healing now. I don’t just mean healing from toxic relationships or heartbreaks. I am healing from the mistakes I made, from my family issues, friendship issues, failing myself, from disappointments, from expectations I couldn’t reach because I was too focused on (1/3)
my bro is getting married today, right & I called him and asked was he excited. He said “nah I knew years ago who I was spending the rest of my life with, the wedding is for yall”… ENERGY❤️
Being financially comfortable is enough for me. I don’t have to be the richest, I just want to always be able to eat what I want , go where I want , pay my bills on time and give my kids a great life ❤️
Introverts are HIGHLY intuitive, that's why you don't see them around a lot of people, only a few & they are either friends, family members, or a lover. We don't like the attention unless it's from certain people . We only hold deep & long conversations with certain people(1/2)
+ you owe those you disrespect, respect. Accountability is a personal act of integrity and moral principles. We will forever live in a broken society, until we learn to account for our actions that impact other peoples lives negatively (2/2)
Signs Of High Vibration 💯
• people stare at you
• kids like you
• animals feel safe around you
• strangers tell you their life stories
• room’s energy shift when you walk in
• you irritate toxic people by being authentic
• people envy you and you don't know why
My man hates heights and seafood but he’s rode rollercoasters, went on zip lines, and tried seafood boils with me. When I ask him why EVERY TIME he says “because I know you want me to”. Moral of the story, find someone that is (1/2)
Normalize saying things like " Hey I really like you, but I'm healing right now and I am not in the best position to share myself with someone else!". Make it OK to be completely transparent about where you are in the moment. Allow people to meet you where you're at IF they +
Someday your kids are going to figure you out. I promise you they will. The type of parent you are. The type of spouse you are. How you treat other people. How much effort you put into them +
GIRLLLL life goes on. you might end up a single mom. you might lose your job. you might lose a few friends. whatever it is, you have to pick yourself back up & keep it pushing. never feel embarrassed for the things you go through in life +
Life changes. You lose love.
You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone. And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back. New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the
Unpopular opinion: but being too “sweet” as a woman gets you stepped on. And maybe it’s a trauma response but people didn’t hear me until I became more dominant. And let’s not confuse dominance with masculinity because you can still be a dominant, powerful, feminine woman(1/2)
Life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what is. People will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid and you have to (1/2)
learning to separate your group of friends by who is TRULY a friend, the turn-up friend, the business minded friend, and even knowing that some people are ONLY associates is truly a life skill. a lot of y'all think we locked in, but i peeped your character, and you as a
A girl on TikTok said that the “Soft Girl Era” has nothing to do with pedicures & massages.. but has everything to do with releasing everything that has forced you to be HARD.
FELT! 📌
I like to consider myself a reflective friend. You buy me gifts, I buy you gifts. You invite me places, I invite you places. You show up for me, I show up for you. You go hard for me, I go hard for you. You pay the bill when we go out to eat, I pay the bill when we go places(1/3)
Nobody talks about the HARD part of upgrading your life. The working 24/7, missing out on a lot, losing friends/relationships because you're too busy, always being tired, the wondering if you'll ever reach the goals you're trying to reach.
Vibes are realized and noticed. I can feel when you don't care for me, I can feel when you don't like me 4real, I can feel everything. I can feel when the energy is forced so we don't have to pretend. I rather not...I can love you and care for you from a distance. Normalize (1/2)
you are NOT my friend if you know something I should be made aware of but don’t tell me. you are NOT my friend if you let anyone speak on my name to you PERIOD. you are NOT my friend if you’re running around telling my business like it’s yours to tell (1/2)
pls don't ever think i'll never leave 😭 when i love, i love hard and i'll stick it out as long as i can, but pls don't ever treat me like someone who will never leave bc baby i'll walk away and never look back. don't take the people who love you for granted.
Baby! it’s somebody out there that’s on everything you on, wanna go places with you, text back in a timely manner . wants to see you succeed, wanna see you happy , love your energy & adds to it.. simply just loves everything about you. WE really be wasting good time +
everybody thinks when you go ghost and stay to yourself you're being weird or acting funny.... i'm trying to stay alive. nobody tells you how hard life hits you. you outgrow the people you love the most, lose a lot of people who've watched you grow up, and sometimes the way (1/3)
Im gonna let y’all in on a secret.. I PICK UP VIBES EVEN WHEN I DONT WANT TO. I notice when a friend isn’t really my friend. I notice when someone feels a certain way about me. I can tell who had what type of conversation with who and about what! I know when somebody is trying to
I’m a communicator, if we don’t talk about it we can’t move forward. This is for any relationship I participate in (friendships & family included) …I have never been the person to sweep things under the rug I just don’t operate that way + If a conversation cannot
little love everytime. One day those wounds create a chasm so deep its unfixable.
