Healing can take a lifetime. You don’t have to wait to be fully healed to be loved. We learn/grow everyday.
Go into your next relationship with honesty. Be able to tell your partner your faults/trauma so they are able understand how to handle/love you through them.
I was at the bar in Austin on a girls trip she walked in w her cousins bridal party & walked up to me but starred at me for 5 mins w/o a word so I turned and said “are you gonna say something or just stand there?”
We’ve been married for 7 months now❤️
My gf has been teaching things I didn’t notice were toxic ..currently I’m learning to address things that make me uncomfortable in the moment with my partner and not bottle them up to the point where I convince myself that things aren’t going good and I leave ..
I’ll remove myself before I allow anger to consume me ever again . I like to love. I like to laugh . I like to be happy. So if I gotta distance myself to keep things that way, I will.
I have a kid. I adopted him. I may not have given birth to him but I treat him like I did with that being said if you shoot your shot at me, we’re a packaged deal and that’s NO DEBATE.
We go on a fancy date once a month and for November she surprised me by taking me to the spiny restaurant we always drive by and talk about 🥹
My heart is so happy and the food was 10/10 😘🤌🏽
I forgot to mention that I officially met my dad for the first time on Christmas, I now know where I get most of my personality from and a lot of my physical features as well 🥺🤣
I will “MY WIFE” tf out y’all forever she’s literally one of the greatest women I’ve ver encountered in my life. I wish this type of love for everyone, it’s so beautiful.
The best decision I ever made in life was to stop asking/taking advice from everyone especially women that weren’t in relationships and started only talking to my partner and therapist about my relationship.