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• child of God • wife • mother • daughter • sister • friend • pro-women • pro-men • pro-marriage • pro-family • pro-life • pro-love one another ❤️

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Carla 🌷
2 years
As woman who has cooked and cleaned and cared for my husband and children full-time for over 25 years, I’ll tell you this: My husband has NEVER once told it’s “my duty” or that I am obligated as a wife to do these things. In fact… just the opposite -
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Carla 🌷
11 months
Men on twitter: Women hit the wall in their 30s. Same men: Why do my marriages fail. 70 percent of women file for divorce. I thought marriage was ‘till death. 🤔🫠🤣
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Carla 🌷
4 months
Men on twitter: get married and have a whole bunch of kids. Don’t help your wife with the housework. Be stoic. Focus on “your mission” above your wife. Focus on your fitness and your bros first and formost. Also men on twitter: why do women initiate 70% of the divorces? 🤔🧐
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Carla 🌷
2 years
He can cook and clean for himself. She can provide for herself. Marriage is not about doing things for one another because the other is incapable or needy or demanding or childish. Marriage about serving one another in love. It’s about putting one another above self.♥️
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Carla 🌷
9 months
Can someone on this app please explain to me why you think marriage is hard? I’ve been for married for 27 years and I don’t understand how marriage is hard. Sometimes life can be hard, but marriage makes life beautiful.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Sitting in my warm car at the gas station while husband pumps gas. I look over to my right.. one guy is putting air in his tires while his wife sits their car. I look over to my left.. one guy is checking his oil while his wife sits in their car. 🥹🤧 I love men. ❤️
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Masculinity is a beautiful thing and it needs to be nurtured.. femininity does that. Femininity is a beautiful thing and it needs to be protected… masculinity does that. ❤️
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Carla 🌷
1 year
I always feel empathy for women who are single but desire to be married.. until I hear all their ridiculous criteria for a husband.
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Carla 🌷
11 months
Ladies, do you want to know the secret to a long happy marriage? Marry a man who doesn’t think you “hit the wall” at the age of 30. 🥰 🤣😅
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Satan’s plan is for men to be boys, women to be men, and to make children unwanted. — Dale Partridge
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Everybody wants to “fall in love.” 😍 But Very few want to commit to loving somebody for a lifetime. Love is not something you “fall into.” Love is something you do. And keep on doing. And keep on doing. And keep on doing. ❤️
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Carla 🌷
1 year
@ElijahSchaffer Modest? Modesty means dressing in a way that does not bring attention to yourself. This is not modest.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
I always knew he’d love me just as much even if we didn’t have kids, even if I worked outside the home, even if I didn’t cook him dinner, even if I didn’t clean the house. So, all this to say: Young ladies please don’t settle for these creepy trad guys. You deserve much better!
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Carla 🌷
2 years
My husband is ALWAYS offering to help out around the house and trying to lighten my load. He’s always so appreciative everyday when I make breakfast, lunch and dinner.. and is so incredibly grateful that I cared for the kids all day when he was at work (when they were little).
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Carla 🌷
2 years
If you get to be homemaker instead of having to rush out the door every morning to go to work, don’t forget to thank your husband. #YouAreBlessed 🌷🏡🌷
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Carla 🌷
6 months
@creation247 Stop it!! Dolly Parton can wear whatever she wants. Plus she’s been married longer than most. If her husband is happy.. why does it even matter to you!?
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Carla 🌷
3 years
A woman who really wants to stay home and have babies will stretch any income her husband lovingly provides to make it work. 💝 Believe that.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
These young people today insist on marrying “a man who is financially stable” OR “a woman who is a good cook.” I don’t get it! Why not grow together? Why not learn together as you go? Marriage is about growth. Do it together. Don’t wait & miss out on all the fun stuff!
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Carla 🌷
3 years
Don’t ever abandon your spouse. Remember your vows.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Moms got 6-8 weeks off after having a baby when we were young mothers. Now young moms are crying because 12 weeks is not enough. Some countries give mom 12 months off after birth. No amount of maternity leave will satisfy your natural desire to be at home nurturing your children.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
If I was ever tired or felt overwhelmed he always come to my rescue. None of this..“that’s your job, woman” stuff. Honestly, I’d NEVER want to be a traditional stay at home wife/mom if I thought for one second it was anything like the “trads” on twitter. That stuff is abusive.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
When we teach our girls to be independent, we are teaching our boys that they are not dependable. Not a good look.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
There was no “woman age like spoiled milk.”Or “women hit the wall at a certain age.” I NEVER felt rushed to have kids. I NEVER felt bullied into staying at home. I NEVER became less valuable to him after I birthed our children. I’m fact…
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Carla 🌷
4 months
People on twitter seem to have thing against single moms.. not understanding that for every single mom there is a single dad too. Single dads are not better than single moms. Moms just more often stick around to raise the child while it’s more common for the dad to abandon.