What isn't a "big deal" to you today could be a chasm tomorrow. Nurture your partner, walk with gentleness, & apologize freely. It's much easier than living with regret at the edge of a chasm.
being in love is so fun. your partner becomes your bestfriend. you laugh, you cry, do chores together. go on spontaneous/grocery dates. your inner child finds a safe place. most importantly, nobody can take this from you if you protect it. і hope everyone finds this type of love.
Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
I had somebody tell me that because I'm quick to leave a situation alone that I must didn't love or care about the person. Listen, I'm always prepared to never speak to you again. I can love you to death and never speak to you or on you again. I love you (1/2)
NO CAP I’M NOT A CONSISTENT FRIEND!!!! I’m more of a dependable friend!!!!! I'll go days without texting and calling you. That doesn’t mean I don't love you or don’t fwu. My mood changes! Some days I just don't wanna be bothered and also I have my own life, sometimes (1/2)
your lazy girl era has ended sis…the spirit of procrastination can no longer live within you.
you’re entering a new era of growth, productivity, self discovery, self reflection, self awareness, and discipline. tap in sis. 🤲🏽💕
I HATE when I think I'm Close to a Friend and then I look up and I'm not invited to the parties, functions, graduations, etc. Or you see your "friends" posting their friends and you're not included... y'all so weird man!
I’m finally coming to peace with the fact that you can’t keep tripping over what you can’t control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don’t lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.(1/2)
You can be truthful and still hold space for someone else’s feelings. Carefully consider the words you choose and be intentional about delivery. There is a fine line between being rude & honest. Never confuse the two! (2/2)
POWER is in the tongue. STOP saying you tired , you broke, you depressed etc. && START saying your grateful, start manifesting multiple streams of income, start thanking God for that peace of mind. STOP mimicking what people tell you about God and get to know him for yourself +
compliments about your appearance are nice‚ but when somebody compliments you as a person, the way you think‚ your laugh‚ your personality‚ how genuine your heart is‚ that hits different.
Forever praying that I get my fairytale ending… the career, the financial abundance, the family, the friends, the love, the happiness, etc. Just everything that I deserve🧚🏽🦋🧎🏽♀️
Giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. Y’all are just so obsessed with this culture of being up under somebody 24/7. Suffocation makes things expire at a faster rate. Relax and just be by yourself. It’s okay to maintain your individuality.
imagine being bitten by a snake..+ instead of saving yourself from the venom,you sit there trying to explain to the snake why you didn’t deserve that, as it slowly and painfully takes ur life away from you.
this isn’t about a snake.
I like weird people. The black sheep. The odd ducks. The eccentrics. The artists. The loners. The people who actually think for themselves. The kind of people whose morals are not swayed by groupthink. More often than not, these people have the most beautiful souls🩶
Being mean is so WEIRD to me. I genuinely don't get any pleasure from embarrassing, belittling, or just overall hurting people's feelings. Something wrong with some of y'all spirits fr. You gotta be in a very dark place to feel good by making people feel bad.
As you get older you have to learn how to see AND understand BOTH SIDES. I personally feel like sometimes people may not like to talk to me because I'm not biased. Idc if you my friend, family, or lover. If you're wrong, YOURE WRONG. And i will tell you that! You can't take (1/3)
I'm naturally a loner. Even towards my own family. I don't care to be in someone's face. I'm clingy when I love someone, but the distance I can give a person is unreal.
You can lose it all today & be financially-stable again by tomorrow. Depressed today & find joy tomorrow. Sick today & healed tomorrow. Alone today & find love tomorrow. Jobless today +
A person doesn’t have to only drain u with arguments and fights. They can drain u with lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apologizing, lack of acknowledgment and lack of fulfilling your love language. Know the red flags 🚩
If you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. I’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. These are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.
I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and u both become aware that neither of u were wrong. You just saw the scenario differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
Yall bitches think cus yo hair done every week and you keep yo nails done that’s all it is to being a bad bitch. the only recipe to a 5 star ho.😭 When in reality yall be the most shallow, uneducated, dense , rude , snobby , materialistic , unmotivated, and draining bitches (1/3)
Right now, she's just living her best life. She's focused on herself. She's falling in love with who she is. She's excited about where she's headed, and she's excited about what's next. She has so many dreams, so much ambition, and she's constantly finding new passions.
