当一个人不开心的时候，最可怕的就是孤独一个人憋着，陪他说话哪怕几句他只回一句，当天愿意说开的时候，陪着他不打断他让他说，这就是最好的帮忙！不是要着急解决他的问题，而是陪伴他让他说出来心里的苦闷和担忧！每天陪着哥哥一起度过难关！

Working long hours is the habit of industrial age… 那些每天卖命工作的就还停留在Employee, Self-employed. 不是一样要交税，一样要养家糊口，临时合同的打工仔管你是CEO还是junior clerk. 真正牛逼的是investor 和 entrepreneur。所以不要羡慕别人的名片是CEO。不是co-founder 都不稀奇。

强者恒强，定义新身份，摆脱弱者思维。有什么不行的，不试试怎么知道呢？再说了哪有什么失败，不过就是成功前的反馈而已，重复肯定能成功。

我的同学和我说他今年要取消旅游取消玩乐因为要把时间放在学习上，我一度也这么想过。但看看那些有钱人成功人士，赚几百亿几千亿的，醒来每天有各种危机和税务风险的人，不是照样在度假谈恋爱在游艇上派对吗？我们就这些课，犯不着放弃生活。规划好时间，养成好习惯远比被动学习重要。

To be successful in the B or I quadrant requires financial intelligence, systems intelligence, and emotional intelligence.

Information-Age thinking, which is why financial and emotional intelligence are vital today

How rich people become poor: 1. They have short-term vision. 2. They have a desire for immediate gratification. 3. They abuse the power of compounding.

knowledge and learning gained from each baby step also compounded over the years. People who took no steps at all did not have the leverage of a magnified accumulation of knowledge and experience that comes from compounding.

People who are afraid of taking action, out of fear of making mistakes, may be mentally smart, but they are also emotionally and physically handicapped.

action always beats inaction. If you take action and make a mistake, at least you have learned something, be it mentally, emotionally, or physically.

In the Information Age, quality information is our most important asset

Is this still working today? ‘Build businesses, and buy real estate’.

杨M八字丙寅 丁酉 己未，这个食神不是废了吗？酉金被丁火克，午火年再克，即便有巳午未不谁最终酉金被克吗？这个土只有天干强，地支一地鸡毛，等丑年开了未土，金木战克，酉金遍体凌伤。怎么会有人误以为她能当85大花？人家FBB马上要重出江湖了，哪有杨什么事。八字一个土，就靠酉金涨粉丝了。

Trust yourself, push the boundaries and aim for something that you think even for you is too hard, the chances are you're going to succeed in every instance! You're going to make the world better.

Every behavior has a positive intention. Before feeling in any way aggressed or threatened, you should always consider the best possible intention behind someone's behaviour.

Chance does not exist. Consider chance is not part of the equation. Success and failure is due to something you did well or not well enough. So that you can trigger constant reengineering so as to finally succeed.

我有很强大的belief system = 信念系统，我也有过挫折有过委屈有过眼泪，有过背叛，但是这一切发生都让我磨练成一个坚毅的人一个有强大信念不放弃的人。

每天逼自己努力1%， 一年就是37倍，那么15年的努力换来了今天的成绩，未来的526天我会超越今天的我！

为什么我能上岸，因为过去的15年每一天我都在努力，偶尔可能有几天过节休息，但基本上我比同龄人付出更多的时间在提升自己。 虽然我也会偶然羡慕其他人的逍遥自在，但我的内心有个声音我有更重要的事等着我，不能懈怠。即便是今天和同学交流了彼此的背景，我依然略显平庸，但我的未来势不可挡。

Champions don’t do extraordinary things,” Dungy would explain. “They do ordinary things, but they do them without thinking, too fast for the other team to react. They follow the habits they’ve learned.