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My outfit is showcased in our “What Were You Wearing?” exhibit this year. (a replica since the police confiscated it for evidence) Me sleeping peacefully was NOT consent. Your clothes do not determine whether or not you were “asking for it”. To the 1 in 6: I see you, I hear you.
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I hate that we don’t talk about hypersexuality after assault as much. My therapist said for me it was like a subconscious need to give consent, but it never made me feel any less sh*tty. I felt like I was responding “wrong” & I couldn’t be that traumatized if I still wanted sex
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I’m just gonna say it, I don’t think a woman needs to be raped or have a sob story to prove they “deserve” an abortion.
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Losing your sex drive is “expected” so when I had the opposite reaction I thought I was a full on psychopath I wish I had more people in my corner at the time to tell me I wasn’t an anomaly. I was so grateful when I joined me too it was the first time I felt normal in so long
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To the men in my dms and replies sharing stories, what happened to you is valid too. You didn’t deserve it & the term “what were you wearing” is especially demeaning since it implies only being dressed provocatively could make you a victim. I stand with you & I‘m here for you too
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I promise I‘ll get to liking & replying to everyone at some point tomorrow, but really quick if you missed it this exhibit was put on by my local me too organization. Its not victim shaming. The point is to take back that phrase from people who actually think your clothes matter!
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I was holding out on doing this bc I’m sure this means I’ll never get my money back but she asked me for $100 in November I told her no rush on paying me back bc I understand times are hard. But now she soft blocked me so she can’t post about all her money and purchases in peace
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The other day I picked Parker up from his dad and he goes “mom you’re cheating” and I was like on what?? And he said “my dad” and his dad goes “Parker idk what memo you missed but your mom and I have been separated since…how old are you again?” I hate it here😂
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Can I brag on 16 yo me for a sec? My mom really moved out & abandoned me. My sons father left me pregnant. She breastfed for 17 months, made sure my bills were paid, and worked so damn hard to ensure the life 4yo Parker has now while barely hanging on. That girl deserved more.
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This is just a reminder for my friends who think they’re not in abusive relationships, because their partner can be good or are waiting for things to go back to the way they were in the beginning. That is how they keep you. They will not change. Get out while you’re still alive.
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How does anyone feel comfortable identifying as a Republican? 172 Republicans voted against the Violence Against Women Act. Literally voted against protecting women. They hate us. They don’t care about us. You identify with that?
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I’m so heartbroken by the loss of my daughter. I’m not even supposed to work this week, but I need something to do or I’m going to run my car into a wall. This is not fair. She deserved to live
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I get 2nd hand embarrassment when women don’t understand how our bodies work. Labia sizes don’t change bc of sex/having babies. The size of your labia doesn’t mean anything. We really need sex education in schools & normalize researching your anatomy. We’re too old for this lol
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My little brother moved into his first apartment with his girlfriend and I want to send him a gift. What should I get him?? No budget for him. We didn't grow up together but we've been more in contact the last couple years and I really just want to contribute something nice🥺
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Parkers dad doesn’t think he should have to provide for Parker financially for the days he’s with me. Even childcare expenses. He sees him one night a week and thinks he should only have to provide on that day. Let’s all laugh.
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After 20 years of dealing with my narcissistic moms abuse, today I finally cut her off for good. Blocked her on everything. It was awful breaking it to my little sister that we’ll never have a normal Christmas again but she understood. I am starting on a healthy new life
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I’m dating this man almost 11 years older than me & it works out because he doesn’t have kids and was raised well and I have a child and I was abused lmao so in trauma years we’re the same age and it’s going great. He also treats me like a human being and respects me it’s crazy
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In case you don’t understand how horrible this is, China has a population of 1.4 BILLION and the US has only 328 million.
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My best friend invited me to her families thanksgiving and I told her I would love to go because I don’t have family and spent the last two with my ex and she always knows just what to say 🤣
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I’ve been quiet about this process out of fear but today I was granted a permanent protection order from my abuser. Today the court took my side. After 2 years of abuse I am FREE! No more throwing tables, no more screaming, no more guilt trips for sex, no more. I cant stop crying
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If you’re a deadbeat dad I will never mess with you. These girls out he dating guys who don’t take care of their kids are messy af. If he can’t take care of the person he made he can’t take care of you. You’re wasting your time and ya look dumb doing it.
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I don’t think men are capable of platonic female friendships. Every man I’ve ever thought I was friends with was just waiting on the opportunity to hit on me whether they had a girlfriend or not. It’s not even a trust issue, just firsthand account of what I’ve experienced.