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Carla 🌷
10 months
A husband does not “love his wife & lay his life down” because his wife insists he does it. A wife does not “submit to her husband” because her husband insists she does it. These things come from a desire to serve God and serve others. You can’t force it upon somebody!
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Carla 🌷
3 years
Some married men won’t prioritize date night, rarely plan romantic get-aways, neglect to buy their wife flowers regularly, refuse to help with the house & kids, engage with sexy women on the internet… and then they wonder why their sex-life is suffering. 🧐
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Carla 🌷
2 years
When I speak about my husband, I never want it to come across as boasting. I want young women to know that good men exist and that having an amazing husband is not some sort of fairytale.. it’s real life.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
“She must have long hair. She must be a good cook. She must be under 30 years old.” “He must be tall. He must be rich.” Stop searching for the most shallow characteristics on earth and search for a virtuous person instead.
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Carla 🌷
3 years
So many men on twitter seem to glorify the SAHM lifestyle. Not as many men are actually willing to provide it.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
A man will carry the weight of the world on his shoulders so that a woman doesn’t have to. 🤧🤍
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Carla 🌷
5 years
35 year old “men” on twitter berating & objectifying women.. meanwhile, 22 year old young men are rejecting social media, discussing theology, getting married & speaking out against porn... Y’all are not ready for generation Z. 😂😂
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Some people think that a “high value man” is a man who makes a lot of money. But some of our sweetest years of marriage were in our apartment and our first little house, budgeting everything & hardly ever going on vacation. Don’t miss out on the good stuff because of your greed.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Masculinity is not toxic. Masculinity serves a beautiful purpose and that purpose is to lead, love, serve and protect. If you know anyone who is masculine you know this is true.
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Carla 🌷
7 months
Men being unkind to feminist women will rarely persuade feminist women to be more feminine.. in fact, it most likely will persuade them to cling more tightly to their feminist ways. It also leads more would be feminine women into feminism.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Men feel most loved when they are respected. Women feel most respected when they are loved.
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Carla 🌷
4 years
Happy International Men’s Day! You build You create You protect You provide You love You lead You open doors Your kindness, toughness, grit, hard work and determination is a gift to us all. Thank you for being you!❤️💪🏼 #InternationalMensDay #HappyInternationalMensDay
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Carla 🌷
2 years
This may come a surprise to some of you.. It’s possible for a woman to happily married. ❤️
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Married women can’t shower in peace. 😤😅
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Carla 🌷
4 months
It has come to my attention that the reason so many of these trad men don’t want women to go to work is because they don’t want her to have any money if they divorce. They think if “he earned it,” it should be his if they split. This is exactly why alimony is needed.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
A marriage that ends in divorce is always sad. I don’t care what the “circumstances,” a broken family is always heartbreaking.
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Carla 🌷
4 years
When a husband counts on his wife’s salary to make ends meet it changes their relationship completely. Thoughts?
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Carla 🌷
7 months
A lot of men will not lift a finger at home to help his wife. A lot of men insist on doing the dishes for his wife after she’s had a long day caring for her babies. Get to know a man before you decide to marry him & have babies with him. You’ll thank me for this advice later.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Ladies: if he is not loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, gentle, good, faithful & self-controlled he is not the one. Know what qualities to look for in a man. The fruit of the Spirit is a good place to start.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Ladies, when looking for a husband, it’s good be picky. You deserve to be treated like a princess. You deserve to loved and respected and cherished. You deserve to be loved like Christ loved his church. Please settle for anything less than that!
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Carla 🌷
1 year
An abusive man will say “God does not permit divorce” while at the same time treating his wife harshly. Dude, God does not permit you to be unkind or harsh to your wife!
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Every single time that I tell a woman that I don’t work, she says: “OMG! You’re so lucky!” Where do we get the idea that most women want to work outside the home? All the ladies I know who work outside the home are just waiting for the day they don’t have to.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Every man I’ve ever met in real life: Women, keep your head on a swivel. Be very careful when walking alone especially in parking lots. Men on twitter: Women, you so are dumb to worry about your safety while walking alone in parking lots.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Men step up when women step down. Sometimes it’s frustrating, but it’s facts. If you want him to rise to the challenge.. let him.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Women who complain about men have no idea what it’s like to be loved by a good man. I think that’s the saddest thing.