STAY AWAY from people who don’t appreciate ALL the little things you do.. like spending money you really don’t have, paying for food, giving a ride,etc even good intentioned prayers, words of encouragement, saying things to boost up confidence, listening to problems +
I deserve a life of luxury & I don't even mean designer bags/clothes. I just wanna be able to wake up on a random Tuesday and take myself to brunch, go get my nails done & book a flight, just because. I want that type of lifestyle.✨
One thing I hate, is for a person/people to over look AAAALLLLLLLL the good things you do, AAAALLLL the times you showed up, ALLLLLL the things you take care of, AAAALLLL the times things wouldn't have gotten handled if it wasn't for you, but instead will try to find +
If I told my side of the story (with receipts) I'm PRETTYYYY SUREEEEEE y'all would look at a few people differently. However, I’m perfectly fine with my side not being told. We don’t destroy images over here and I could never destroy your character to make me look better +
Folks are DROWNING in life and y'all are mad over not getting a text back. One thing I'II never do is put my friends in a position to feel like my access has regulations. I don’t care if you take three weeks to text me back... I'm glad you finally did. (1/2)
People who have high spiritual intelligence don't read words, they read moods. They read energy. They read vibes. The body language, the jealous energy in your eyes, their sense of negativity is supreme. They may not say much, but trust me, they notice every damn thing +
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
I really got PTSD from ppl . I keep my distance from everybody idc how much I love you . One thing life goin teach you is that anybody can & will switch up & I had enough of that I love to hard . I do just fine in my own bubble.🫧
my biggest turn off is when a man don't keep his word. say he gone do some but never do it- big or small. as a man I feel like your word is all you got! you supposed to stand on business. I ain't never faked like I was gone do some and ain't do it- ion see how (1/2)
I'm the easiest person to get rid of. If you hang up on me, I'm not calling back. If you say you don't want to talk to me, I won't reach out, and damn sure ain't asking why. If we ain't rocking anymore, you ain't Gotta block me… I'm not gonna call + 
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.🤍
You gotta force yourself to get up early. You gotta take care of your responsibilities. You gotta be honest with yourself. You gotta evaluate your priorities and handle business!
Nobody's going to do it for you, these are YOUR goals. YOUR dreams. It all starts and ends with YOU!
is not an apology. Calling them and pretending like nothing never happened is not an apology. Being nice to them in hopes they’ll forget about the mistreatment is not an apology. Until you open your mouth and address the issue, the problem will still exist (2/3)
Sometimes I find myself wanting to clap back. Bite at everyone who barks at me.
But then I look at those people, like really look at them… what kinda life they’re living. The choices they’re making. The things they do. Compared to who I am, what I do & the way I live. and (1/2)
We water stuff down sooooo much. Some of yall don’t even realize how great you’re doing. Some of you are in a much better place than you were 5 years ago. And you’re currently where some people are dreaming to be. Take a step back and give your hard work some acknowledgment. 🫶🏽
Reconciliation takes honesty and transparency for it to be successful. You cannot reconcile with someone who’s not willing to be honest about how they’ve mishandled you (3/3)
Sometimes it's not depression, you need to forgive yourself for not being where you thought you'll be at this stage in your life. You need to forgive yourself for being in spaces where you were not treated right. Forgive yourself for watering dead friendships (1/3)
I’m not looking for friends anymore. I’m looking for sisters. Aunties to my babies. Motivational speakers. Travel companions. Women who value me and women I value. Friends just don’t cut it for me no more.🧘🏽♀️🖤
i’m gonna cry real hard on new years because this was a very life changing year for me. i was literally hurting all year and i wanted to give up so many times and didn’t & I’m still not giving up! things happened to me that shouldn’t have +
real friends know your triggers. your relationship partner does too. stop dealing with people who intentionally do things to trigger you and play victim as if they are unaware of why you gave your given reaction. they know exactly what they’re doing. stay away from them!
Real relationships that "last" involves a lot of growth and forgiveness. It's very natural for people to make mistakes. It's natural for people to disappoint you. You and your person will not always be on the same chapter of your lives. You just have to learn +
not an apology. Calling them and pretending like nothing never happened is not an apology. Being nice to them in hopes they’ll forget about the mistreatment is not an apology. Until you open your mouth and address the issue, the problem will still exist.🗣️(2/3)
I just decided to stop complaining about people treating me weird and just stop messing with them all in one. Life already ain’t easy itself, I don’t need no extra weight on me. I’m cool on it.🎯
& when I finally get the things I’ve prayed for and I start posting it online, please don’t envy me & assume I’m boasting. I cried a lot, fasted long, waited my turn, sacrificed a lot, & worked hard for this. ❤️
My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what's really going on in my life. Where I am, who I'm with, or my next move, unless I make it known. Therefore anything anyone says is just an assumption. Privacy is my luxury. Privacy is my peace.✨
Please be very aware it’s YOUR world & you literally don’t have to deal with anything that doesn’t serve you. I think we forget sometimes we’re the author of our own destruction. Just stop answering the phone, texting back, and protect your peace.
i cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. you are your biggest advocate. no one else can read your mind or feels what you feel.🖤
I refuse to just go to school, work, pay bills and die. I'm gonna go to fun events, happy hour with my friends, travel across the world, go to the spa, enjoy 4-5 star hotels, go on weekend trips, eat good food and partake in experiences (1/2)
I hate Embarrassment, I hate Public Humiliation Don’t ever put me in a situation to where people can laugh at me and talk about me. If we together, spouse or friend, our ups & downs are personal we can easily forgive each other But OUTSIDERS won’t forget +
As you get older.. you should wanna carry yourself differently. Your mindset should be different. Your morals should be different. Your choices should be different. It’s certain things you can entertain & certain things you have no business entertaining anymore +