When we talk about transformation, we are talking about movement. You will not be in the same place at the end of a transformation as you were at the beginning. For more nuggets, you can find them in my book Crash! available on Amazon and at

“A person who is truly cool is a work of art. And remember, original works of art cost exponentially higher than imitations. Take a look at the the coolest people in history. They will always be a part of history for being extremely original individuals, not imitations.”⁠.⁠

Is what you are doing today, getting you ⁠.closer to where you want to be? If not, stop and ask yourself, what can I do to get closer to where I want to be? How can I change my thoughts to be happy? We all possess the tools, we just need to figure out how to use them.⁠.⁠

“Here is the true meaning and value of compassion and nonviolence, when it helps us to see the enemy’s point of view, to hear his questions, to know his assessment of ourselves. For from his view we may indeed see the basic weaknesses of our own condition, . ” -Dr. King

I am always looking for new books and information. I would love to know what you reading or listening to in Audible. I've been really getting into listening to audiobooks.

Quick shout out to my Sorors at speaking events in recent years!  Dang, I miss live events, book signings, meeting and hugging people in person!. #NAMICDETROIT#BCBSNJ #MRACPROBATE . #deltasigmatheta #greeklife #greekunity #sisterhood #sororities#DST108 #ForwardwithFortitude

Thank you Founders for your illustration of strength, vision and fortitude. the very things we need right now. Happy Founders Day to all my beloved Sorors!  #DST108 #ForwardwithFortitude

We've all heard the saying "follow your passion." Sounds cliche but true. Passion is what fuels you. It's what starts the engine. Passion is the energy that keeps you going, that keeps you filled with meaning and excitement and anticipation.Share your thoughts around passion.

Take a look back at last week at work. Did you experience a defining moment that demonstrated your true self? . For more tips and lessons, you can order my book Crash! Leading Through the Wreckage from

The second day of Kwanzaa is kujichagulia which honors self-determination. We must honor ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves and speak for ourselves. #enlightenedleadership #enlightenedthinker #beenlightened #leadershipteam #instaauthor#kwanzaa #kujichagulia

No amount of money or success can take the place of time with family. Family time in Centerville!!

Whenever I am able to share my story, I am truly humbled and blessed. It took a literal crash to focus me. Life is what you make it. Promotions are nice, but did you or are you living the Life you've imagined or are you stuck?. Take my Crash! Quiz at

It's Wednesday. To some, it’s Hump Day. To some, it’s rocking out hard on Wednesday and Thursday just asking Friday to switch places. Let's push through to the end. We can make it and we can get there. Let's do it!!!

Here are my four leadership lessons from “Game of Thrones” that can be practically applied by leaders in the real world. Article link is below take some time to read. I’d love to know your thoughts.

"Hey Mr. D.J. (You can get this started).Everybody's ready to party.(All night, all night).All the girls are ready.(So we can all get to it)". Life is about balance. Let your hair down! What's your plans for the weekend, safely of course?

OHH, how I miss going to events and connecting with my audience. My favorite part is signing books and hugging all of you. What do you miss about attending events?⁠

When I became honest with myself about my own strength and weakness, I was able to help others be honest about theirs. As I was growing and expanding, I found I wanted to create a team culture based on honesty. Get your copy of Crash! from ⁠

"Gratitude turns what we have into Enough". As we stop to spend time with family and friends, remember to be grateful. 2020 has been tough but remember someone would trade places with you in an instant.

"On the road again.Just can't wait to get on the road again.The life I love is making music with my friends. And I can't wait to get on the road again.On the road again. Goin' places that I've never been.Seein' things that I may never see again".-Willie Nelson

You are enough. You deserve to follow your heart and achieve your dreams. Defining moments are moments of enlightenment. When you are enlightened, you can live the life you've imagined. Have you determined your value?