Your money is your money and his money is…..
His money. 💴
No his money isn’t your money according to islam. He has a maintenance obligation. He must provide a roof over your head, clothing and food. This doesn't mean that all his money is yours.
If you get married and
Toxic sabr 🧵
Yesterday my ustadha حفظها الله told us that we need to find balance in sabr. Sometimes we have that toxic sabr. We allow everything to happen to us even when its bad and toxic. We misunderstood sabr and this is not what it means to have sabr.
Obeying your husband is obeying Allah 🧵
I think that as a muslim woman, we sometimes don't understand or acknowledge the status of the husband in marriage. Western ideologies have brainwashed us completely. We keep trying to compete with men in every way possible.
Imam ibn Rajab رحمه الله said:
❝How can a believer not shed tears at the departure of Ramaḍān, when he doesn’t even know whether he’ll be alive for its return or not?❞
{لطائف المعارف صحفة ٢١٧}
I saw 2 niqabies who I used to follow on instagram today. Both dont wear the hijab anymore. It hurts me to see this SubhanAllah. This is what sociale media and fame does to people. So don’t feel ever save. And be continuously alert and renew your intention every time. May Allah
Signs that should worry you
-Mushaf is too dusty
-Eyes are too dry
-Heart is too hard
-Mind is too occupied
-Body is too heavy at night
-Food is too much
-Tongue is too sharp
-Habbits are too stubborn
-Sins are too easy
-Dunya is too attractive
-Modesty is too scarce
Imam al-Si’di رحمه الله:
“Whoever leaves disobeying Allah when his soul desires it, Allah will replace it with faith in his heart, abundance, blessings, and expansion in his provision, and good health in his body.”
al-Fawakih al-Shahiyyah 1/138
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
“Women (wives) are the cause of happiness of the heart; that’s why they’re also called the reason to the happiness of the soul!”
[Rawdat al-Muhibeen, pg. 217]
I never understand why older women always interfere with the choices young girls make when it comes to clothing or marriage or whatever they want to do in life. I always wonder what the reason is. is it jealousy?
I remember when I was 15 I said on twitter I wanted to get
A woman should make sure to marry a religious man with a good character and not go for beauty, richness or lineage.
- Shaykh al-Albani rahimahullah - [Silsilat-ul- Hudaa wan-Noor 594]
I'm glad that Muslims advise each other on Twitter. I'm really starting to get tired of the "only God can judge me" tiktok generation.
“You are the best of peoples ever raised up for mankind; you enjoin Al-Maruf and forbid Al-Munkar, and you believe in Allah.” (Aal Imran 3:110)
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:
“Your heart will be ruined from feeling secure and being careless and will grow by remembering Allāh and being pious.”
[al-Fawā’id | Pg. 157]
I love this poem:
You are probably a shia innit?
Thou are probably shia innit
Thee are all kuffar
Thee are all kuffar!
What?
Whom can do anything about it?
What?
What?
Shia are kuffar
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
It was said:
“I will remain patient in order to please You (Oh Allāh),
even though my sorrow kills me.
It suffices me that You are pleased,
even though my patience kills me.”
[Madarīj as-Salikeen | 2/157]
I sat next to a saudi girl and I gathered up the courage to talk to her. I want to talk to people in Arabic more often so that I can improve my Arabic and so that I’ll get over my shyness in shaa Allah because i dont dare to talk to people. She said my Arabic is good and now I
SHIA READ THIS.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Whoever insults my companions then upon him is the curse of Allah, the angels, and the entirety of mankind.”
al-Tabarani 12709, classed as Hasan by al-Albani رحمه الله
Imām Nawawī رحمه الله said:
"Reciting the Qur'ān is the most important of adhkar, which should be done regularly. No day or night should be without and it may be attained by reciting a few verse."
[كتبا الأذكـار للنـووي ١٢٢٥/٢]
I always watch these kinds of videos. I really like how they prepare lunch, etc. for their husband or kids. I really want to become a lunchbox wife/mother in sha Allah. Lool
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymin رحمه الله said:
"Whenever your heart is neglectful and you find yourself immersed in the life of this world, go out to the graves and think about those people who yesterday were (alive) like you on earth."
شرح رياض الصالحين 3/473
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@farriese
This hadith shows thats its allowed to pray on mud because mud is Tahir (pure) but it is not proof that we should pray on a stone or mud. That is an innovation.
Sahaba used to do many good deeds and they were scared that they wouldn’t be accepted. We don’t even perform the obligatory deeds yet feel safe from its consequences.
I'm so glad there are enough women who are against that romanticized feminist "Islam". Allah says in the Quran:
“This day, I have completed your religion for you, perfected My blessings upon you, and am pleased with Islaam as your Religion.” [5:3]
Islam does not need your
لاَ يُلْدَغُ الْمُؤْمِنُ مِنْ جُحْرٍ وَاحِدٍ مَرَّتَيْنِ
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out of one and the same hole."
