There’s a du’aa my dad taught us when we were very young, to say every time you see someone in a position you never want to end up in and till this day I can say every time I’ve read that du’aa I’ve been protected from those situations Alhamdulillah
“All praise is for Allah Who saved me from that which He tested you with and Who most certainly favored me over much of His creation.’
… He will be kept safe from that calamity.”
{At-Tirmidhi No 3431 & 3412; Ibn Majah No 3892}
On the authority of Abu Hurairah and `Umar (رضي الله عنهما) who said the The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Whoever comes across a person suffering a calamity and says (silently):
Was taking pics of my Brioche French Toast this morning while the grandma was finishing up her Rotis & she asked me to take a pic to show everyone how much she made, so here we go x
I don’t get why people try to make you feel bad for having opportunities or a lifestyle they weren’t able to have. Just be happy for everyone and keep it moving