Rubiales’ refusal to resign is horrifying. But it's worse to see the men in the room applaud him - and the leaders in this sport who are still silent
If we can't agree to punish sexual misconduct caught on video in front of millions, how can women anywhere in football feel safe?
I have a new job: I'm going to work at U.S. Soccer as the chair of its new Participant Safety Taskforce. We still have so much work to do! LFG.
Here’s my full statement:
For those wondering - yes I got my JD, yes I’m taking the bar, yes I’m coaching college soccer, and yes I still want to practice law. I am going to do all the things.
I’m done with coaches (mostly male) making sexual and romantic advances on their players. I’ll call it out — 7/8 of my male coaches and 1/4 of my female coaches dated, had sex with, or married one of their players. & usually it’s more than one player. How many do you know?
The Yates report demands immediate attention and accountability. Instead, it has been met with silence from the teams, and inaction from the NWSL and the PA. We should not have to wait for the League to finish its report - which is NOT independent - to seek justice for players.
Personal update:
@mollyhc
and I got engaged last night and we’re celebrating at the
@GothamFC
home opener tonight. Let’s gooo Sinead!!! (And the rest of our friends playing) 😘❤️
That was so fun!!! Thank you
@GothamFC
for believing in me. I love this team and can’t wait for what’s to come! And I have to say - I’m proud to call
@NWSL
home now.
Today marks one year since the Yates Report was released and Sinead and I are on our way to training together (!!) Thanks
@GothamFC
&
@NWSL
for giving us a safe place to heal and enjoy the game again!
NEW: A Post investigation found multiple allegations of sexual misconduct against former NWSL coach Rory Dames in youth soccer, including a player who alleged he groomed her and had sex with her once she turned 18.
"Nobody believed those teenagers."
This is a major concern that needs our immediate attention. It’s awful to have to discuss this before we know how many have lost their lives, but anyone who knows disaster capitalism knows the urgency of protecting our ‘āina from developers and greedy malihini.
Lahaina residents worry that rebuilt homes in their Maui town could slip into the hands of affluent outsiders seeking a tropical haven rather than homegrown residents who give the Hawaiian island its spirit and identity.
February 17, 2017 - the day I worked up the courage (I was so anxious!) to try a mood stabilizer for the first time. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder months earlier and I worried medication would dull my personality or affect my athletic performance or make me seem weak.
I’ve been thinking about this for a little while and I want to set the record straight after the Thorns “investigation” was released. Gavin Wilkinson explicitly told me to be more like a player who we both knew to be closeted. There was no misunderstanding.
The problem was not just that that they knew and said nothing. They did everything they could to keep the truth from coming out.
We need to protect players and hold people accountable when they don’t.
After playing the beautiful game for 23 years, it’s time to hang up my boots. A couple of heavy injuries coincided with a true kāhea to move home to Hawai’i and pursue my next dream. I am starting law school in a…
This is absolutely horrific. You're telling us
@chicagoredstars
players reported their head coach's abuse and they were dismissed? Nothing changed?? I'm disgusted. Thank you
@mollyhc
@ChristenPress
Jen Hoy and the other players for your honesty and bravery. We will not stop.
NEW: NWSL players went to US Soccer with multiple complaints about emotional abuse by Red Stars coach Rory Dames
"I was made to feel by U.S. Soccer that I was in the wrong, there was nothing to report, and that this was acceptable," said Christen Press.
In my dream tonight the NWSL will be completely owned and operated by women, transgender, and non-binary humans. It will be safe and happy and everyone will be on their best behavior. Goodnight! 🌙
Gavin told “investigators” that he called the meeting about a tweet I sent. He never mentioned a tweet in our meeting. It pains me that after everything that happened this year, Gavin, Merritt, and the Thorns are still attacking victims. But it does not surprise me.
Many people have asked me what players need to heal from this abuse/feel safe in the future. Feel therapy has to be on the list. The kind where you get to choose any therapist you want and see them as many times as you need and it doesn't get held up by insurance.
I meant free therapy, not feel therapy. And when I say free I mean the NWSL should pay our therapists their full rate for our sessions. This should apply to all current and former players who were abused by these coaches.
Many people have asked me what players need to heal from this abuse/feel safe in the future. Feel therapy has to be on the list. The kind where you get to choose any therapist you want and see them as many times as you need and it doesn't get held up by insurance.
Vulnerability is a sign of strength, not weakness. My teammates and I are determined to make sure everyone has the support they need.
Launching the first mental health initiative of its kind with my friends at
@CommonGoalOrg
.
This one’s for you Katie ❤️
My heart has been aching for our ‘ohana in Maui. Here’s a small way you can help.
100% of the proceeds go to relief efforts on Maui through the Council for Native Hawaiian Advancement. Mahalo
@GothamFC
&
@nwsl_players
for making this happen, I can’t thank you enough!!
In Hawaiian, mana means spiritual or divine power. We're sending our mana to the Maui community.
100% of profits will go to the
@hawaiiancouncil
’s relief efforts with the Native Hawaiian community on Maui. Click below to pre-order yours now. Shipping begins next week.
So I have some cool news: I’m starting a company with my friend, Ray! I couldn’t be more excited for the work ahead, and I am so grateful for my amazing colleagues/friends who are supporting me on this journey!
@ussoccer
@cone_cindy
@jtbatson
I’m looking forward to watching the final in Louisville. I hope we will have necessary but difficult conversations, and some fun — because soccer is fun.
The coach/player relationship closely resembles the teacher/student relationship - there’s a power imbalance that makes any sexual or romantic relationship inappropriate. For me personally, male advances feel more threatening than female ones. Why is this our norm? Thoughts?
Taking meds changed my life and I haven’t stopped taking them since this photo was taken. (Sinead took it to memorialize the moment after a lot of angst.) I know meds aren’t for everyone dealing with mental health challenges, but they can be very helpful for some people.
Alex Morgan: "The inclusion of trans kids in sports is the inclusion of kids in sports. Everyone should have the ability to play sport." (
@itsmeglinehan
)
This is poor reporting and perpetuates a very concerning narrative that kalo farmers and cultural practitioners are to blame for the lack of water. Developers and big private landowners have been taking the water from our streams for decades and hoarding it in their reservoirs.
I can’t help but wonder if I would have graduated from law school, started my job in safeguarding, and played professional soccer again if it weren’t for my meds and my wonderful psych team. I think it’s pretty unlikely considering how hard life was before I started taking them.
Another example of abuse. Kelli told me this story in her first pro preseason and all she wanted was an opportunity to love the game again. I am SO happy for her (see end of her thread), and also very sad for players who don’t get that opportunity.
#protecttheplayers
Abuse in soccer happens everywhere. College soccer was one of the most traumatic experiences for me. It’s taken me a while to be able to talk about this publicly but I want to help those who might need it (A thread)
I'm thrilled to announce the
@776foundation
will be investing in
@TheSportsBraPDX
to support their expansion into other cities.
All returns will be reinvested into girls' and women's sports 🏃♀️
Like I always say, women's sports, this is only the beginning 💪