Mary 🦎
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Detrans Woman. I’m also a animal lover and an avid curler. My hopes of this account is to prevent one lost soul of going down the trans path. Terfy.
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Detrans woman. I was on the cross-sex hormone testosterone for four years and also had a double mastectomy. I’ve been off testosterone for 2 years now and I’m ready to talk about it.
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I miss my breasts. I don’t know why I started hating them. I wish someone would have told me to be patient and I’d outgrow this gender nonsense. Affirming care isn’t the answer when treating people struggling with gender dysphoria. It’s only a bandaid.
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There’s a woman at my work who identifies as non-binary. The only thing that stands out as her being non-binary is the fact that she has green hair. I slipped and called them her. She corrected me and I said I’m sorry and we went on with our day. I thought that was it but she
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When I chose to have my breasts removed I was suicidal. That was said to be from gender dysphoria. I got my breasts removed and I didn’t feel any euphoria instead I felt empty like something was missing. The doctors should have never went ahead with the surgery.
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Finally took all my testosterone and needles to the pharmacy to be destroyed. I don’t know why I kept them for so long. I still don’t know why I transitioned. The trans community would say I have internalized transphobia but I don’t think so. I think it was social contagion.
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Don’t get me wrong I fully accept my mistake of transitioning. I just think my life would be better if I never heard of trans ideology. I don’t really believe in trans anymore. I don’t think anyone is born in the wrong body or wrong brain. It’s just mental illness.
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Testosterone made the skin off my urethra thin so I pee myself on a semi regular basis. I went to many doctors and tried many things before I got this diagnosis that I believe to be true. Testosterone is pure poison for women.
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Detransistioning was one of the hardest choices I’ve ever made. I was firmly entrenched in the trans cult. I had an active social life. When I began to question trans philosophies I knew that if I disagreed I’d be kicked out. And I was. I can stand on my own two feet though.
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For me, believing in gender identity made my dysphoria a lot worse in ways I didn’t realize until I moved on from gender theology completely. Regardless of how you feel about your body, buying into the idea that you were born incorrectly and that the only way you can have a
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Detrans woman. Was on HRT for 4 years. Been off of hormones for about a year and I’m ready to talk.
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I waited a year to talk about my trans experiences because I saw some of the hate other detransistioners got. I wanted to make sure I was strong enough to endure it. I have got hate but the love and support I have received has bowled me over. Thank You.
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Went to the bathroom at work and this man who identifies as trans was peeing with the door open. I’m pissed. Not only do I have to share a woman’s room with a MAN he can’t even be bothered to shut the stall door.
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Jazz Jennings says she has no libido. Jazz Jennings says she’s never had an orgasm. Tell me again that puberty blockers work. She doesn’t look happy to me.
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I can’t believe I used to stab myself with a needle every week with testosterone. Why. I don’t know. I really need to explore it with a therapist but how do you trust a therapist again after getting bad advice the first time?
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Being trans is like being in a cult. They tell you what to say in appointments to make sure you get hrt and surgeries. They tell you they love you and they’re your family now. As soon as you question the ideology they kick you out and talk bad about you. I’m glad to be free.
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Today is the anniversary of my double mastectomy. 4 years ago today I chose to get my tits chopped off. At the time I thought it was the greatest day of my life. My dysphoria and my suicidal ideation disappeared when I saw my flat chest. I had a bad infection that took 🧵
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This detransistion stuff is hard. I feel completely a woman but folks ask me all the time what gender am I. It’s really none of their business but I say woman with confidence and it shuts them up. Taking testosterone was the worst mistake of my life.
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If doctors would just say “You’ll be unhappy in your new body just like you were unhappy in your old body” It would stop a lot of people transitioning.
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I’m a reasonably intelligent woman. If I could fall for the trans cult anyone you know could fall. Keep an eye on our little ones.
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The double mastectomy I had took so much from me. I had great breasts back in the day and now all I have is flatness. I used to have a sex drive and want to date. Now I just want to be with my pets. Identifying as trans ruined my life & I struggle to rebuild brick by brick.
