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@sadgyalbae It doesn’t matter what the women look like. Majority of men will still fumble and won’t treat them well. You could be Beyoncé level 11/10 and some ugly fat guy will still refuse to buy you flowers and take you on a proper date. 🤣.
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@Timmy2DT @Shuri57821 Not if we don’t get pregnant lmao. People act like pregnancy is unavoidable. It’s not.
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@queenveej I feel like this is black culture in general. We are very mean/hard/ aggressive to each other. I hate it. I’ve had to check guys I date. If you’re making fun of me, I’m not turned on.
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@ajeeeebbb_ @taamriddlz This makes me sad. I think when we are younger we put way too much stock into relationships. We have to love ourselves first. Heartbreak sucks, but we heal.
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@RendalSune @mcgee_mauve @lovettejallow But like why? Why don’t y’all feed people? That’s so weird and odd. It’s god-like to feed neighbors, even strangers.
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@clarencecooper4 @DontWorryBoutB Na. I’m all for treating black men well. But he’s not reciprocating her energy. That’s what’s sad. I feel sorry for her honestly.
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@shogentushi @HonestLeYo @luvndheritage @venusianvillain @ealehn No, married men actually live longer than single men. But their life expectancy is still shorter than women’s.
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@amberreverb @lovettejallow Girl same. Shoot, if my friends were coming over my parents would show out for dinner. We would eat a grand meal.
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@RendalSune @mcgee_mauve @lovettejallow And it’s so odd you mention culture. I can name about 50 different people and cultures that all feed guests in their home. You could not walk through the threshold of my house without being offered food and drink.
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@OH_Lympia @Jani__Gee That’s the only reason to want an older man. They aren’t more mature or emotionally stable or better looking. They’re just more established and have more disposable income.
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@RegBlackGrl @tinashehive I think a lot of women want to feel like they’re the exception. Like their man specifically chose them because of their beauty or personality or whatever. But most men have a type they go after. If they break up, he will have another Asian chick guaranteed.
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@CologneOnMyBody @KeemWard25 Then why deal with her or date her? Lmao . If she has to prove to you she’s worth dates, you don’t actually like her.
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@ImmortalKing88 @BrockTheTaylor I honestly don’t think most men want romance. People seek out and put energy into that which they value. Some men don’t see value in women outside of sex 🤷🏽♀️ so that’s the only thing they invest their energy into.
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@sadlad311 @Lewis31m @Krssy_SoGreat @TRyanGregory I notice men’s profiles come in two flavors:.completely empty or a list of demands and requirements for women. Neither give us any indication of what type of man they are or who they are.
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@itsbrione @Get_It_D See I said this and then he was like “eat it.” And I just obeyed. Like idk what happened… I’m a weak bitch.
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@niiemaaa_ @pettyreligion If you listen to these type of men when they talk you’ll realize they also hate women.
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@Suno0o0o0o @OnlyAnEgglet @noayatobefound @brokebackboys I feel like hyper masculinity is for men. It’s men projecting their ideal physical traits. It’s not even for a woman’s gaze.
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@candice_closet @itsmontyj It usually takes men 7-10 business days. It’s really hard to keep up a facade.
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@RendalSune @mcgee_mauve @lovettejallow I don’t think she was mocking. I think she was pointing out a taboo. Also it seems Swedish people lack hospitality if that’s the custom.
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@Arcatiix @FPSnail @SlainUnikorn I remember when Serena Williams was in the best shape of her life in the early 2000s and people were calling her manly/a man.
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@Mhlengi_Gasa_ @martha_amanya This is why I’m less likely to date men that don’t drink. They always get mean and judgmental because I’m having a beer or two with dinner. It’s so unnecessary.
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@The_Only_Barbie Some women are hostages in relationships. They literally can’t go anywhere because they’ve relied so heavily on their men/generosity. But the minute things go south, they get a wake up call. This is a woman who doesn’t have the agency or means to control her own destiny. Sad.
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@The_Only_Barbie Not saying the side chick isn’t wrong, but what’s dangerous is men. They will put your health and life in danger all for a few moments of pleasure. They’re selfish.
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@ERISTHEPLANET I think you have to be an Aries woman to genuinely understand them. Theyve been some of my best partners in relationships.
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@hollowearthterf Men are socialized to be selfish individualists. That doesn’t change just because they marry and knock you up. The future is hell.
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@faiththegemini It’s better to find a group of women who smoke to link with. The men always make it weird.
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@cfusionpm @gourmetspud But like, why aren’t you just smarter? You’re a grown man. How hard is it to identify items in the store?.
