I love this conversation bc what they are really getting into is core values and how they expect/desire their partner to show up in the home. I am very clear about not facilitating my partner’s life regardless of how busy she gets.
So WW on TikTok talking about being wives to men who make marathon running their hobby. I never thought about how much time that takes away from your family and how your wife has to plan your entire lives around it. And most of them have demanding jobs too. So interesting
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@ebonitpr
Exactly like they are basically saying they feel like the a secretary and cheerleaders. You’d think you wouldn’t have to tell a grown man “you can’t spend 3 hours a day after work doing this thing everyday bcuz we have a family” but patriarchy
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@nhoodpublicist
There was a woman whose husband signed their kids up for year round soccer and wanted to coach other teams. She had to let him know that it was only ok if he was willing to handle 100% of everything that came with it bc it’s not her hobby or doing
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