Personally the way to survive a horrible desi household is to keep everyone a little scared of you . Threaten to kys or call the cops 2-3 times and scream like a banshee when anybody comes close to you
Many desi women cope with the abuse they've suffered by thinking they get a medal for being so patient and all bearing, so they get angry when they see other girls saying that this treatment is inhuman and wrong because if they side with them they would have to acknowledge that-
" Can I call ? " Oh ABSOLUTELY I'm literally leaving the AC wala kamra to sit in my humid asf room with my handfree and water bottle we are about to have THE shit talk session of the century babes
They are victims themselves and the acknowledgement is too heavy to bear for many. A person who's grown up knowing abuse as her norm , to have such a reality about it presented to her is extremely hard to take in . Idk everyday I am crushed and agitated living here
Makes me want to rip my skin off when I think about the insane insane amount of shame desi women have when it comes to sexuality and desires it makes me cry. Heard an aunty say that women who feel good during sex are bad women that it's supposed to be painful for "good" women
Such a cruel fate to be born a woman in this country. My skin crawls when I hear brothers and fathers say they don't "Allow" the women in their lives to do xyz . Allow... ALLOW like he's some God. I hate this word like how the hell is my existence in your hands are you God?
Abusers in desi families thrive off that fact that the woman will take it quietly. So when she screams and shows aggression they do get scared which is why they turn to calling you names saying pagal hogai ho . Because they're frustrated cause they know you will tell someone-
Will never forget how when I got my first period at 12 my mom was going off yelling at me that this is abnormal and girls don't get theirs so early she literally said "Tumne koi gandi film to Nahi Dekhi ?" HELP?!?!?
Men are such cowards . Reading a little bit of Dostoyevsky and manto doesn't make you an intellectual. You can't even admit who you are . Even if you're a loser atleast be honest that yes I'm an asshole. You aren't "lost and misunderstood" you're a jerk who can't even cook an egg
You will call the cops and make a scene. People who are pissed at this tweet of mine are privileged enough to never have experienced abuse to such a extent. Good for y'all but it's not like that for others . Many people live in constant survival mode in their so called "homes"
Being an " Achi bachi " doesn't get you shit here. You need be unhinged baegerat " us Larki say baat na Kia Karo Woh theek Nahi hay " warna to ye muashara apko khajae ga . You need to be angry and bite the fuck back.
Thinking about how when I was 7 I heard the word sexy in a song or sum and didn't know what it meant I went up to my mom like "Ammi am I sexy?"😭😭😭😭😭 And she said "No beta girls above 20 are sexy "
It's a painful realisation to see kind sweet older desi women and know they have never been loved like that that even after marriage such simple pleasures are denied to them like when does it stop? When is this piousness and patience rewarded ? Never in this hellhole
Liking boys is so gut wrenching like if he's pretty chances are bauhat bara chutiya niklay ga and if he's mid chances are phir bhi bauhat bara chutiya niklay ga
A loving nurturing man is such a myth to desi women and it's sad . I was oiling my hair and I told my mom that when I have a husband I'll have him oil my hair .She just made such an upset face , telling me Admi aese Nahi hotay . Like they can't even fathom a man who doesn't abuse
The paki men replying to this with stuff like "Manhood " ," We have balls?", And other bs are so gross and weird are y'all okay ?Just 3 boys taking a picture together all of a sudden they're too feminine for this or they must be gay? Tum Sab Ka masla Kiya hay
Having a campus crush is so crucial to the uni experience like I hate every second of this place expect for when I go to the cafeteria to get milkshake and crush on this one girl who wants me dead
" Having a bf/gf makes your life more stressful " Why the fuck are y'all with people who stress you out like I don't get it if they don't give you any peace or happiness why are you with them? you think it's normal for your romantic relationship to make you feel that bad ?
Crazy how the "girl's girl" and general spirit of feminism just dies in alot of women when a girl tells them that their own guy friend harassed her then suddenly these women are blind and deaf because they don't wanna ruin their friend group's " vibe "
I don't understand the whole Jahanum me auratein ziyada hein thing like um if a woman drags 4 men with her to hell (her dad ,son , husband and brother) then shouldn't there be more men in hell ??