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Yes I believed all the lies the trans community told me. The truth it puberty blockers aren’t reversible and kids can’t consent to them or surgeries. Going on cross-sex hormones is going to mess up your body. Testosterone ruins your female parts with atrophy. 🧵
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There’s nothing glamorous about being trans. You’re signing yourself up to be on medication for the rest of your life. Trans surgeries often have complications. I had 2 infections and lost a nipple when I had my double mastectomy. Not fun. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness
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I came back from this. I was losing my hair so fast I thought I would never be called a woman again. Now I haven’t been misgendered in forever and it feels great. You can come back from adversity and thrive. I can say I’m happy now. There is life after transitioning. You just
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It seems like every trans person has another underlying mental illness. I had depression and suicidal ideation when I was trans. I was always told that it was caused by gender dysphoria. Just take testosterone you’ll feel better. I feel like I was pushed to transition by my
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I’ve been a lifetime democrat but my feelings have changed. For the first time in my life I’m going to vote Republican. Republicans protect children from getting life altering surgeries and going on puberty blockers. I’ve seen the detrans army in red states making a difference.
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I can’t believe I used to take a needle and stab myself in the leg with it once a week. For what. For some pain I imagined in my head. I was never a boy. I was just a confused woman who thought removing her breasts would make me happy. I was wrong. It just made me unhappy.
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I’m so tired of seeing young men and woman becoming victims of the trans cult. I see them in the street with their pronouns pins and their multi colored hair. I just want to hug them and say please don’t start Testosterone or estrogen. Don’t ruin your life.
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If it wasn’t for Covid and being locked down with my thoughts I probably would have never detransistioned. I thought I was to far gone looking like a man to change. I live alone with just my pets and it have me a lot of time to think and read. Watching detrans videos on YouTube
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I’m burnt out on twitter but my detrans voice is desperate to be heard. Cross-sex hormones are poison to the body. They will ruin your health. If you don’t have gender dysphoria don’t take cross- sex hormones. It will ruin your life. I know I fell for the lies of the trans cult
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When I wanted to go off Testosterone I had to dump my therapist first. She wanted me to stay on HRT. It was hard because she was with me every step of my transition but she groomed me by insisting that I was much more stable on HRT. A lie.
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So top surgery has it’s complications too. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone if you’re breasts are healthy. I wish the doctors and therapist I had would have asked me more questions instead of being so quick to affirm me. Affirmation feels good but it doesn’t treat the patient.
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I wish when doctors diagnosed gender dysphoria they didn’t just go on the patients word. I went into my therapists office and said “I’m trans” and she said okay. There was no are you sure? Or what makes you think you’re trans. It was pure acceptance and affirmation. 🧵
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This is a picture of my chest about 4 years after my double mastectomy. I lost part of one nipple which was heart breaking. I wanted my chest as flat as possible and the doctor attempted to masculine my chest. I think it looks like a flat wasteland. I have to live with this
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There's a lot of guilt and shame to overcome when you detransistion. You made a very public mistake and you can't really hide the changes cross-sex hormones caused. All you can do is own up to your mistake and hope people understand. Yes I fell for the lies of the trans cult
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The medical problems I'm having and other detransitioners are having are not just for us. Transgender people experience the same issues they are just afraid to talk about it. How do I know this because doctors have told me they have ftms's presenting with the same problems as I
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Let’s talk about how dangerous binders are for our young girls (and adults) Binders compress the breast until they are as flat as possible. They cause rib damage and breathing issues and more. They are extremely painful to wear. This year for pride Target put them in their stores
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I ruined my body and my voice from cross sex hormones. It didn’t ruin my mind though and I have to take the anger I feel to help others. I don’t want anyone else to be embarrassed because of the way they sound and look. Cross-sex hormones are poison.
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I live in Minnesota where they are trying to make it a sanctuary state for trans identifying kids. Obviously I don’t want that to happen so I’m going to be doing some testifying. Looking forward to helping my community more and getting the word out there.
