VAs are not your therapists. VAs are not responsible for your mental health. It is your responsibility to look out for your own well-being - if you join a VAs server, they have no obligation to curate your experience more than they do everyone else's.
I want to talk about something I've noticed lately in the NSFW audio community - the different ways we respond/react to men who make audio porn versus women who make audio porn. This isn't in reaction to any one incident or person, it's just this sort of insidious thing.
if you steal audios and host them other than places the original creator posted them, you're a piece of shit. end of story. I don't care if you link back to them or give credit. if you didn't create it or didn't get permission to rehost it, don't fucking do it.
(1) men of the gwa community, please be allies. there are people in our community, including creators, who are at best behaving inappropriately and at worst predators. when you see another guy commenting on a VA's post and being a creep, speak up. it's unfortunate but true...
The feedback women receive is more sexualized - we get praised for sounding hot, for being good girls for our listeners, for being naughty, for being slutty on the internet. I rarely see women being praised for making content that is healing, eye-opening, or artistic.
I just want you to sit next to me, cock out, stroking lazily while you encourage me to do my work. When I take a break, you let me suck your cock for a while as a treat. And when I'm done, you fuck my throat as a reward. Is that too much to ask?
There's almost a feeling that people believe men do this as a favor to their listeners and so we should be grateful for everything they do, where women do this because they're sluts so they should be grateful anyone's listening.
I see a lot of male VAs being praised for creating audios that help listeners deal with trauma, for being open and confident about sex and sexuality, for making audios that help people discover their own kinks, for making, and I quote, "art."
But I think it's something worth talking about, especially in a community where we are constantly shifting and evolving to be more inclusive and accommodating, which is a huge reason why I love it so much.
I'm not saying men don't get sexualized feedback - they absolutely do and listeners of male content can be just as problematic as everyone else. But in general, I see more men being praised in non-sexualized ways than women.
fyi, if you're thinking about doing NSFW audio porn but you think no one will like your voice/content, YOU'RE WRONG. there is an audience for EVERY kind of voice and every kind of content. don't trick yourself into thinking you're not sexy enough. <3
heads up, if you consider yourself "superstraight" or have any affiliation with that, kindly show yourself the door. or unkindly. I don't really care because you're gross.
Let me clarify that, in general, I don't feel this sentiment is pushed by VAs themselves, but is more of a sense I get just by seeing interactions from listeners and discussions from fans.
A lot of really eloquent, articulate people have already spoken on this subject, but I need to throw my two cents in.
Creators of any kind of 18+ content are not the ones who make the rules about what minors can and cannot consume. (1/)
I apologize if this comes off as trying to shame anyone - that's definitely not my intention. We've all been socialized to interact with different genders differently, especially in terms of sex and sexuality.
And I don't dispute that - we have SO MANY talented male VAs in the community who do make incredible content that should be praised. But I don't see that kind of feedback for women, or at least not in the way I see it for men.
I have mental illnesses. Certain interactions and atmospheres can send me spiraling. So I avoid those places and those interactions, or if it happens because I wasn't aware it would, I leave that place without expecting the owner to make changes or exceptions just for me.
pro tip: interacting with SWs is the same as interacting with any other human being. be respectful, don't be entitled. if you don't know how to do that, that's on YOU, not on us to teach you.
If you're a minor talking about how you're "mature" enough to consume 18+ content, take another look. You're willing to put some of your favorite content creators at risk of being shut down, banned, unemployed, or jailed because you're upset about not getting your way. (2/)
I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna get in fights on the internet I'm not gonna
That is the opposite of mature. If you're really that passionate about changing the age of majority/consent, work on changing the law. Don't scream at content creators for following the laws. Don't put content creators at risk because you're selfish. (3/3)
I just vaguely saw the drama happening over similar names and I have to say whenever I see someone with a name similar to mine I think, "we should collab, that would be awesome" not "they are stealing my thundah"
no stream tonight, lovelies. just got home from urgent care and while it's nothing life-threatening, the allergic reaction I had last week was not actually allergies and I'm gonna be pretty miserable for the next week or so. <3
I am HOME.
