@hapikohw
100%! It’s such a dishonest convo, to pretend like community is crumbling because people are no longer kind, thoughtful or valuing the collective. Girls have been burdened almost exclusively, unnecessarily & thanklessly. They are tired. 🤷🏾♀️
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At what point in the discourse do we talk about how much of ‘community’ has just been women & girls being expected to do things.
Babysitting for a friend is out. Older siblings making a bottle is out. Baby sitting for a family member during an emergency is also out. Tough crowd fr.
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@kharisizm
exactly
@Lerato_Sarisa
@thespicexqueen
Yea, it's kind of sad if community only stands if women work for it, not if we all do. I have never heard of bros babysitting their homeboys kids for them, a lot of people don't expect male babysitters for their kids and the eldest child in this scenario is usually the daughter..
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@hapikohw
It’s also not lost on me how convenient it is that people would rather complain community is dead than advocate for the primary providers of community be treated a little better??
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