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I joined a rec league for volleyball. I thought it was supposed to be just for fun but they had an AGP man on the other team. He was taller than all the other women and spiked the ball at women. I don’t think I’m going to stay in the league. I just wanted some fun exercise not to
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Yes I was an adult when I consented to taking testosterone and getting healthy body parts cut off. I was also mentally ill at the time. I was suicidal and they didn’t care. I was let down by the medical professionals and they don’t care. Medical professionals need to do better.
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Detransistioners face a lot of backlash but have valuable information coming out. Now Twitter is blocking the truth from coming out all together. I and many others will not be silenced. There is an epidemic among young people that has to be stopped.
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Why is it that there is a high rate of people on the autism spectrum who identify as trans? Someone needs to do a study on it. I doubt they’re really a transsexual.
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I liked the attention of being trans identified. Everyone told me how brave and special I was. Inside I felt like a fraud though. 2 years into being on testosterone I was very unhappy. I wanted to quit but I worried I was to far gone.
2 more years to by and I had the
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WPATH really needs to change their guidelines from affirming to questioning. I was suicidal at the time of my transition and I would have done anything to take the pain away. A few questions would have changed my life. All I got was affirmation though and that ruined my life.
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When people wear protect trans kids T-shirts I want to rush over to them and say YES! Let’s protect them from puberty blockers, cross sex hormones and don’t amputate healthy body parts. Kids are way to young to consent to a life without a healthy sex life and everything else.
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I finally did it. I packed up all my masculine clothes to donate to goodwill. I don’t know why I was holding onto them but it’s a relief for them to be gone. I’ll never wear them again so why keep them.
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Cross sex hormones are just not good for the body. Hormones dictate everything and it’s not a good idea to mess with them. I found out the hard way. High blood pressure, high cholesterol and joint pain. I was perfectly healthy before hormones. I want my health back.
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I need more people to follow like this post of message me if 1. You support detrans. 2. No men in women’s sports. 3. No puberty blockers, hormones or surgeries for kids.
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I still don’t know what attracted me to the trans cult. I was happy being a lesbian. I wasn’t even considered butch. Next thing you knew I drank the kool-aid. I was obsessed, depressed and suicidal all at once. We’ll fix you they said. Just inject yourself with testosterone.
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I feel like I just started living. I hit rock bottom when I detransistioned. The loss of a friend group was huge. I made other friends though who are true friends who support my decisions. It hasn't been easy but I am finally living for just myself. Transgender people want
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My therapist talked me into staying on testosterone because it made my mental health better. I’d sure like to sue her. That took two years out of my life being unhappy.
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I was all set to get a hysterectomy. My reason was gender dysphoria. I really didn’t have it but I thought those parts had to come out. I thought about it and in the end I didn’t want to take our healthy body parts. This is my road to detransistion.
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We’re letting the people with the mental illness dictate how they will be seen by society and how they will be treated. People with mental illness need counseling and possible medication. Social contagion is crazy right now and we need to stick it to save our daughters.
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I’m so happy. I joined a gym. I stopped going to the gym after my mastectomy because I didn’t want to change in the men’s room and thought women would look at my scars and wonder. It took 5 years for me to get back. I love swimming and lifting weights. I’m so glad to get my life
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No one can change their sex. They can take cross-sex hormones and get surgeries to imitate the opposite sex but they’ll never be that sex. People who pass in photos rarely can pass in person. Let’s normalize telling trans identified people the truth.
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Went on my old affirmation therapist’s website and sent her an email. Don’t know how she will sleep soundly tonight. Hope she doesn’t just trash it. Hope she quits her job.
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How did I get sucked into the trans cult? Facebook. When they released their new genders you could choose i had never heard of them. I looked up the definition of non-binary I thought that’s me! I don’t like wearing makeup and I don’t always wear femme clothes. My mistake started
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I wish I could escape hearing about people identifying as trans for one day. They’re everywhere. Men competing in women’s sports, men invading the bathroom and other women’s spaces. I promise I’ve never seen a tickle party in a women’s bathroom. Stay in your lane.
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I think of the years I transitioned as my lost years. The person who thought she was non-binary seems miles away from the woman I am today. At first I enjoyed the attention and affirmation them I stopped being social and stayed to myself. I used to hate being 🧵
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I once was a woman who took testosterone. I still don’t know why I was led down that path but I was. Now I’ll never be the same again. I have health problems and mentally I’ll never be the same. I wonder if anyone will ever love me sexually again. I’m happier now then when I was
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So I’m playing in an all women’s tournament this weekend. Everything’s going great until out of the corner of my eye I spot a man playing in the tournament. Even though I don’t think the man is going to win it still makes me mad that’s he’s there. Women sports are only women!
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If you want to detransistion do it right away. Don’t worry about passing. You will get misgendered just know you are either a woman or man and nobody can say different. When I first detransistioned I bought a bunch of makeup to fit in more. Then I thought about it and I 🧵
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When I was trans identified I had several friends who thought that being on testosterone would grow them a prostate. So I understand why these men think they can get a period. No matter how much estrogen men have in their body they’ll never get a period.
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Parents do whatever you can to keep your kids off of cross-sex hormones. I was perfectly healthy before I went on testosterone and now coming off I have high blood pressure, high cholesterol and now Incontinence. It just seems to never end. Cross-sex hormones are poison
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I’ve been detrans for almost two years now. I don’t regret stopping testosterone at all. I’m so glad to be free of the gender cult. I feel so free now. I still can’t believe I stabbed myself with a needle once a week. How did I get the courage? It was harder to stop than begin.
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The kicker to everything is that my friend who took care of me after surgery was arrested shortly after my top surgery for r*ping women. She would offer drunk girls at the bar rides home and take advantage of them. This is someone who saw me at my most vulnerable. 🧵
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Two rounds of antibiotics to heal. I also lost a nipple which hurt real bad. I know I could get one tatted on but I want my own nipple. After care was done mainly in my own. The surgeon saw me twice after surgery for a cursory look. He didn’t even notice my nipple 🧵
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Unfortunately for me a have a heavy beard which means I have to shave every day. When I shave I usually keep my eyes closed and use my hands to guide the razor. I just can’t bare to be reminded everyday of my mistake.
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Think you can just hop on testosterone get the changes you want and hop off. Think you can microsose T to get the changes you want? Wrong it doesn’t work that way. Testosterone is a very powerful drug and you get all the changes. The voice is one of the first things to go🧵
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I’m putting my gender confusion into the rear view mirror. I’ll still about it to help others but my days of obsessing about it are over. Yes I made a very public mistake that I will carry to my grave. That mistake doesn’t define me. I am so much more than a mistake.
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Falling off. I had to point it out to him. As time went on I began to regret the top surgery. I wish I had never got it. Sure I could get implants but it wouldn’t be my real breasts plus implants only last so long before having to be replaced. So flat chest it is. 🧵
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I’ve been feeling hopeless with the choice I made to ruin my body. I feel like there’s no coming back. There are things I can do though to alleviate the mistake. I may never be like the old Mary but I might be the new and improved Mary.
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This whole trans thing for me was like a snowball. It kept rolling getting bigger and bigger and I couldn’t stop it. All the affirmation went to my head. I actually thought I was born in the wrong body. I’m glad I saw the 60 minutes about detransiationers. I wasn’t alone.
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I can see why todays youth are so easily seduced by the gender cult. When I was first coming out they took me under their wing and made me feel like family. Your parents don’t accept you? No worries I’m your dad now. All my life I was looking for inclusion 🧵
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I’m not anti trans. I’m anti putting children on puberty blockers, putting children on hormones, having surgeries and anti men playing in women’s sports.
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My last butch friend texted me today to tell me she’s trans. Hard one. I don’t approve but I will respect her pronouns and answer any questions she has for me. We’re running out of butches here. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman in a well tailored suit not giving a
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Puberty blockers should be banned for kids nationwide. You can’t put a pause on life.
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If you’re thinking of going on cross sex hormones don’t do it. It will ruin your life. Cross sex hormones are poison.
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When I was trans identified I did some stupid shit like wear a compression bra with a binder. It was a disease and I was sick. I had people affirming my sickness and it was all a confusing time in my life. I liked the affirmation. It was like a drug. It was easy to have people
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Transitioning was the biggest mistake of my life. Detransistioning was the best. If you’re on cross-sex hormones and aren’t happy remember it’s never to late to stop. The being born in the wrong body is a myth. You can put down the needle and still be happy. I’m proof of that.
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I feel like my life is slowly coming together. I was so depressed when I was on testosterone. I feel like I’m coming out of a coma. Little by little I’m getting more social with my friends and family. I am awakening
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Just the facts. Bring back the term women! No men can give birth!
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You don’t have to like detransistioner’s. Just ignore their content if it bothers you. I’m glad you’re happy in the trans cult but those who were unhappy with the ride are getting off now. I’m so tired of seeing my detrans friends dogpiled just because they made the wrong choice
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A girl from a detrans group on fb went on Lupron at an early age. Only went through a male puberty. Now in her early 20s she wants to have a baby. The doctors don’t even know if it’s possible. Seems more sad on a day like today.
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The trans cult is built on lies. You can’t change your sex and nobody was born in the wrong body. They’ll tell you that you can. Just say you’re trans and magically you will become the boy or girl you think you want to be. Truth is that’s not what you really want.
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I live in a state with informed consent so I was able to get cross sex hormones in a half hour appointment. All I had to do is say I wanted the drug and they checked my vitals and gave me a prescription. I was also suicidal at the time and they didn’t care.
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Slowly I’m putting the past behind me. I’m doing the things I enjoyed before I ever heard of the trans cult. I’m making new friends and connecting with women again. It feels fantastic.
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I don’t know the real reason I transitioned in the first place but I know the Internet played a big part. I was constantly on ftm forums and on YouTube. I used to stay up late at night just to study people’s top surgery scars. I’m so glad I outgrew the trans phase of my life.
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I needed a little pushback and questioning. I was basically in control of my own doctor. Maybe I just picked a bad therapist but nobody should make their own diagnosis. We need to change from affirmation to questioning.
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Getting a hysterectomy is common in the trans men’s world because Sex will become unbearable with cramps. When it happens it’s just like time to get a hysto. The effects of testosterone are extreme and most people don’t need to go through them. We need to change the system now!
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When your mom says you’re just a tomboy and you’ll grow out of it listen to her!
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More and more detransistioners are coming to Twitter just as predicted. Maybe if we didn’t affirm everyone who thinks they have gender dysphoria we wouldn’t have so much regret. Doctors are just waiting with their hand out to get paid from this craze.
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Hormones are poison for your body. Before them I had perfect health. I work out every day and try to eat healthy. When I went on hormones I had an ekg first. The doctor told me I had little to no chance of having heart disease. My blood pressure was good my cholesterol was good.
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Does testosterone change a persons’s brain chemistry? I’ve asked doctors and they have no answer. Not enough research has been done on biological women on testosterone.
I wonder because I haven’t really cried since I was on testosterone. I’d like to feel an array of
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Gender dysphoria was one of the hardest things I ever had to go through. Suddenly I hated my body enough to remove healthy breasts. I loved my breasts too. I felt so uncomfortable having them I was just like take them off.
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Testosterone ruined my sex life. Before testosterone I was only attracted to women. After testosterone I was only attracted to men. Now I’m not attracted to anyone. I have my sex drive back just can’t use it. It’s totally frustrating.
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When I took my first shot off testosterone I expected to feel like Superman. Instead I felt the same. HRT is not the answer to happiness. If you’re thinking of going on it list all the bad side effects and ask yourself do you really want them. I doubt you do.
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Never wore makeup before so why start now. I did buy some more feminine clothes but I felt comfortable wearing them. So if you want to detransistion please do so. Get out of the trans cult while you can. There’s a safe place to land if you do. Few people will judge you.
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