Niharika
@niharigoat
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learning, unlearning & relearning | all views personal
India
Joined March 2012
peak female experiences:.a. never wanting to become like your mother.b. becoming like your mother.c. finally understanding your mother.d. loving yourself and your mother like never before.
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instagram feature update: switch story to close friends if you posted on main accidentally.
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instagram pls remove the repost icon at least from where comments used to be the comments i want to read are on the most horrifying posts pls i can’t keep reposting them by mistake.
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so much of being a celebrity was the absence of access to them and their lives, more democratised access through social media means that no one is as classy as they were in our imaginations.
Every day, I feel that India has lost all its modernity, class, and sense of urbanism after 2014. Now, Page 3 celebrities seem classless, uneducated and dehati.
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my ex used to call me miss information lol.
ever since i was a little girl ive loved information.
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[ girl who has lost her AirPods twice ] i don’t believe in bluetooth man, wired earphones are vintage and they don’t need to be charged???.
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yeah eat a gol gappa jfc.
i hate it when grown ass men eat pani puri.
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your environment is your second brain. and if you spend most of your time ingesting information on screens, nothing quite allows you to quickly reconfigure it like youtube. one of the first signs of being invested in a subject is when your youtube homepage reflects it.
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i need to be in vacation time, by which i mean passing time until my next vacation can’t lose sight of the goal.
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how to explain the hurt you feel when you see a reel and go omg that’s so us and then see they’ve liked it but not sent it to you.
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people think careers are zero sum games, i.e., don’t help people because they might take what you have but career building is the exact opposite, opening doors will, time and again, open doors for you.
im always working towards increasing my luck surface area. i never shy away from constantly putting myself out there making friends or just helping as many people. we need people to take our names in rooms we aren’t a part of. that’s how life comes full circle. my career lores.
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but guess what won’t be better out there? that feeling of satisfaction that we went through this whole choice ordeal for.
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there’s a balance to be had between compromising to make things work and compromising on what you already have because there’s always something better out there. there will always be something better out there, a better job, a better friend, a better thing to do.
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the only other way is to eliminate the thinking and just do. if something is right, even in a sea of other rights, just follow suit and execute and do it fast so you can figure it out faster.
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the only solution to avoiding decision paralysis and fatigue is to remove choices, eliminating on absolute no go’s; it doesn’t matter if he has a cat, he doesn’t want kids and if that’s a no go for you, he’s sadly out the pool.
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this feeling permeates everything, endless to-do lists at work, career options for every “generalist”, romance hunting on hinge, and most importantly, figuring out what to do with your time, leading ultimately to doom scrolling (something that requires no cognitive load).
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having choices limits freedom completely and entirely; the cognitive effort it takes to make the decision and the fatigue that follows leading you to be ultimately unhappy with anything you pick is the opposite of “feeling free”.
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want to work from a coffee shop at 11 but want to eat food at home at 1 but want to be at coffee shop again by 2 how to solve.
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