One of my deal breakers and non-negotiables in any relationship or marriage is this: NEVER STAY WITH A WOMAN WHO WEAPONIZES YOUR VULNERABILITY. And I'll tell you why. When a man opens up, it’s not because he’s weak. It’s because he trusts. …

Keep building. Keep becoming. Because every man who chooses to evolve, inspires a generation to do the same. #EvolveWithMiah

it’s about character. It’s not about how loud your voice is, it’s about how grounded your spirit is. Real men don’t run from growth. They rise to it. They evolve through it. So if you’re still learning, still falling, still finding your footing, that’s okay. Keep going.

Manhood is forged, not found. You’ll have to face your fears, confront your insecurities, and take ownership of the mirror. Because until you face yourself, you’ll keep fighting shadows in others. Being a man isn’t about dominance, it’s about discipline. It’s not about control,

A man transforms it. A boy reacts. A man responds. A boy blames the world. A man takes responsibility for his world. The journey from boy to man is not a straight line. It’s messy. It’s humbling. It’ll break you before it builds you. But that’s the point. ...

Manhood isn’t a gift you receive; it’s a crown you earn daily. Because every day, something will try to pull you back to boyhood. Your pride. Your ego. Your comfort. Your desire to prove instead of improve. But the difference between a man and a boy is this: A boy avoids pain.

Every man you admire today once stood at a crossroads between who he was and who he could become. He wasn’t born disciplined. He became disciplined. He wasn’t born wise. He learned through failure. He wasn’t born strong. He grew strong by facing what others ran from. ...

Y’all better lock up your babes o… I just got a haircut. I’m not responsible for any emotional damage that may occur. 💀

Continue to follow your creator (God), who chose you to be a leader. Job didn’t fight his wife. He stood on truth, lovingly, but firmly. And that’s how he passed the test. #EvolveWithMiah

That’s where leadership shows up. It’s not about controlling her. It’s about controlling you. Staying calm. Staying respectful. But standing firm in what you know is right. Because the real test isn’t always what she says It’s whether you’ll follow her lead, Or

Love your woman. But don’t hand over your thinking. Even the closest person to you can become a test, and if you don’t recognize it, you’ll start calling bad advice "support" and emotional pressure "wisdom." How do you respond when a woman’s voice challenges your values? ...

Men, hear this clearly: Not every word that comes from a woman you love is coming from the right place. She may be stressed. She may be overwhelmed. She may even be unknowingly repeating the enemy’s script. That’s why you need to stay alert. Not paranoid. Just clear-minded. ...

Job didn’t react with anger. He didn’t argue endlessly. He didn’t ignore her either. He stayed calm And replied, “You are talking like one of the senseless women.” —Job 2:10 He loved her, yes. But he could tell: this wasn’t just her talking. This was pressure. Pain. And a test.

DONT BE LIKE ADAM, BE LIKE JOB (Part 4) Sometimes, it’s not what she says It’s what’s behind what she says. Adam listened to his wife. She offered the fruit, and he took it. No pushback. No pause. No prayer. Job? His wife said, “Curse God and die.” But...

That’s how you stay in the game for long. Leave low-hanging fruit alone. You’re a king. Move like one. Because when kings fall, it’s rarely from war. It’s from women they had no business lying with. #EvolveWithMiah

if you keep reaching low, you’ll never rise high. So go for women who’d protect what you share even more than you. Women who wouldn’t dare, or even think of exposing what you had because she knows it would cost her too. That’s how the game is played.

you bend your knees to pluck a low-hanging fruit, you’re not just bending to pick fruit. You’re bowing. Bowing your dignity. Bowing your legacy. Bowing your future. Not every fruit is worth touching. Some are poisonous. Some are traps. And…

A loose cannon destroys anything in its path. As a man, especially if you stand tall physically, socially, or even in potential, low-hanging fruit will always tempt you. But remember this: To reach low-hanging fruit, you must bend your knees. And every time…

A woman with no image to protect will not care if yours is destroyed. A woman with no family name or legacy to protect will have no second thought before dragging yours through the mud. A woman with no status to guard, no standard to maintain, is a loose cannon. And…

“NEVER, ever in your life from today henceforth, have sexual dealings with a woman who has nothing to lose if it gets out.” And then I switched to pidgin: “From today, no ever sleep with woman wey no get anything to protect if una matter cast.” Let me break it down:

One of the weekends I was parting ways with my guys, one of them said to me: Miah, drop me the last word for the weekend. Please give me something to hold onto. I chuckled, then I said: