Holding hands for some is still fraught with much more than it should be. It should be a sign of affection, that shouldn’t be seen as something political...but it too often is. The butterflies should be from LOVE not FEAR.

My Flock of Seagulls phase Cambridge University U.K

New Favorite so haunting

215 LBS bitch please

This Beautiful movie has wrecked me! In the best way possible emotions have been awakened in my Old Gay heart, reminds me of the hopes you have for yourself when you were young & the heartache of coming out, and ultimately finding your way. It feels Nice to be seen #RWRB

When I was sent to conversion Therapy I was told that you can break any habit in 24 days. Well it has been 24 years now and we are still at it. Who you are and who you love can not be boiled down to some formula. In November it will be 25 years with this habit of love.

The things I tell myself to get through… Being raised in an evangelical Preacher’s house as a closeted Gay kid Builds Character…. Or so I like to tell myself LOL

There is not enough lipstick in the world to cover up the ugly #TrumpMugShot

I love my British friends they see all the suffering we have been going through

#RedWhiteAndRoyalBlue our wedding cake topper reminds me so much of this movie

I know I am a big sap for Romance but #RedWhiteAndRoyalBlue which I have watched a dozen times now. Has had me laughing and crying for a week now, so many of Henry’s lines I have said something similar in my life growing up as a Gay preachers kid. It was so good to be seen.

The best and easiest part of my life has been being gay. It’s like breathing. And as important to life as respiration nothing could be easier. Being Gay is easy. It’s straight society that makes being Gay hard. Making you slowly die in Suffocating constraints.

Tayler Swift reading my mind when she wrote this: “ they say home is where the heart is, but god I love the English”. Have been there many times, going back soon. It really is my happy place.

My boy is tired

Evangelicals are so susceptible to conspiracy theories because they were indoctrinated to the faith message about faith being the evidence of things not seen, groomed as a child to accept things without evidence & taught that doubt and critical thinking skills were of the devil.

God where has the time and my beautiful hair gone

Love my new office at home if you have to work might as well be in nice surroundings

If they say you are too much of something. Let them settle for less. You deserve to be chosen not tolerated

Having come from this group they are more and more un Christlike so really strange calling yourself that. I am reminded that it is not about what you think or say it’s about what you do

My British friends, question my husband and are planing a Trip, to Britain next year. He is in a wheelchair now, never thought of this traveling before but how accessible is it there any recommendations.

I don’t think it was until after I came out that my Dad ever hugged me as an adult. Very strange that our society doesn’t think that Boys and men need affection as much as Girls and women. I know I can not be the only man that feels that way.