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@Countrymedic1
@MeTooSGF
That is so awful and so powerful. Thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry this happened to you
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I live in a state where there is not a single abortion clinic left, BUT to anyone in Texas in need my door is open, I’ll drive you the 3 hours to Illinois or Oklahoma, and I will not snitch on you for 10k because I’m a decent fucking human
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Twitter if you know who these men are tell them I want to be friends 🤣
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My son is 4 years old and still rear facing. And I’m not saying everyone should do that, but I am saying there is no excuse for a one year old to be forward facing
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Please don’t roast my knees my boyfriend does it enough for everyone
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Here are a bunch of photos I can’t post anywhere else from this weekend but they need appreciation ✨
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Y’all think a piece of cloth to protect others is too much to ask, but do you even know what 9 months of pregnancy is like? We’re forcing people to have kids they don’t want 9 months of pain, vomiting, & expensive hospital bills to punish them for having sex or even being raped?
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Trigger Warning for the video! I made my first tik tok for MTS please follow us @ metoospringfield for more survivor stories, informative videos, and other great related content!
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I am having a real hard time moving on from no one showing up to Parker’s party yesterday lol. Like there were people who couldn’t come and that was totally fine but 11 kids were RSVPed and only my niece showed up. No texts or apologies. Parker got over it but I’m not🙃
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I love my child, but being a single mom has taken the romance out of life. I don’t have time for anything. I spend everyday overwhelmed. Stressed about childcare, money, meeting his needs, etc. I don’t get to take a single breath until I lay my head on the pillow at night.
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I truly hope Bernie doesn’t think we’re making fun of him with that pic and knows that we all just adore him😂
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Being a single mom with no support system is so draining. I love my son soooo much but I would be a much better mom if I got a night away every once in awhile. I’m miserable and being alone 24/7 is not what I signed up for :’)
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Teaching your kid to share is valuable. Teaching them they have a right to their stuff is too. If you loan your laptop to someone & you ask for it back, you would expect it back. It’s not fair to expect more from our kid than ourselves. They deserve to have their own things too.
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My twitters flooded with people telling me their stories & I promise to respond to everyone. But all of you are so strong & so amazing whether you reported or not & I hope you’re all finding ways to heal. My DM‘s are always open getting to be an advocate for victims means so much
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On a scale of 1-10 how obvious is it that the last year kicked my ass?😂
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Also I never cheated on this man, he just constantly accused me of it. It’s not normal. If you have to refrain from posting selfies, following friends, etc on social media in order to save yourself from being yelled at IT IS NOT NORMAL
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I’m the black sheep of the family but not because I make bad decisions it’s because I’m the only one who takes accountability for our long line of mental issues, addiction, and alcohol abuse. Apparently if you actually act like an adult in my family you’re the strange one 😂
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Reminiscing on when my ex really gaslit me into believing his abuse wasn’t the problem, but me telling my friends about it so they didn’t like him was lmao
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@pissbabienani
@MeTooSGF
I am so sorry. I am here if you need anything. No one deserves this. I’m so glad you’re around today and I hope you are learning to heal you are a very strong woman
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@marisatorresx3
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He ran out of the house and the police never found him so I have no idea if I know him or if he was a stranger. There is strong dna evidence on my rape kit though so if ever gets arrested and they get his dna we’ll find him I’m still holding out hope!
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I’m so tired of people recommending pregnant women drink“midwives brew”with castor oil to induce labor. I get it y’all, the last few weeks of pregnancy are awful, but would you rather deal with an extra week of misery or a lifetime when you come empty handed bc you couldn’t wait?
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We really raised $3500 for that moms embryo transfer to turn out racist and use our money for a cruise, new pool, and more. I’m trying to not let this hurt my generosity for the future but wow I was rooting for her
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My ex and I broke up a year ago now and I have still not gotten over him never giving my kayak back. He has his new girl sleeping in and using the entire bedroom set I bought but literally all I want is my fkn kayak!!!
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Happy one year to this pic where I was pregnant with Lana and despite the obvious rounding of my stomach I had no idea🤩😂
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Trump supporters are rioting because they didn’t get their way, but had the audacity to call people thugs for rioting over innocent black lives being taken. Read that and then read it again. You can’t make it make sense.
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I never miss my mom, I really don’t. But times like last night while I’m in the ER for 8 hours sobbing with no one to hold me I get so angry that I missed out on having a mom. I needed a hug. I needed support. I deserved to not have a dead phone while alone bawling in pain.
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I’ll never date someone with kids again bc my exes son had his kinder orientation today & I’m so glad I stayed friends with his mom so I can watch him grow up but seeing photos has me bawling. Leaving that boy when I left his dad was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.
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Parker’s pediatrician has always been my
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Oh really 600 of you can watch my stories but I get 10 likes per tweet? I hate it here
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And I’m pissed. I’m a single mom I was just trying to help someone out and I feel so taken advantage of. This is the third time this has happened with someone on here and it’s making it so hard to be freaking generous. She’s ignoring my texts now and I’m over it so here I am.
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This is your reminder to wear what you want. Eat what you want. Post your selfies. Post on social media 100x a day if that’s what you want to do. Who is stopping you? We have one life!! Be yourself, unapologetically. And stop talking shit on strangers for doing it!
