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✨ Activist for abuse/trauma survivors Fierce advocate & proud mom | Adoptee | 🛍️ @worthywonderful

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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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The first thing my uncle said to me when I met him was that a few years later they regretted what happened and “would never have given that baby away” and would’ve found a way to work it out. That meant so much to me. Adoption is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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I got to spend the most wonderful week with my mom living in her house. I feel like I got to live my ‘ghost kingdom’ and it was beautiful. #adopteevoices
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@0xtotaylor
Tommy
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With general intelligence becoming a commodity, I’m hiring AI natives who demonstrate agency, integrity, and grit
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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“Your light may irritate a lot of unhealed people” …or your self righteousness may irritate everyone. Please stop using ‘healing messages’ to pit survivors against each other. #respectsurvivors
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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“After abuse and trauma, it seems like everyone suddenly believes they are the expert—on abuse, on trauma, on what you should have done, and on what you should do now. But the truth is, they don’t. Their advice comes from their own perspective—not yours.“ https://t.co/cieKrsWKGi
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Defend Survivors
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This. Domestic violence survivors are intelligent, courageous, and they know how to calculate their risk better than anyone. They deserve respect, protection, justice, and support. #domesticviolencedisruptionandjusticemonth
@DrEmmaKatz
Dr Emma Katz
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In my latest article I write about how mothers and children resist coercive control. "This is a really important conversation. I hadn’t realised it previously - resistance is our power and can empower others." https://t.co/hZQJS7mhUw #coercivecontrol
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@FIIKSA
FII Institute
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The world’s most influential leaders, investors and changemakers will converge at FII9 to shape the future under the theme ‘The Key to Prosperity,’ Oct 27–30 in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Attend as a Member.
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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The Baby Scoop Era: When Shame Stole Our Mothers Between 1945–1973, up to 4 million babies were taken from unmarried mothers, shamed and silenced by families, faith, and society. We are not a shame. We are the truth they tried to hide. #BabyScoopEra https://t.co/XkGRtm9Fmw
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Defend Survivors
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“We are not a shame. Our mothers are not a shame. The shame belongs to the families, religious institutions, and systems that failed them.” #babyscoopera #adopteevoices https://t.co/XkGRtmadc4
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Defend Survivors
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My daughter’s perpetrator donated to the children’s advocacy center she reported him to and they sent him a thank you note. Kindness without truth is manipulation. #believeprotectdefend
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Defend Survivors
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We need to stop excusing the heinous actions of perpetrators with ‘hurt people, hurt people’ and instead realize that cruel people enjoy being cruel. #perpetrator101
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@AminCad
AminCad Ξ🐬🔊 - evm/acc
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Ethereum is achieving ultimate neutrality by evolving into a universal and mathematically verifiable settlement layer, proven by the Cambrian explosion of independent execution environments that have chosen it as their common anchor for security and truth.
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Defend Survivors
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People love to tell adoptees who their ‘parent’ is. People love to tell survivors that “they’re still your parent” Your family are the people that love, stand up for you, and protect you. No one has the right to tell you who that is. #bloodisnotthickerthanabuse #adoptiontrauma
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@WorthyWonderful
Worthy & Wonderful Shop
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Believe Protect Defend 💚💛🧡 https://t.co/QwmuzgohwQ
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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“Your pain deserves justice, not debate.” https://t.co/66el4Bspul
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@meforum
Middle East Forum
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Islamism advances. Israel fights. The West retreats. Can it still defend itself? Watch MEF's Roundtable on Friday, 11:30 am ET. Our panel this week: @josh_hammer@Newsweek @dpletka@AEI @LeeSmithDC@tabletmag @lregan23@Scholars4Peace Register now: https://t.co/RcANc9Bjdf
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Defend Survivors
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So many stories from the Baby Scoop Era of fathers telling their young pregnant daughters not to bring their shame home. But those babies grew up and thanks to DNA we are on the family tree and we are reassigning the shame to them for not protecting their daughter and grandchild.
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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I hurt myself, my children, and my mother with a misplaced sense of responsibility to my adoptive family that ended up lying to me my whole life. If you’re an adoptee, your adoptive family should be the first people making sure you know your family and identity. #adopteevoices
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Defend Survivors
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Other than my children, every person in my life that has said they loved me only loved how much I loved them. #adopteevoices #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth
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Defend Survivors
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If an adoptee is afraid to look for their family because it may hurt their adoptive parents then they are in a controlling relationship - not a loving one. If the adoptive parents love the child they care about them knowing their family, heritage, and identity and never hide it.
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@seanyt81
Sean Tinney
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NYC’s future depends on smart policy, not old mistakes. Swipe through these real headlines and stats - then vote: 🗳️ What’s NYC’s biggest risk?
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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“Whenever I hear someone say, “They just don’t want to heal,” I always think, “Well, now we know why they are struggling.” This kind of judgment is not care; it’s control dressed up as concern.” https://t.co/UUr62kuYkp
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Defend Survivors
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It’s the worst thing to feel that you being around your child hurts them. It’s cruel to tell a mother that her child is better off without her just because she’s not married or lacking resources. It’s no wonder suicide rates are so high for mothers coerced into relinquishment.
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@defendsurvivors
Defend Survivors
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In the adoption narrative you always hear that a child needs a ‘two parent home’ or a ‘mother and father’ but no one talks about how many adoptive homes end in divorce and/or domestic abuse. #domesticabuseawarenessmonth #adoptiontrauma
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