No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.

stop dealing with people who don't have people in their life to tell them THEY WRONG !! these type of people lack accountability, they'll do something wrong to you & still feel like they right & they find a bunch of yes folks to hop on the bandwagon & gaslight them...

I stay far away from adults that struggle with accountability and play the victim in every situation. They will self sabotage any and everything in their life for the sake of protecting their ego and pride.

Neurodivergents will be like ‘I’m so tired’ and then refuse to sleep because they haven’t had enough me time after surviving the day.

closure is bullshit. the way people leave you, the way they exit your life, the way they leave their relationship or connection with you, is all the closure you need. find clarity in actions, not words ..

your trauma is not an excuse to be manipulative, nonchalant, or narcissistic towards good people.

Normalize apologizing when you’re wrong. Not ghosting. Not gaslighting. Just accountability.

a narcissists mindset in a nutshell: that didn’t happen, and if it did, it wasn't that bad, and if it was, it's not a big deal, & if it is, it's not my fault, and if it is, i didn't mean to do it, and If I did, you made me do it.

stop disrespecting yourself by making excessive efforts for someone who isn’t choosing you

They blamed you because it was easier than facing what they did.

mfs swear they be fighting demons whole time & it's just consequences to their actions 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

You disrespect yourself when you rekindle a relationship that humiliated you.

Functional depression is REAL. You work, you joke, you play and you love but MENTALLY you are drowning.

manipulative people really be like oh so now I'm the bad guy for being the bad guy

Some of you are overexplaining yourselves to people regarding how they hurt you because you ASSUME people lack self awareness. Many people know exactly what they’re doing, they’re just waiting for you to have an issue with it.

for your own sanity, always take inconsistency as a no

There's a thin line btw someone who's emotionally unavailable & someone who just doesn't want you & when you're emotionally involved that line doesn't just blur, it actually dissolves because when the heart is hungry, even breadcrumbs feels like a whole fucking meal.

The narcissist’s favorite gaslighting abuse tactic is to set you up to be angry and then shame you for that anger. It’s practically a form of entertainment for them.

Never trust someone who gets upset over your reaction to their actions. They hurt you, you respond, and suddenly you're the problem. That's manipulation.

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