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I fucking love pumpkin spice season and I do not care if that makes me basic. Let me drink my PSL, eat my pumpkin pie, and burn my pumpkin candles in peace
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Parker’s dad switched him forward facing without asking me and I’m so angry :’) I know he’s 4 but I make the safety decisions for the son I raise. He only has him 4 days a month I’m soooo mad
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I think that after I get to AZ and get settled I’m going to go the sperm donation route 😬 I’m really nervous but my heart is set on giving Parker a sibling and he’s already way older than I wanted him to be with no step parent in sight so I’m just going to do it my way lmao
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Girl he just handed over custody for his two already living children, what are you excited for?? I wish you luck on raising your baby, but Tim being a dad again is nothing to be excited about. I watched him ignore his newborn son multiple times with my own eyes lmfao
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If you never see your friends that is not normal. If every time you want to hang out with your friends they insist on coming, that is not normal. If you start to forget what your life was like before you met them that is not normal.
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I might be controversial this one time. I dont think it’s ok to tell moms to be more grateful bc you wish you had kids to be quarantined with. I also struggle & wish I could have all my babies earth side but it doesnt take away that being stuck inside with toddlers is hard😬
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Sorry for all the pics, but here was the final look 🥰 sorry to those who voted black dress 😂
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Being a step parent and then the relationship ending and you never getting to see the kid again is traumatic af. Can you imagine living with a child giving them all your love and providing for them and then you just have to pretend it never happened :’)
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My ex who I was going to marry and got pregnant 3x with is moving on and I feel like it’s been long enough that I shouldn’t be upset, but Jesus Christ I don’t know why it feels like my heart is breaking all over
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The way my sister and I said “you look so good omg” on repeat while taking pictures last night for them all to turn out like this
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Throwing things and punching holes in walls and threatening you even if they don’t follow through is ABUSE. “Before they hit you they hit near you” It is not a matter of if, but when. If you need help finding resources to get out in your area my dms are open.
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Don’t date people with normal names that are spelled weird. That means their parents were weird or crazy, which means they will more than likely be weird or crazy. This is coming from a Casadi (said like Cassidy). I can spot a red flag because I am the red flag
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@DoubleA_OTW
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No! The exhibit is called “what were you wearing” to take back control of the phrase from people who genuinely think what you had on matters, because we know it doesn’t
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I just testified in a public hearing about my rape & the ways I was wronged to give feedback to Missouri’s sexual assault task force on how to better serve victims. I’m so grateful I was selected. It was a good experience & I hope my testimony can pave the way for a better system
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My SIL had a 90s themed birthday last weekend and my man didn’t even complain when I was too drunk by 10:30 and asked him to pick me up and get Taco Bell🤣 I talked to him about my fake eyelashes in the drive thru for 10 minutes lmfao
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I matched with a girl on tinder & before even saying hello sent me a BOOK about what she expected from me in a relationship and before I could even respond, friend requested me on Facebook & liked a bunch of my photos…I have never blocked someone so fast
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I might be a lil toxic because it upsets me that I met my ex when he was a “mattress on the floor guy” and left him a “matching bedroom set man” 😂
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When someone loses a living child we don’t tell them how to grieve, so why should I feel this in silence just because I didn’t get to know her. We learned of your existence & our loss so quickly, yet it feels like a lifetime of happiness was taken. I’ll think of you always
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I’ve never understood girls under 5’3 needing their man to be 6ft+. Like doesn’t everyone look 6ft to you from down there??
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If you still went on vacation after the government literally begs us daily to stay home and then come back upset about how this might continue until after summer, I HAVE NO SYMPATHY. SOCIAL DISTANCING IS NOT PARTYING AT PCB WITH THOUSANDS OF STRANGERS, ASHLEY.
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Reminder that Bill Cosby admitted to his crimes and was released on a technicality NOT because he is innocent. My heart goes out to his victims and all the victims out there who no longer feel safe knowing their rapist could be set free on a missed detail.
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I wish Twitter had a close friends option because I have news but I also have over 3k followers and that makes me anxious 🤣🤣🤣
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Not to mention we have literally never been close and only texted one other time so I was genuinely just trying to be nice by lending this money to her right before Christmas because she asked. And now she is dodging me and posting about getting her eyebrows done lmao
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Leaving is hard and this is a judgement free zone. It took me a year to realize I was abused, and another year after that to leave. It’s normal to miss them, but you can survive this. You are better without them.
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@trottertribeyt
That is so scary and I’m sorry you had to endure that. I’m so glad you made it home safe❤️
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Having mommy AND daddy issues is wild bc Im always learning new ways that it effected me. Told my therapist last week one of my unhealthy coping mechanisms& she said”yeah that makes sense for someone who never had a reliable adult in her life”like okay I know keep your voice down
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I would just like to put this out there for those of you lacking common sense, if you ask me if my baby died because I got vaccinated, I will punch you in the fucking face.
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I had to make the hard decision to no longer let parker go to his dads on weekdays now that he’s starting school and I just texted him to let him know and he left me on read and my anxiety is through the roof waiting for the screaming match to start 🥲
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My favorite thing to tell people recently is my sister in law who’s not really my SIL anymore got custody of me in the divorce 😂
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