Cutty
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Unbiased advice for relationships, friends and life’s sticky moments! Book a Cutty Call! Author of The M in Man Is for Money and Mending Me! Zodiac Snitch!
Joined August 2011
Life’s messy. Sometimes you need honest, unbiased advice to make sense of it all. I got you!.💬 Dating/Relationships.💬 Friendships/Family.💬 Overthinking & Self-Doubt.Let’s figure it out together. Book a call with me! It’s anonymous!
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WHY DID A CHILD JUST DELIVER MY AMAZON PACKAGE?! With the vest on. AND ASKED ME TO SIGN!? Is this legal? He definitely was like 10/11/12.
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I took a solo trip to Bora Bora. Hair not done. Left all my makeup at home. No nails. No lashes. No new clothes or sandals. Actually I brought my water shoes and Old Navy flip flops (because they are SO COMFY). My designer ones are flat and HARD. No pics of myself. I felt FREE.
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Y’all need to start finding the value in the men who treat you well… ALL the time. Not sometimes. Not when y’all together. Not when he’s in a good mood. Not when his money is up. ALWAYSSSSS.
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Niggas can’t take you moving on chile. They want you to sit right there and eat their shit. Something is seriously wrong with them.
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I decided that I don’t want to confront people about not showing up for me as a friend. I want to let them do as much or little as they want.
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When you’ve been through a lot of stuff you realize how important respect is. And it’s not about demanding respect from everyone. It’s about not engaging with people who don’t respect you.
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Stop having sex with people who don’t deserve to have sex with you.
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S/O to the men who wake up everyday to handle their own business but simultaneously make sure you’re good and find ways to put a smile on your face because making you feel good makes him feel good! And then you make him feel good cuz you feel good. Whew.
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I don’t even strive to change a man’s mind about doing something for me. He’s totally entitled to NOT want to or to NOT do it. I’m also totally entitled to NOT deal with him. We don’t have to make this a battle at all.
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Sag and Aquarius are two signs that read energy WRONG and then match it with wrong energy. That’s how they’re always in some BS. Especially with other women/friends. They should stop assuming cuz they’re not intuitive.
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There should be courses on Sag, Virgo, Pisces, Cancer and Libra men. They are very very very dangerous but you don’t KNOW until it’s too late.
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Every time I see a girl with a Sag man, I already know what she’s going through behind closed doors. I’ll never be fooled by the good times.
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I like men who are nice, level headed and calm. Not moody, mean, combative or an asshole.
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People love acting like being in a relationship is the bar. Nah being happy is. Being confident is. Having self-esteem is. Knowing your worth is. Please stop.
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My current rule of thumb is, if a guy isn’t doing anything for me or with me, he’s not getting what he wants from me. It’s that simple. I literally can’t even like you if you’re not doing anything. What’s to like? 🤔.
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I love the signs that don’t mind Leos being Leos. The rest of them so pressed to wanna throw shade at Leos and insult and bad mouth them. I ain’t gonna name which ones are the haters. Yall know who you are. 🫠.
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There’s a man out there who thinks you’re the best thing since sliced bread and is willing to be everything you NEED but I’m not sure if you SEE him.
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Men assume sex with them is desirable and pleasurable. A lot of times it’s not.
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I don’t believe the “AND DID”… I think she’s just trolling. I would say that too just to fuck with someone’s head.
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Women chase a title so bad and skip over what’s actually going on. You trying to lock THIS in? Why?.
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I only like men who want to make sure I’m good and make life easier and better for me. 🥹.
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I let a man see me in my natural state without makeup as quick as possible cuz I don’t want to even uphold always being done up to be around him.
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Y’all gotta learn to stop talking to your friends crazy like they some stranger on the street when you’re mad.
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I like men who let me be me and I don’t have to tip toe around them. I want to let my hair down and be free from judgment and fear of turning you off.
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Work on yourself and the man you deserve is literally around the corner.
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What month you gotta get pregnant to have a Taurus cuz there’s a lot of them? The hell.
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Some men play deaf, dumb and blind when in reality they just have very strong principles about who deserves what and they ain’t waivering on that. So they’ll let you be a broken record if you don’t mind. But he knows you’re never getting what you’re asking for from him.
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For example, what a Sagittarius girl portrays on the outside and who she is on the inside are polar opposites. Sag girls have a very hardcore demeanor on the surface, inside they are MUSH. Kind, sensitive, giving, helpful, sentimental. Most people do NOT know this.
