Kevin A. Thompson
@kevinathompson
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Husband, father, and Married Life Pastor of @BaysideChurch . Author of Friends, Partners, & Lovers and Fearless Families.
Auburn, CA
Joined June 2009
A woman can't sleep with a man she doesn't respect. For many, intimacy struggles stem from a lack of partnership beyond just paying bills. It's about who you'll be in 10 years. #Relationships #Intimacy
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Financial decisions shouldn't be rushed. Instead of a surprise purchase, what if he'd said, "Let's revisit our budget together. I'd love to get this for the kids."? Inviting her voice builds partnership and respect. #friendspartnerslovers #changetheodds
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Most disobedience isn't a conscious act of rebellion. It's simply doing what comes naturally, without realizing what's demanded of us is something different. #Faith #Obedience
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Our deepest wounds often come from loved ones, not strangers. It's rarely a lack of love, but life's struggles that shape how we see ourselves, others, and even God. These assumptions? Often wrong. #LoveStyles #ChangetheOdds
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It always bugged me seeing pastor's families where every decision revolved around HIS career. Why can't her job dictate where we go sometimes? Marriage should be a partnership with equal sacrifices. #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers
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Happy Thanksgiving AND it's my birthday! Join us on the podcast as Jenny makes a special appearance. Feeling grateful for friends, family, and another year. #ChangeTheOdds
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Every book is dedicated to Jenny—but she's not easily impressed! Witness the journey of heartfelt dedications and the quest to finally bring her to tears. Did he finally succeed? #changetheodds #LoveStyles
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Jenny's perspective: 'This is a road we never expected, but I bet we won't regret it.' Embracing life's unexpected turns and appreciating the gift in every moment. Make the most of it. #Inspiration #changetheodds
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Scheduled sex feels like a chore? What if it was about *her* pleasure? Sex that's good for her is always good for him. Prioritize her experience! (Still stuck? A counselor can change your life.) #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips
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Leadership isn't demanding; it's initiating what's most important and ensuring resources align to achieve it. It's about prioritizing a godly outcome over personal preference. #Leadership #GodlyLiving
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Parenting fights often focus on who's right, not what's right. Aim to raise respectful, regulated, and connected kids. See those goals as one, rooted in love, not fear. What does love look like right now? #ParentingTips #LoveOverFear
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Wife taking your keys *again*? Instead of fighting it, hide a spare! 😉 It's a fun way to stay in control & keep the peace. Who's tried this? #marriagefightclub #changetheodds
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Good fights are a skill. Two couples can have the same disagreement, but one feels disconnected while the other feels closer. Healthy couples often fight *more*, but they fight *well*. #RelationshipAdvice #Communication
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Adult children cutting off parents for minor reasons—like political disagreements—robs everyone. Grandparents lose their kids, and their grandkids. Is a vote every four years worth fracturing a family? #FamilyFirst #Boundaries
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The most powerful part of your story? What you've overcome. Connect with those who've been there—they offer empathy and hope like no one else. #Resilience #Hope
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A pointed finger and a closed fist can't hold a hand. They ensure disconnection. An empty, extended hand is an invitation to connect, equally unarmed. #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers
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When one spouse suddenly becomes obsessed with working out, it can raise some eyebrows. Is it a red flag, or just a healthy lifestyle change? 🤔 Exploring the possibilities in relationships. #relationships #fitnessjourney
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The most dangerous place in an affair isn't the act itself, but the moment someone starts to waffle on a boundary they've set. When "just one time" creeps in, danger is near. #boundaries #infidelity
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A good marriage isn't automatic; it requires years of effort, tears, fights, and a willingness from both partners to improve and approach disagreements with humility and even humor. #relationships #marriage
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Recognize when your first thought is, "Here's what they need to do," as that likely triggers anxious attachment. Instead of thinking someone is unaware, pause and consider how to help them understand your perspective. #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers
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