scylla 🫧
@myscyllamoon
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secular nun | habitual clocker | not fun at parties
Joined September 2024
The way to stop women from being disgusted with male attention by the time theyre of dating age would be for grown men to stop trying to molest teenaged girls
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i love when strangers complain together that is so funny to me Imao
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Women saying sex work is coerced like they exist outside that same system. From the moment you hit puberty, men sexualize you, pressure you, and structure your social world around how much access they have to your body. Under patriarchy no woman operates outside of male influence
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@waifuterf Lol, all sex work is “selling bodies to survive” and all non-paid sex work is “true love and intimacy” ignores reality. Yes, having sex for money is less than desirable. So is having sex because you want so desperately for a man to be your companion and not turn to other women.
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Women are so uncomfortable admitting that the line between intimacy and transaction is a lot more thin than they thought lol
Why do sexually active women act like theyre better than self proclaimed prostitutes or sex workers? Yall are literally doing the same exact labor for the same exact men.
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@spinofftheperc @tloastargirl @sadsadlady_ as a bisexual celibate, the inability for humans to find connection outside surface level sex and dating leading to oftentimes loveless or even failed marriages is something that is socialized. this isn’t something innate to human beings. we are sociologically complex and can /1
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@dwabtme85 @myscyllamoon stop having sex with him for a few months see if he still loves you so mucu
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Friendship (low utility/low cost) Receives a fair amount of shame and lots of skepticism, because the man gains no sexual access, no domestic labor, and no childrearing, only conversation/companionship. Often why most men claim they cant be friends with women. Lack of payout.
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Prostitution (low utility/high cost) High shame because the man must pay for everything he recieves (he doesnt benefit unequally enough) he gains sexual acces that he pays for but recieves nothing else (no labor, no exclusivity, no childrearing) no social illusions to help him.
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Bf/Girlfriend (high utility/low cost) Low shame,he gains many of the same benefits as marriage (sex on demand, emotional support, and often domestic labor) while making nearly no investment. It also saves women from the “prostitute” label, making them willing to provide it.
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Marriage (high utility/high cost) Historically low shame because the man gains children (“LeGaCy”), a domestic manager, and exclusive, on demand, sexual access. He recieves long term labor and stability (utility) but makes a high stakes economic investment (cost).
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Male Utility filter = the amount of social approval / shame attached to male-woman relationships based on how much the male benefits from the relationship. Read the thread ↓
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Mens provider status created dependancy. When women started working, the “provider” guise vanished. When a product loses its primary feature (provision), it must be rebranded and sold based on another feature (love). Broke men remain competitive suitors, and impregnate women. 🎉
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Mens provider status created dependancy. When women started working, the “provider” guise vanished. When a product loses its primary feature (provision), it must be rebranded and sold based on another feature (love). Broke men remain competitive suitors, and impregnate women. 🎉
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Now that men no longer earn enough to solely provide for their families, men have lost their leverage + purpose in hetero relationships. When material reality collapses, emotion driven delusion emerges. (Words, performative emotional intelligence, and “love”)
Like, that doesnt seem suspicious?? Sex outside of marriage being valid, then suddenly requiring any materials from men being invalid benefits who exactly? Men with no materials? Right, right.
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Sex is the corrupting factor. Youre not more virtuous just because you go home empty handed after, lol.
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