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I love men who buy me things. Small things. Big things. Give me money. Take me on trips. Spend quality time. Affectionate. Kind. Compliments me. 🥰.
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Sags are the bachelors of the zodiac. Even when they are married they still think they’re single.
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As friends, Taurus are the best out of the earth signs in my opinion.
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Taurus people taught me loyalty and friendship on a deeper level. They treat their real friendships like relationships and there’s no hierarchy. They are consistent and thorough.
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I love men who care about my career and how they can support me.
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Fire signs show up in relationships in action. You will know if a fire sign likes you by if they are DOING “anything” for you. Helping you in any way (physically, business, problem solving), paying, buying you a gift, doing favors… everything. Fire signs are DOERS!.
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The Sagittarius is a very forgiving sign. The Aquarius is not as forgiving at all.
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Pisces men are top 3 most manipulative men in the zodiac. They’re the oldest, wisest, most cunning, most conniving… chile please. The other 2 are Cancer and Virgo men. Sag is in there too but these guys are smarter. 😭.
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But can we talk about the men who are the shit? Thank God for them. The men who actually like women. And not just physically. But really take pride in being an asset to her. God Bless them!.
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If you’re dealing with a guy and he doesn’t want to take you out. Stop dealing with him. Like why are we trying to convince him to do it? Stop taking that on as a challenge to get your way. Get out. Move on.
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I like men who teach me things and want to learn and do new things with me.
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Diddy been trying to creep back outside. The universe was like nuh uh.
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This does NOT mean I will leave you for dead, drunk, passed out, in danger. Etc. This means if you are in perfectly FINE condition and you WANT TO pivot and go off on your own then OKAY! I won’t be mad. And I hope you won’t be mad the other way around. Y’all gotta relax 😒.
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The idea of someone “coming back” to you should not give you satisfaction or stroke your ego. Especially someone who treated you poorly in the past. Them trying again is a test of your own morals, self-respect and self-esteem. It is NOT about you. It’s the universe testing you.
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It’s all fun and games til the stress causes you to suffer a breakdown, heart attack, stroke or aneurysm. Stress literally kills. I ain’t letting nobody stress me ever again in life.
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You do NOT need to be scared to lose someone who is NOT treating you nicely or doing anything that you want to do.
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I could be dealing with someone knowing we not in a relationship and totally fine with it but the minute I find out about someone else, I don’t like him anymore. He coulda been doing it all along and everything was fine but now that I know I’m turned off.
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I literally be obsessed with my nigga. I don’t even think about anyone else. I’m super clingy and wanna spend every spare moment together.
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It’s been very scary for me to demote friends. But once I realized that everyone is doing what’s best for them except me then I was like bitch you late to the party. Get on the bandwagon. What are you scared for?.
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I don’t know why I have to say this everyday: . Stop dealing with men who don’t do shit with you or for you. Like wtf.
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Me not being affected by most things is not fake. I learned it. I’m not pretending to not care about things. I really learned how to distinguish what matters and what doesn’t. Plus how to deal with the cards I’m dealt. Not worry about the what-ifs.
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You don’t need a rich man. You just need a generous man or a considerate man. Those are two different types. A generous man just gives and a considerate man just isn’t gonna see you struggle and turn the blind eye.
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If I’m calling or texting you and you purposely ignore me for days … I’m not talking to you anymore. I don’t ever treat people like that and I never want to be treated like that. If I find out you’re alive… you might as well be dead.
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If a man doesn’t want to give you money, buy you anything, take you out, OKAYYYYYYYYYY. No problem. Actually, why do you even like him?! 😭.
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Virgo girls are very genuine if they are YOUR friend. Just because you think a Virgo girl is YOUR friend doesn’t mean she thinks the same thing about you. You can not befriend a Virgo. They can only befriend you.
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Everything Cardi says Offset did to her… he did. Sagittarius men are evil, deranged, jealous and spiteful. You can’t trust them at ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.
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I personally feel like, if you consider us to be friends then you should know that I would NEVER deliberately try to hurt your feelings. So if you automatically assumed that then it’s a YOU problem. And if you didn’t even try to get any understanding then that’s a YOU problem.
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I only cut people off for things they actually did. Not how I perceived something. And to me the why you did something doesn’t really matter to me. Because you handled it in a manner I don’t appreciate.
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I can’t think of JT and Caresha cuz all I see is Sag and Aquarius and I feel like I already know how it went. 🫠.
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Women… have you ever experienced a man being jealous of you?.
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I would never meet someone’s friend and have an attitude with them or be standoffish because she’s new. Like what’s wrong with people?.