@SketchyVoice
drove 2000 miles to pick me up, drove another 2000 (with my cats screaming in the back) to bring me home, and then let me sleep in while he took the rental back and hooked up my computer. HOW IS HE EVEN REAL???
guys. GUYS. I asked
@SketchyVoice
to update my pfp for Halloween, like, "maybe just some pumpkin earrings and ombre orange hair." he did this instead. lakdjsflkajfslfj I'm SCREAMING he's so heckin' talented and I'm so lucky. 😍
hey y'all! I apologize for being unavailable over the last few days. I've been dealing with an illness over the past couple weeks that's made tired ALL the damn time, and this weekend it culminated in a blinding migraine. I am behind on some things but today's my day to catch up!
I just posted "[F4M] Neighbor Boy Gets His Very Own Mommy...Whether He Wants It or Not [rape] [yandere] [Mommy] [drugging] [kidnapping] [collar and leash] [cunnilingus] [good boy] [kissing] [whispers] [hair pulling]..." on Reddit
look at these ADORABLE emotes for twitch!
@SketchyVoice
was kind enough to make these for me and I'm so excited to have them available for subscribers!
I've dealt with chronic migraines my entire life. today I felt one coming on and my partner turned off the heat and bundled up instead to make sure the heat wouldn't exacerbate the problem. I will never take for granted the lengths he goes for me to make sure I'm taken care of.
every time my partner holds my hand, I fall in love a little bit more. every time my partner holds my hand and then pretends it's a gun, making the "chk-chk" sound as they cock it, I know I'm going to marry this person.
this conversation is important and necessary. inclusivity in audios is IMPORTANT. and it's a good reminder to me to be more mindful of the content I create and the people who listen. thank you for speaking on, everyone who did. <3
I just posted "[F4M] Pay Attention to Your Pumpkin Princess [Early Access] [Script Fill] [Fsub] [Fingering] [Daddys] [DD/lg] [Blowjob] [Gagging] [Twisty Lap Sits] [Kissing] [Slapping] [Choking] [Breeding] [Spanking]..." on Reddit
today I spent ten minutes in front of the mic rubbing my lubed-up hands all over themselves and fondling my arms trying to make appropriate slime girl noises for an audio.
I used bad dragon cum lube and now my hands and arms are so soft. 😍
you guys, I'm so excited, I made affiliate on twitch! thank you SO MUCH to everyone who came and hung out to watch me flail around. instead of dead by daylight tonight, we're gonna play some Little Misfortune to celebrate! starting now!
Again, do not follow or interact with me if you're under 18 years old. Not only do I not want that, you are putting me at risk of legal issues. DON'T DO IT. >:(
what if I wore my cutest butt plug all day while we're out, squirming when you make me sit down, blushing at the thought that anyone might recognize my quiet whimpers. when we get home, you pull the plug out and shove your cock in, telling me what a good little anal whore I am.
did you know that I am a dick connoisseur? lemme rate your dick. my ratings are great for putting in dating profiles or for striking up a conversation at a party. DM me!
I just posted "[F4M] let mistress peg the stress away [gentle fdom] [gfe] [pegging] [lick me through my panties] [good boy] [gagging you with my panties] [kissing] [long] [affectionate] [blowjob] light [biting] ligh..." on Reddit
I just realized my birthday is in four days. Usually I'm counting that bitch down for a month! But it's also the first day of Spooktober so it's a double win, I'm so excitedddddd!
typically my partner tucks me into bed with my stuffie, a song, and a kiss on the forehead. that's our dynamic and I adore it. but sometimes, like tonight, I get to tuck them into bed and cuddle them to sleep and it makes me so happy I could burst.
All right, folks, I've been on an unannounced hiatus for quite some time now, but I'm ready to give my mic a workout again. I'm opening commission slots!
You can get see my previous work here:
See thread for more details!
can I just...crawl into your lap for a while? you can pet my hair and tell me I'm a good girl while I nuzzle you and try to cuddle closer. maybe I'll wiggle my way into your shirt with you so we can be as close as possible.
