There seems to be a law in this broken world that every strength is tempered with some kind of a weakness.
A pastor who is an especially powerful preacher may be an especially weak counselor; elders who are skilled and vociferous in defending the truth may fall short in grace
How Long Is the Dash? Nick’s gravestone has finally been installed, and I have come to see it for the very first time. I have been looking forward to this day and dreading this day in equal measure.
There may not be times in your marriage when you stop loving your wife, but there may be times when you stop liking her. There may be times when you are easily irritated with her, when you just can't get along, or when a kind of despondency enters into the way you think of her
If God Did It, It Must Be Good. Right? "We have never doubted that God’s sovereignty and goodness were displayed in giving us our boy. We are fighting right now to never doubt that God’s sovereignty and goodness were displayed in taking away our boy."
"Raise a daughter with a fully loaded heart and mind so that a fully loaded shotgun isn’t necessary. She shouldn’t need you to scare off weak suitors. Let her strength and dignity do the job." (Jen Wilkin)
"Shallow Christianity will not last in the coming generation, and it will not grow. Cultural Christianity is fading. The church in the twenty-first century must go big on truth or go home." (Kevin DeYoung)
A Message for Young Men
Somewhere out there in the great, wide world, someone is praying for you. He probably doesn't know you and you probably don't know him. You may not meet one another for many more years. But he's praying for you nonetheless and has been for a very long
"The basis of my marriage is this: God has called me with an irrevocable, inexcusable calling to lay down my life for one specific woman all the days of her life. And to serve her unconditionally, whether she deserves it or not." (Paul Washer)
"If I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million of enemies. Yet the distance makes no difference; He is praying for me." (Robert Murray McCheyne)
A Mid-Winter Family Update: Here's a little update on what we're up to now that a couple of months have passed, now that we're (again) under stay-at-home orders, and now that college is about to begin once more.
"God knew what we were before conversion- wicked, guilty and defiled; yet He loved us. He knows what we will be after conversion- weak, erring and frail; yet He loves us." (J.C. Ryle)
A few lessons on parenting little ones.
Children are born sinners who are in need of a Savior. Almost before they are able to express anything else, they are able to express their rebellion against their parents. It's important to remind yourself often that their rebellion is
"Seek to live a quiet life. Focus on where God has placed you and the work he has called you to in this moment. Pursue a heart of convictional kindness." (Aaron Armstrong)
I haven’t really used Twitter/X in years. Are people able to read this kind of longish-form content? It let me share it, but I’m not sure if people can actually read it!
"My faith rests not in what I am, or shall be, or feel, or know, but in what Christ is, in what he has done, and in what he is doing for me." (Charles Spurgeon)
"Prayer is never about asking God to submit his awesome power to your will and plan; prayer is an act of personal submission to the always-right will of God." (Paul David Tripp)
"Lament is how you live between the poles of a hard life and trusting in God’s sovereignty. Lament is how we bring our sorrow to God. Without lament we won’t know how to process pain." (Mark Vroegop)
"Character doesn’t just appear out of nowhere; it is the result of God’s refining our lives through tribulation—and, yes, even suffering." (Sinclair Ferguson)
"Not only is all your affliction momentary, not only is all your affliction light in comparison to eternity and the glory there. But all of it is totally meaningful...Therefore, therefore, do not lose heart." (John Piper)
"A person may not allow us to talk to them about God, but they cannot keep us from talking to God about them. The power of Intercession!" (Paul Washer)
"The best sermon ever preached is a holy life. The best music ever chanted is a consistent walk. If you want others to serve God, serve him yourself." (DeWitt Talmage)
"If teenagers are listening to three hours of TV every day and averaging five minutes a day talking with their dads, who is winning the influence battle?" (Jay Younts)
"Humility is the only soil in which true unity can grow. Only when Christ is more precious to us than our own reputations will we give up our petty rivalries and personal agendas. Only when his glory eclipses all else will we live for his cause and no other." (Michael Reeves)
"If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world." (C.S. Lewis)
"Some Christian people today who would never curse, steal, miss a prayer meeting, or think of getting drunk, respond with unrestrained anger toward those who disagree with them." (Alexander Strauch)
Daddy, How Do I Look?
“Daddy, how do I look?”
Eyes sparkling. Cheeks glowing. Is that a touch of makeup, a little something to accentuate the green of her eyes? Since when has she been wearing makeup? She twirls daintily on silver shoes, hair streaming, dress floating.
“Daddy,