@fem_mb
Is he using the open changing area? How do you cope with that? Personally I’d be in the family locker room safely in a cubicle, and looking for another gym to join. For me, it wouldn’t be worth the grief you’d get for speaking up.
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I swim at a local gym that has a small, open women's locker room - no cubicles even for the showers. There's no way to be modest. There's a separate 'family' locker rm with cubicles that people can use.
A post-op TiM just joined. There's a sign on the locker room doors that…
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@mskatestafford
Yes, he is using the open area. I was already undressed when he walked in the last time, but in the future if he is at the pool, I will move to the 'family' locker room.
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@fem_mb
That's exactly what he wants you to do. Don't /stop surrendering your spaces to men.
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@fem_mb
I’d find this would be give me anxiety before during and after the pool. I always like a cubicle!
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@fem_mb
True. He doesn’t use men areas bc “accidents” may befall him. All bullship rolls downhill until it hits a woman. That’s always where it lands.
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