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life coach • relational wizard • Circling, group facilitator • communication geek • emotional fluency • self actualization • analog photographer • dad • hi!

Bay Area and Sacramento, CA
Joined April 2025
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What is real in connection between you and another will survive the appropriate pacing of moving slowly and letting things build reciprocally, gradually, incrementally What is imaginary requires acceleration to stay alive
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I tried a brain taco the other night. Very underwhelming, just a bland creamy mass
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Parenting turns toxic the moment you need/expect validation & appreciation from them. It’s your duty to provide love & resources & shepherding thanklessly. Maybe they show gratitude maybe they don’t, up to them, but it’s not their responsibility, if you need love ask your spouse
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The final boss of self mastery is being able to connect successfully with anybody
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I was finally able to trick myself into a daily consistent meditation practice once I rebranded it as “I have very serious and important work to do”
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Common growth arc with boundaries: • say nothing, whether because you don’t know what they are or could be, or afraid • very vocal about boundaries. Let everyone know what’s not okay! • either saying little to nothing because you take nothing personally OR you lead them deeper
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Often, the higher and sharper one’s intellect, the cleverer their ego deflection and intimacy avoidance strategies
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Stopped for a scoop of ice cream on my way to the hot springs, the girl working the counter said “for being so tall you’re surprisingly well proportioned” lmao
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How anyone can enjoy Mozart more than Tchaikovsky is absolutely wild and beyond me
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Just because (x) awful thing happened to you doesn’t mean you have to stay in pain about it
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Almost all of my clients, I keep telling them “maintain a steady consistent breath through the nose at all times no matter what” and no joke twenty seconds later at the first sign of an intense emotion or sensation they hold their breath, it’s like are you a retard or what
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This of the kind of energy I’m bringing into 2026
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Credit to @StewartalsopIII, one of my favorite meme suppliers
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“I went on a silent solitary retreat for a month where I didn’t have any human contact or speak to anybody even once so that I could awaken and better understand the nature of reality” 😭
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Your job as a masculine male in a committed relationship with a woman is to make her life as easy as possible and this can take so many forms
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If your wife isn't a stay at home Mom you should absolutely be doing dishes and laundry and changing diapers. You should probably wear a little hat that says "chore guy" on it or something. Do not be a slimy worm who expects a free bang maid
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Once I went to a Competitive T Group, one participant was a woman who kept nervously oversharing and taking up social space (and was wearing a revealing top), I felt spicy and said “my impression is you need to be controlled and put in your place”, she later asked for my number
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