Loved this girl I met today who was so homophobically supportive like " This is so h
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but girl you NEED to bag that short hair girl go talk to her "
Personally I think y'all should start reversing the roles with men . If he asks why are you being avoidant tell him he's crazy for asking that knowing how you've been in a bad head space ever since your grandma died 20 years ago and that you're just focusing on your goals rn
The male gaze is so relentless. Even at your messiest you have to look put together to appeal to them. Where as women will see a genuinely disheveled guy and think is banday ko to may apni duaon may maangu gi
Our islamiyat sir was deadass saying that a wife should be all dolled up for when her husband comes home then she should take off his shoes with her own hands and present him with good food . If she does this then her man will never cheat on her ....
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I was 5 or 6 when my mom got me a Qari sahab and I vividly remember he touched my arms and legs on the very first day . Thankfully I told my mom the second he left and she told him to stop coming after that I had atleast
It's upsetting how there aren't real down bad people out there anymore I'm not talking down bad as in stalking your crush's socials I'm talking waiting at the cafeteria for an hour because at exactly 12:47 she's gonna pass by to go to her class , to just catch a glimpse of her
Boils my blood when I see these online "thrift stores" like what's the point if you're gonna be selling landa stuff for 1200 a piece get out Bhai khud landay pay jao to apkay page wali "Y2k ribbed graphic baby tee " 50rs ki milti hay 50RS yeah
Cishet friends are so easy to please I just give them a mug or sum and they are overjoyed. Gay friends they expect some centre of the earth Rock carved in the shape of a swan and a person in a way it symbolises references to their favourite book Greek mythology communist theory
This is a Callout post for @/abdullahwtfbro he made uncomfortable remarks towards my friends and put them in difficult spots . He made sex and incest jokes aimed at a minor and people who have never interacted with him . Please distance yourself from him.
Anyways I'm not gay y'all I'm a perfectly happy cisgender heterosexual woman dating a cisgender heterosexual man . But I do support y'all cause my religon is all about peace may God cure you- I mean look over you 🥺💗
Shout out to girls who just pick up their heaps of clothes and shove them back in the closet hoping for the best and who have the most atrociously disorganized drawers and random pins and gems scattered all over their room because they have a weird attachment to the clutter
What's the point of making kurtay so see through man ain't nobody wearing a slip in this weather. If you see a girl's bra outline showing shut the fuck up and go blind because I wouldn't be caught dead wearing itna Kuch in this weather
Need to find a rich bf so eventually his mother holds a meeting with me and slams her cheque book Infront of me saying " jitni raqam chahiye ismay likho or chali jao mere bete ki zindagi say " like aunty aap hamaray pyar Kay beech Nahi asakti :'( *writes a cheque for 5 crore*
" Can't even joke with you " Dekho ismay meri kya galti Kay your loser friends have made you think it's normal and funny to " joke " about someone's appearance and clothes idk maybe kys
I feel so awful asking my dad to buy me the most basic things idk why like yeah he's my dad as he should but I feel like it's really unnecessary and I'm just wasting his money bye
HELP my brother called me into his room like "So I saw your posters" and I was losing it like there is no heterosexual explanation as to why I have big boobie anime girls on my wall but he was like "Hope they don't distract you while studying" BYE
What's up with the most horrible people becoming psychology majors ? Do they not get deja vu when they cover topics on trauma bullying and harassment? Do they not think oh ! ye to may bhi Karti thi hahaha. KYS
Ye Kiya bakwass hay I'm 17 according to the americore teen movies I should be meeting the love of my life , doing drugs , dancing on the rooftop with somebody who looks like a total dream NOT sobbing over my chem notes and dying of dehydration
So embarrassing asking twt oomf for their Instagram and them going " We already follow eachother " sorry bae my bad I didn't know Mariumhellokitty on ig is namjoondishwashergaysatan on twt galti hogai mujhsay
I hate that moment in homoerotic friendship when it goes quite and you're just looking into eachothers eyes with such profound sadness and pinning like what if I shot myself don't look at me like that
Bitchess be like omggg sooooooo excited for college!!!! Then not even 2 weeks go bye starting college they pray the whole establishment goes up in flames
White lesbian music all sounds the same to me it's always like
" she's so pretty I wanna see her titty but that'd be so silly because she likes billy "
I often think about the loneliness of being a young desi queer person because it's hard to find queer friends in person and when you do they're often snobby mean people you can't relate to and then your online friends are usually in different cities and it's just so..
Being gay having your parents talk about your marriage and stuff is so upsetting it forces me to think about how one day I'll have to break it to them and how would they take it
The fuck is desi aunties problem " Zara healthy hogai ho hahaha " jee or apkay shohar nay ek aur Shaadi karli hay hahaha but you don't see me saying anything