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Carla 🌷
3 years
Men feel loved when they are well respected. Women feel respected when they are well loved. Love and respect one another. ❤️
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Carla 🌷
2 years
“Get all dressed up to please your husband.” Serious question. Does your husband really ever think you DON’T look good? 🧐😅 •pretty dress & makeup = beautiful to him. •yoga pants & old t-shirt & no makeup = beautiful to him. •bathrobe & bedhead = beautiful to him. 🥰
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Carla 🌷
2 years
@realthoughtsfem It breaks my heart that these thoughts would even go through a young woman’s mind.. I can’t even imagine the people in my life waiting a “certain amount of time” to respond to text on purpose. How sad! This young generation will suffer when it comes to real life relationships.💔
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Carla 🌷
4 months
Twitter manosphere will try to convince women that abuse inside of marriage is very rare. But the more I see the stuff they post on twitter the more I see just how common it is. 💔😥
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Don’t idolize marriage. You’ll end up jumping ship when the hard times come along. Marriage is all about loving one another during the difficult times, or else it’s just a short term fling.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
“The homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist for one purpose only — and that is to support the ultimate career.” 🏡🌷
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Mountain Housewife/ Mrs. Michael Corley 🏠
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Homemaking is an art and done right it takes intelligence, creativity, and resourcefulness.
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Carla 🌷
4 years
@UnbiasedKatie Dear Men: Thank you for holding the door open for women. This implies that you believe women are valuable and worthy of honor and respect. Thank God that real men don’t change the way they behave towards women.. even though some women say crazy things. ♥️💪🏼
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Miley Cyrus has a new song out called Flowers and it breaks my heart. Ladies, why buy your own Flowers and hold your own hand? When a loving man could do all that for you.. Let him love you! ❤️
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Kids playing ball in the street. Little boy falls down and gets hurt. A girl: stops playing *hugs him* “Oh No!! Are you okay? Do you need help?” A boy: “GET UP!! We need you in this game!” The beautiful difference between a girl & a boy. 🤣 Both reactions are healthy & needed.
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Carla 🌷
3 years
Ladies, If you have a desire be a wife, don’t waste your time with a man who isn’t interested in making you his wife.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
When choosing a lifelong spouse it’s important to realize that people change over the years.
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Carla 🌷
7 months
Ladies, consider this - what if cooking the meals, keeping the home, rocking the babies, loving the difficult ones, listening to the lonely ones, & taking care of this sick ones was really the most important work all along? 🏡🌷
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Carla 🌷
2 years
“He’s a grown man. He can take care of himself.” Thing is, we love and care for one another. Yes, even grown men need compassion and kindness.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
So many young people today think they need a great career(need to make lots of money) before they’ll be ready to get married. I want to encourage you.. Don’t miss out on the little apartment together, the hand me down furniture, the learning to save for something special.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Everybody wants to fall in love, it’s beautiful! But treating one another with unconditional love & the utmost respect, & putting the needs of your spouse above your own needs, year after year after year? That’s the part that a lot of newlyweds don’t plan for.
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Carla 🌷
3 years
@MattWalshBlog These guys (and gals) are work so hard only to get backlash for doing their job and protecting our country.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
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Carla 🌷
3 years
“GoOd mEn/wOmEn dOn’t eXiSt.” Yes they do, they just don’t spend time around people like you.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Twitter will make you think that good men don’t even exist. Ladies, log off of twitter and get to know real men. Good men do exist.♥️
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Today we get to celebrate 27 years of doing life together. He is my best friend & my faithful lover. I am so grateful for each moment! #Blessed ❤️🙏🏻
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Carla 🌷
7 years
@radicalbytes @terrycrews "Life has no limits, but it has plenty of boundaries." — Terry Crews Thanks for being brave. God bless!
