A few years later I came out as a chaser once I figured myself out. Its a never ending process of correcting people when they make assumptions about what I like or why I am with the people I am with. It is now equally as important to me that I proudly announce that I am a chaser.
I definitely do get mistaken for other headless white twitter chasers quite often. Small price to pay I guess.
Sure makes for some awkward conversation, though.
And I must tell people often, and directly. I don't want any sort of stigma around me or in my circle about what I like or who I am.
Visibility is important. Be proud of who you are!
Raleigh, NC had a crazy amount of really hot guys that are very eager to please, given its population. Really friendly, and those cuuuuuute southern accents.
Fort Lauderdale - Mostly guys 50+ in my experience. Pretty friendly. Pretty easy to get laid so long as you are into older guys. The bars are comfortable, low-key and casual. Must have a car to travel, though.
Washington, D.C. - Some very hot locals, Pretty sex positive attitudes. A lot of guys in the surrounding suburbs that are willing to drive to you. You do have to deal with a lot of pretense that comes with them.
Also a heavy dose of tourists looking to get laid at all times.
@ALWAYSxGAINING
Both are fun! Sometimes it’s a nice change of pace when the bottom knows what they want instead of the common “do with me what you want” bit
@Chub4u2
8th grade gym locker room, so like 12? I didn't understand it at the time but there was this super cute guy in my class who I would get to the locker room early for so I could stare at him.
So the party was really fun! Got to see a lot of friends, and also meet a bunch of new people. I would definitely recommend going if you get the chance!
Minneapolis - Some hot guys, but not that many. Generally not as sex positive as other places. It seems like nobody can host. The guys are very friendly, and the bars are fun and pretty welcoming to all.
@tfgnsfw
Physically? Face, Belly, Ass Legs, in that order. Otherwise I find that chubby guys generally have more interesting ways to look at life, have a better sense of humor and don't take themselves too seriously, which I adore.
@hey_its_baloo
Chasers have to go on two coming out journeys. First they have to come out as gay, which has gotten easier over the years. Secondly they have to come out as a chaser, which has not gotten any easier over the years. That journey can take varying amount of time
@WelshChub94
For some situations, alot of guys we hook up with are uncomfortable with us touching parts of them they are insecure about. So we learn to not do that because we are afraid it might make them uncomfortable. Believe me, chasers want to touch the belly!
@ChubUsa
I think people are passionate because these events mean so much to them. So many of them plan trips and weekends around them. So cancelling a few days out with no explanation can make people feel slighted.
@curiousgayus
The same way you would approach anyone. Introduce myself, tell them they are handsome, and then ask them questions!
It depends on what my goal is, though. To be friends? To date? To hookup with? I try to be very upfront with people regardless.
@FatBoyBreaker
Thanks. Would be great if you would just retweet instead of downloading and re-uploading, so you don’t steal the views, and control from the people who actually make the content