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Black people don’t think they get paid enough to do anything. 😭.
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You don’t gotta fuck every nigga you like or think is attractive. Fight the tingle.
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Which male zodiac sign is hands down the best when it comes to courting? He doesn’t leave any stone unturned and he goes hard 100% when he likes you! Like A++++ treatment! Which sign is that for you?.
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When you accept that you blatantly ignored red flags because you wanted what you wanted then it’s okay to be like “my bad” and keep pushing. You don’t have to be a victim forever.
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Fire signs do ALLLLLLL of the love languages. And they pretty much want the same in return. Cuz why can’t you do five things? Are you a one trick pony? Ewww.
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My pussy did stink one time tho. We had sex too fast after an abortion. Smelled like death. Oh damn it was a death.
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Forgive yourself for what you used to tolerate and just don’t do it anymore.
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I’m attracted to who treats me like royalty. Fuck everyone else.
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Stop being scared to ruffle the feathers of a man who’s not doing what you want ANYWAY!!!.
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Libra men live to humble and leech off of a woman with her shit together. They are SOOOOO insecure they have to shake up your confidence and self-esteem because they are so unsettled and unhappy themselves. They are depressed, unstable maniacs.
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Start choosing up. Don’t be afraid to lose a nobody and a nothing.
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If a dude doesn't want to buy you $1500 shoes but will pay for a course or your car to get fixed then PAY ATTENTION! Why are you getting mad about the shoes?.
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Not ONLY is Pisces men’s guilty pleasure being a white noise that drives you insane and chips away at all your morals, standards and esteem … Pisces men are literally jealous of women. You’re automatically in a lesbian relationship with Pisces men.
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Dealing with anything less than what you want or deserve is your fault. I am NOT going to convince, guilt trip, beg or debate ANY MAN on what I want him to do for or with me. I respect what he is NOT with. But I don’t have to accept it.
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A nigga who fucks with you gonna fuck with you even if he ain't fucking you.
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Stay away from Sag men unless you wanna go to the mental ward.
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Aquarius and Cancers’ crazy side is scary BUT they USUALLY will retreat and disconnect before they go there. They don’t care about A LOT.
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Virgos are not nice. Critical. Not consistent. And will act weird over the smallest thing and ghost people. Virgos don’t care about friendship. They care about men/relationships. Don’t nobody got time for the BS. I tolerate them but they’re not enjoyable to me.
Not saying Virgo is wild.
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My question for the people who go into isolation for whatever reason, what do you want from your friends? To leave you alone til you feel better? Help you? Check on you? Like what are people supposed to do as ur friend? And do u have no expectation or responsibility as a friend?.
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Instead of brainwashing yourself about how much you allegedly love someone… Ask yourself…Am I proud of this situation? That will give you more clarity on whether or not you should be dealing with it.
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Let me tell you something else y’all not gonna like…. stop prioritizing sex in your life. A lot of times, women use sex to feed their ego, make them feel wanted and desired, have perceived control, a need for attention. Etc. STOP!.
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I love men who don’t care what I make cuz he’s going to pay for whatever regardless.
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The crazy thing is people swear Leo people want attention from EVERYONE. Leos want attention from specific people. Whoever they have their eye on. Nobody else in the world even exists at the moment. They are laser focused on getting THAT person’s attention.
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I like men who read and are informed with mad stuff. Let’s be cool nerds together.
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Sag men have taken care of me and babied me and supported me 100% and were still doing the fucking MOST behind my back. They never half step with their girl, ever. And still got 7 other bitches. 🥹.
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If someone handled me poorly the 1st time around and they came back trying to sell me the refurbished version of himself, I rather miss out on it than take the chance. This is only for ME personally. I’m cool with possibly missing out on the better version. I’m okay.
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I love Geminis because they give and really don’t care about getting anything in return. The men and the women don’t care enough about anything. They be onto the next.
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You can’t help niggas. They will shit on you time and time again.
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When you stop having sex and stop telling yourself you need sex… you’ll gain so much power and ration it out to who truly deserves it instead of giving it to people who don’t deserve it because you’re telling yourself it’s for you. A lot of times it’s NOT for you! Be still.
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I never been the “If we came together, we leave together” girl. Do what you want. I’m not your chaperone. And you ain’t mine.
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When you get in touch with yourself and really start to understand, fix and love yourself… you will not give AF about much else.
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My confidence comes from knowing myself. The good, the bad, the strengths and the weaknesses. Owning stuff, not denying anything. Listening and learning more about myself all the time.
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