I just posted "[F4M] You Chose the Wrong Girl, and I'll Show You Why [Script Fill] [Rape] [Fdom] [Msub] [Best Friends] [Jealousy] [Drugged] [Handcuffed] [Body Betrayal] [Forced Cheating] [Reminiscing] [Outercourse] ..." on Reddit
this is what
@SketchyVoice
does when I ask him to help motivate me. I am a HUGE sucker for gamifying your life type stuff, so this is amazing. I'm so flippin lucky.
To help motivate
@glimmerandgold1
I created a quest board with chores and other productive things with Gem rewards. Gems can be spent for Build a bear, make up, or other things
I took benedryl last night to sleep and woke up this morning naked from the waist down except for one sock. I really, really love sleep play. 😊
(
@SketchyVoice
and I have pre-negotiated all sleep play, including when I take meds that make me drowsy. <3)
y'all wanna see one of the sexiest things I've ever created? it's my new audio masterlist, sortable by audience, platform, type, and more. I'm in love.
(many thanks to
@lionessscripts
for recommending AirTable!)
I just posted "[F4F] Every Day is Humpday for Puppies [Incest] [Big Sister/Little Sister] [Adults] [Petplay] [Puppy] [Humiliation] [Degradation] [Fingering] [Cunnilingus] [Pillow Humping] [Pain] [Breast Play] [Breat..." on Reddit
audios are live on Syrin! some old favorites that I'm re-homing on this platform - keep an eye out for brand new, exclusive content there soon! (and check out the other amazing creators who post there
@XytaMidnyte
,
@fieldsoflupine
,
@RenRuthie
and more!)
I apologize, but no stream again tonight, bbs. the meds I'm on are wreaking havoc on my tummy. :( stay tuned for Thursday's stream, though, there's a BIG surprise you're not gonna want to miss!
I just posted "[F4M] “I'll care for you, Master. I’ll service you and ensure your balls are nice and empty...” [Script fill] [Slime girl] [Monstergirl] [Maid] [Lactation] [Handjob] [Riding you] [Creampie] [Squirting..." on Reddit
apparently my alien girl audio on reddit has been getting reported. (thanks to the mods on gwa for not taking it seriously.) seriously, are people that oFfEnDed by tags that they can't scroll?
I just posted "[F4M] breed me and I'll let you go [rape] because [threats] [dubcon] to [consensual] [werewolf] [monstergirl] [breeding] [creampie] [doggystyle] [halloween] [improv] [short]" on Reddit
when you hit him with typo'd dirty talk mid-fuck. 😏
(I'd helped him edit a script earlier and corrected "cockslev." Mid-thrust I asked him if I was his good little cockslev. The look I got was worth it and he said my hysterical laughter made it feel even better, so...)
I just posted "[F4M] I'm the Only One You Can Trust [Script Fill] [Yandere] [Gaslighting] [Manipulation] [Fdom] [Blowjob] [Creampie] [Cock Kisses] [Edging] [Comfort, in a twisted way] script by [u/Orpheus_the_Travel..." on Reddit
I just posted "[F4M] alien girl wants to study you but gets taught a lesson instead [RAPE] [fsub] [virgin] [first time] gone wrong [monstergirl] [alien] [gaslighting] [abducted] [slapping] [crying] [blowjob] [gaggin..." on Reddit
our girl Snakey is up to be an INKED MAGAZINE COVER GIRL. I literally cannot think of anyone who fits this better. please go vote for this beautiful bitch.
today I am thankful for my partner,
@SketchyVoice
, who took it in stride when I woke up with a migraine. instead of being disappointed that we had to cancel thanksgiving plans, he instead tucked me in, gave me meds, and made sure I was comfortable.
body: plz drink water. plz eat something green. plz get some sunlight.
me, wrapped in a blanket in a dark room, eating an entire box of microwave taquitos, drinking iced coffee: shan't.
So I've been working nonstop on this vroid commission for
@glimmerandgold1
and I'm so proud of the texture work on her.
Go see her in action 6pm PST when she streams for the first time with her
#ENVtuber
#Vtuber
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