This video is for men who no longer support patriarchy and misogyny and are dismantling, and for white people who no longer support white supremacy and racism and are dismantling. - What your (motives) and (intentions) are, only you know. 🤔

A woman not wanting kids is okay, a woman not wanting marriage is okay, it's okay because she's a person who has the freedom of choice. Stop shaming women for choosing to be childless and not wanting to be married. She's not harming anyone by wanting to be single and childless.

Women can be single if they want; life doesn’t revolve around us. There are so many other things that women can value in life outside of being a mother and wife. - Leave them alone.

If you're really a good man, you won't have to keep saying that you are; you'll just show that you are. - Just continue to show that you are, just do it, just be it. Women will be able to tell by how you treat them.

Men, instead of downplaying and disregarding women’s accomplishments and contributions, we should be proud of them, cheering them on, supporting them, acknowledging and recognizing them, and speaking highly of them.

Men, a lot of women do love us; it's just that they are displeased with how we treat them, and when they try to express their feelings and emotions about how poorly they are treated in this world, we constantly disregard them. That's something they don't appreciate.

Stop saying that we protect women when we are the main perpetrators. It doesn't make sense. We wouldn't need to protect them if we weren't harming them; stop harming them.

We have to stop bringing up how men go through this too when women are talking about what they deal with. It frustrates me how we refuse to understand what women go through without bringing up what we deal with. — It’s okay for us not to deflect.

Stop expecting black women to unite with us, knowing that we harm them on a regular basis. It makes no sense. We need to focus on treating them better. Not uniting with them. They don’t need to unite with us in order for us to treat them better.

It's all men: since all of us can be harmful, women have to be cautious of all of us. All of us need to show women that we are safe, not just tell them that we are; that isn't enough. We need to consistently show them that we are.

(All men) doesn't mean that we are all harmful; it means that women don't know which one of us is going to harm them, so they have to be cautious around ALL OF US. If you aren't a man who's harmful, good; continue to not be harmful and don't take "it's all men" personally.

We can't expect women to care about how we feel because when women bring up how there's a femicide happening, and patriarchy and misogyny, we constantly disregard them. So, what do we expect?

One reason why it’s important for a woman to still provide for herself even though a man is doing so is because some men weaponize providing for a woman unfortunately. Once she realizes that’s the case with a man, she can walk away knowing she’ll be okay without his provision.

A woman wanting to provide for herself even though a man is providing for her isn't a knock on him choosing to provide; it's about the fact that she's an individual with freedom of choice and understands that the man can choose to stop providing for her.

It's not about women needing to choose better; it's about us needing to be better. If we don't become better people, women will have to continue to choose better. There's only so much that women can do; women can't prevent us from hurting them.

Whether you realize it or not, you are adding unnecessary pressure on yourself; you are making it unnecessarily hard on yourself. A woman wanting you to lead her is one thing; however, it's not mandatory. Just being a leader is enough!

If we were meant to lead women, we wouldn't have to fight for it and convince women that they need to follow us. Having leadership skills and traits is enough; you don't need to be a leader specifically to lead a woman. Just be a leader, stop complicating it.

It's not necessary to lead a woman; just have leadership skills and traits that you'll utilize in the relationship when necessary. She's an adult, not a child; she should be responsible, accountable, and able to make wise decisions just like you!

When someone is expressing their problems to you, don't say that other people have it worse or that you are going through something. —— Doing this will come off as if you are insensitive. If they ask for advice, then that's when you give it; otherwise, just listen to them.

One of the best ways to help someone is to listen to them. Some people just need someone to listen. Listening to a person shows them that you care about what they are going through and how they feel about it.