Ruth Oyidiya
@ibidiya
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Animal Scientist (BSc Animal Science) | Seamstress, Vocalist, Teacher | Passionate about people finding purpose & making progress |
Uyo, Nigeria
Joined June 2025
Zamfara, Kebbi, Kwara , Now Niger ... A serious President and Commander In Chief should be holding a press conference right now... Not a scripted and written 7am or 7pm pre-recorded address ooo... A press conference with Journalists on the insecurity issue of the country,
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After suffering from a puzzling illness for 12 days, ALEXANDER THE GREAT died at the young age of 32 in BABYLON. But strangely, his body didn't start to decay for a full 6 days. It led many of his followers to believe that this was proof that he was a god. But experts now thinks
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everyone becomes clearer after suffering, some people just end up bleeding and calling it transformation
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Not everything broken becomes sharper or wiser. Sometimes broken glass is just… broken. Idolising pain doesn’t automatically turn it into growth. Boundaries are healthy, sure but pretending every trauma forges a stronger person feels more like a coping narrative than truth. Not
Glass needs to be broken to be dangerous. It is harmless until it breaks. Smooth. Clear. Innocent. But once it shatters? It becomes a lesson & A warning. A complete transformation. Because some things are only dangerous after they’ve been broken. And that’s the story of many
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Learning to accept “No” without taking it personal is emotional maturity. Not every rejection is an attack. Sometimes it’s protection, redirection, or just someone’s boundary.
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Since I came for my service year, I’ve met some genuinely amazing people the kind you just click with. But they always end up leaving. Another passing out parade is today, and another friend will be gone too. I think I’m done getting attached for now. I said this the last time
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Wisdom is not just knowing how to strike, but discerning when not to.
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Not everything broken needs hitting, some things require holding, some require listening. Life demands a toolbox, not a weapon, to evolve is to expand your instruments & to learn when to use patience instead of pressure, silence instead of speech & forgiveness instead of fury.
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shape of the problem before us. A hammer can build, but it can also bruise. And many people bruise what they should be building because force feels easier than finesse. The hammer gives the illusion of control, it delivers noise, motion, and the satisfying illusion of progress.
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of think, and to crush instead of craft. This is not just about carpentry, it’s about consciousness. There's something called "Maslow’s Hammer" in psychology... It's a cognitive bias where FAMILIARITY replaces WISDOM. We cling to what we know, even when it no longer fits the
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If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail... That's just the danger of a single tool... The blindness it breeds. When the hammer becomes your only companion, every challenge starts to look like a surface to strike. You begin to swing instead
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"Love is not always ROMANTIC.... Sometimes it's REVELATORY..." 👏
Your partner is not just a companion, they are a reflection,a living mirror held to your soul. They echo your values, they magnify your tolerance, and expose the fine print of your standards. Love is not always ROMANTIC, sometimes, it’s REVELATORY. When you look at your partner,
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Savings discipline is a skill for real, good he’s trying to build it.
So guys, an employee is asking me to save part of his salary for him towards his phone purchase. He wants us to keep 50% while he's paid 50% for 4 months😂 Never done it before, and I am not sure I want to try it, but I will introduce him to @Bmoniapp. Make e save by himself
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Powerful words. This captures the essence of true nation building, when wealth becomes a tool for transformation, not a trophy. Nigeria’s future depends on channeling ambition into collective progress.
@ennyola0015 Just take a look at nations that rose from dust; Singapore, South Korea, the UAE... their elites didn’t hoard their wealth, they harnessed it. They turned private ambition into public transformation. That’s the difference between prosperity and plunder. Nigeria doesn’t need more
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ache starts fading, it doesn’t leave you empty it leaves you wiser. Because every scar is proof that you faced the storm and came out still breathing, still burning, still becoming.
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Pain is strangely honest. It doesn’t lie, it doesn’t pretend. It arrives uninvited, and reveals so much truth. It shows you what matters most the people, the dreams, the parts of yourself you thought were gone. It takes away illusions and leaves you raw, real, awake. And when the
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This hits deep. It's so true that true love doesn't compete it conspires. I've seen relationships where one partner holds the other back, and it's heartbreaking. You deserve someone who amplifies your light, not dims it. Waiting for that person who celebrates your wins, even when
Your partner should want your success as much as their own. If they're threatened by your wins, they're not your partner. They're your competitor. If your victory dims their joy, you’re not in love, you’re in a quiet rivalry. Real love doesn’t compete; it conspires. It builds
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donated items as part of our commitment to giving back to the community. #SDGs
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#AKSUyo
#CommunityDevelopmentService
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