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Carla 🌷
8 months
@ZubyMusic I can honestly say, for me, there is nothing hard about being a woman. Being a woman is the most amazing thing ever. 💝
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Carla 🌷
4 years
Bad men often create single mothers. Then they sit back and belittle the good men who step up to protect that woman and child. Good men protect women and children. Bad men abandon them.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
@kevinburch @Agojie_ His innocence made me giggle. He was genuinely caught off guard. 🤣😅
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Carla 🌷
2 years
My friend: I worked at a bank before I became a mother. I got 6 weeks off when I had my baby. When maternity leave was over I called the bank in tears and quit. I didn’t know how we’d survive w/o my paycheck, but I knew I could not leave my baby. We survived.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
In real life men are so protective of women. In the twitter universe men bully women. Does anyone else notice this? Where are these guys in real life.. hidden? I feel like they’d get their butts kicked by other men in their real life, no? Maybe I live in a bubble. 🤷🏻‍♀️😅
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Carla 🌷
1 year
@MattWalshBlog Matt Walsh: I like it when my wife cooks dinner. Twitter: Well, a lot of abusive husbands want wives to cook them dinner also.. therefore, Matt Walsh is probably an abusive husband.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
If he doesn’t think that you are the best thing ever he is not the one. He’s head over heals in love with you or he isn’t.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
I heard this “first date” story: Girl goes into the bathroom at the restaurant to freshen up. She leaned forward & flung her head back(trying to create more volume in her hair). She accidentally hit her head on the counter.
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Carla 🌷
4 years
Don’t ever criticize the stay at home wife/mother. She is often the one we can count on to.. influence the children, care for the hurting, rock the babies, drive the carpools, prep the meals, help the neighbors, etc. Let’s take the time honor each person for the work they do.💝
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Carla 🌷
3 years
When a society laughs off divorce like it’s just some sort of joke, a society crumbles. I don’t care if you are a famous celebrity or a humble housewife. Divorce is destructive.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
The smartest thing a young women can do on a first date (first few dates) is to listen and observe. •How does he speak to you? •Is he generous and kind? •Does he hold the door and the chair? •Does he treat you (& others) with respect?
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Carla 🌷
2 years
@LiveAction @LilaGraceRose @DrPhil These women wants rights for themselves but not for innocent children in the womb. How can they not see their hypocrisy? Woman’s rights begin in the womb(men’s rights begin there also).
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Carla 🌷
3 years
Them: I don’t need no man. Me: I am free to fill my days with all the things that bring me joy all day every day because I have a man that I can depend on. #Thankful ❤️
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Carla 🌷
3 years
@archonkiller7 What do mean? This happens all over America every single day.
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Carla 🌷
2 months
A lot of men (& women) still blame feminists for feminism instead of blaming the men that created the need for feminism.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
“Working on myself” has become an excuse for putting off love and marriage and family. Don’t fall into this trap. 🙏🏻
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Carla 🌷
2 years
@amnestyusa No. Those babies have the right to life. Let them live. 🙏🏼
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Carla 🌷
4 years
Too many “men” in the mansophere are complaining on twitter about how woman aren’t “making sandwiches.” Are these guys even married? Dear men, I promise you this: if you stop complaining about women, get married & treat your wife amazingly, you’ll never lack sandwiches. 😅
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Carla 🌷
1 year
@adarathexplorer Love this!!🥰 We do this with our daughter. She’s 22. She lives at home and works part time… takes college classes when she wants to… volunteers at her church. It’s important to us that she knows she should be taken care of.❤️
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Carla 🌷
3 years
The girl who doesn’t trust men and doesn’t want to get married is often the same girl that wants to get married and trust her husband after he proves to her that he can be trusted. It’s the SAME GIRL. 🤍
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Carla 🌷
2 years
A day in the life of a stay at home wife: •Wake up •Coffee •Bible •Laundry •Breakfast •Walk with mom & sis •Vacuum •Lunch •Prep for dinner(for my husband) •Nap •Bubble bath •Shower •Dinner with girlfriends •Relax with husband 🥰 Whatcha doing today?
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Some women get online and complain about their husband.. and all I can think about is how amazing my husband is. I am so incredibly blessed! This man has given me the sweetest life.. so much more love than I could have ever dreamed of.
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Carla 🌷
1 year
Moral of the story: don’t think you and/or your date needs to be perfect & flawless. Most often it’s how people deal with real life craziness that makes them the most attractive.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Men on twitter hate the term “happy wife, happy life” but I have never met a man in real life who didn’t have the desire to make his wife happy. 🥰
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Carla 🌷
4 years
A lack of masculinity can make men toxic.
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Carla 🌷
2 years
@Babygravy9 Why does it bother people that someone wants to improve their looks? She’s probably happily married, living her best life, while miserable people on the internet are putting her down for likes.🤷🏻‍♀️
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Carla 🌷
2 years
Ladies, don’t hold on to any man who doesn’t want to marry you. ♥️💍♥️ Move on, sweet girl!
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