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@ItsMyVelvetRope Yup. My 70 year old aunt took in my 90 year old grandfather. She still works full time the. Has to come home and be a slave/maid.
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@EmpressDF222 @GirafficPark_ @knucklesjak @ParissAthena Activities are definitely a necessity to raise intelligent and well-rounded kids. It sounds like your boys don’t get to do anything. And that’s sucks. Also smart parents save for college. You’re setting your kids up for debt in the future if they want to go to college.
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@thereturnofBWA If women were in control of their reproductive health (from the dawn of time) there would be way less men on the earth.
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@EclecticMujer @Lilblackbabies I like this better. At least she could process and understand what was happening to her.
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@jerriahmariee @Femescent Men don’t harbor the same fear of women that we have towards them. They really don’t believe they’ll be put in a violent situation with a woman. Of course it’s the exact opposite for us.
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@alettaasmithhyy @SetaiThabiso @kwameaddoobiri_ It’s true. I notice in comparison to black men, white men move with such ease and relaxation. The world is their oyster. Nothing phases them.
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@rafiudabosss @nottdeep When he said “go head Matt.” I knew it was about to be some bs lmaooo.
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@MrsKinder @ellegist 40 year old men really aren’t attractive partners. They’re just kind of old to be finally settling down. They missed the boat.
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@slumzog @rawmilkhoney Yea this isn’t true. Men aren’t usually altruists. If they’re helping you, they want something from you (sex).
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@bigfatsabs @witti_indi @Ainfinitesimal The men are cute but kinda dry. The women are absolutely fabulous.
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@shesamerihann The only hobby for me that has actually lead to meeting men: sports/leagues. I play tennis and that’s how I met my current bf. I also have played dodgeball, kickball, softball, and pool. Lots of guys, forced to interact, maybe light drink.
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@lilahh_akuaa @RaveenTheDream No ma’am. It’s bad out here. Worse in the 30s. So many of my male peers look 10-20 years older than me. And their d**** don’t work lmao. It’s tragic.
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@elegantheaux @Eric_97h I think men spend too much time listing after sex workers, celebrities, and influencers. The average woman isn’t a gold digger. Most of the people I know that are married aren’t conventionally attractive or rich 😴.
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@aroundevil @louxgust Yea Brad set the bar. These you g girls are crazy lmao. He’s so fine idc idc idc.
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@mrssgyllenhaal @ceciATL Culture is usually passed down through women. I’d argue you can not be black without having a black mother.
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@liberbionicx @vibeswithty_ It’s ok to do nice things for your partner. I’m sorry if you’re not receiving that kind of treatment.
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@Blood_Hound_ @StinaDale @lovettejallow Because they’re racists lmao. People from those countries confirm.
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@LaLB__ @melb2900 @TheFineFeminine Yet, the girls had better troubleshooting and problem solving skills. They also adjusted better.
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@kotafn @ADNotThatGuy @Nigerianscamsss I know he’s not Israeli. But most Israelis are either Ashkenazis (north/western European) and/or Mizrahi (Middle Eastern). Both are white 🤷🏽♀️.
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@Chicquie5 @OH_Lympia @Jani__Gee I dated 30-40 y/o men when I was in college. For one reason: they paid for everything. I got clothes, trips, flights, food, allowance, etc. I’d never look in their direction if they weren’t spending.
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@NicholasZa73290 @sauermom_ I think that’s the point. You’re 34 and should be settled down. But you’re on twitter bragging about a “situationship.” I guarantee that 26 year old is not looking at you as a serious prospect.
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@gemsunaquamoon At my old job, I’d work 8am to 8pm. No scheduled break time. My managers even pulled me into their office to tell me that my “energy was down.”. Lol really? You don’t say!?.
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@radseed @AmeriKraut This. I coach tennis. Most of my students are Asian. I wish I could get more black children into the sport, but I also have to make a living. And my rate isn’t cheap.
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@The_Nah1991 @pettyreligion I’m not sure how that’s relatable. No one mentioned toxic anything lmao.
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@ask_aubry I don’t even identify as a feminist, but I’m unsure what men want women to do. If we say we want to be housewives, we are gold diggers. If we say we want to work and have jobs, now we are masculine. Idgi.
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@platformedboots The most physically attractive men are never really that attractive. It’s the catch-22 with men.
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@negraesoterica Yea. I really don’t want to push out a baby for a man who will just call me fat. I also don’t want to get fat.
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@ChrisDubbs_ @LeciJ_ Because men don’t really want children full time. They don’t file for custody. A lot of men have kids knowing the primary parent will be the woman.
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@Natillywolf @JennMJacksonPhD I am so sorry. I don’t know how I can help, but I’m here if you need anything.
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