Sahih al-Bukhari 6133, Narrated by Abu hurayrah.
Suhoor shows us that we can wake up for fajr. Taraweeh shows us we can stand up in prayer at night. Fasting shows us we do have self control. Ramadan is not a temporary increase of our Imaan, it shows us what we are capable of doing every day.
The islam teaches us to not make the same mistake over and over again. Sometimes its good to not give people a second chance. Its not always praiseworthy to forgive the person who violates you.
Imam as-Sa’di said:
“The servant having mercy for the creation is from the greatest of reasons for him to attain the Mercy of Allah.”
[ Bahjat Qulub al-Abrar]
We want Shariah and a strong army in our countries, but we do not implement the Shariah in our homes. How do you expect success while neglecting the commands of Allah?
And how do you expect to lead an army when you can't even lead the family you are responsible for? Some people
yesterday I was talking with someone about people who don’t fear Allah and commit shirk akbar. A little girl of 7/8 years sat with us and listened to our conversation and then said "الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام “
And then she talked about how we should be grateful that we have
For example, when you know someone will increase their evil/repeat the same mistake again. Its better to not pardon someone like this. But when there is no harm coming from it, then its better to forgive/pardon him.
Men! Don’t do this. 🧵
I will never understand why some men choose to be mean to their wives’s about their appearance when they are literally allowed to lie in this case to make her feel better or why they would marry a woman to try to change her to something she is clearly
Powerful video.
"Protecting a woman from the dangers of the world is a noble duty entrusted to men, just as a shepherd guards his flock from lurking predators."
I love calm people. The ones choosing their words wisely, never raising their voice. Not living to show off, but to exist in a quiet and harmonic way, trying to at least not harm anyone. I find those people inspiring
When my best friend (no longer a friend) got married she showed all my pictures and our conversations to her husband. Since then I don't trust any woman with my pictures. Some women are so insecure and change immediately when a man comes into their lives.
“It is not for a believer, man or woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter that they should have any option in their decision. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he has indeed strayed into a plain error”
[al-Ahzaab 33:36]
But Allah has put the right of the husband above the father! We don't realise that we are not only fighting and rebelling against our husband but also against ourselves and the Laws of Allah!
It has gotten intertwined with our beliefs, we are starting to have problems with the rights of the husband. Especially that the wife should obey the husband in marriage. Some women even say: "I won't obey him, he isn't my father."
Ibn Rajab رحمه الله said:
"Tawhid is actually the most precious medicine. If a drop of this medicine was laid upon a mountain of sin and disobedience, they'd be transformed into good deeds."
جامع العلوم والحكم 2/417
may Allah grant us knowledge and understanding of the Deen. Ameen
Abū ‘Alī an-Naysābūrī said:
“Understanding is more precious to us than memorising.”
[History of Islām by Imām Dhahabī (v. 7, p. 349)]
I don't know any Muslim man who doesn't have a provider mindset. Often, it's the opposite, with non-Muslim men expecting 50/50 or even expecting the woman to handle all household duties while also working outside to pay the bills.
When discussing these topics, it's important
If i unfollow you, I probably don’t like your content, the way you speak or because you are male. No need to ask me why I unfollowed you. We are not friends or related. Just move on with your life.
Ibn Hibbaan narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a woman prays her five (daily prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her:
Not disciplining your child at 5 will show at 15. It won’t be funny then. Some people come way too late to certain Islamic norms and values. If you don't teach them young, don't expect them to do it when they're older.
Be a parent, take your responsibilities serious.
One of the signs that you are forgiven for your sins is that the your condition will become better than it was before.
For every woman who is planning to share their ‘Eid pictures on sociale media. Remember this:
“Woe to him who found the blessed month of Ramadan and let it
Make dua to Allah, and work on yourself and your imaan so that you may find a good brother to marry, a man who will understand your rights as well as his own.
May Allah subhana wa ta'la guide us all
Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
“The Deen itself is manners. Anyone surpassing you in manners is better than you in the Deen.”
[Madarīj as-Salikeen | 2/294]
and disobey him? Do you have a problem with the teachings of the messenger of Allah subhana wa ta'la?
And this goes even further than just disobeying your husband, this is a problem of having a low imaan, you have a hard time submitting to Allah subhana wa ta'la.
We know from the hadith that we have to obey the husband, and we can see in this ayah that we have to follow the prophet sallalu alaihi wa sallam in his teachings to fully obey Allah subhana wa ta'la. So how can you, as a true believer, ignore the rights of your husband
Testing your partner with fake/catfish accounts is the most childish thing ever. You are literally creating fitnah that wasn’t even there and then you are suprised when they talk back.
Imām Bukhāri رحمه الله said: “Be patient, O People of the Sunnah, may Allāh have mercy on you, for you are the most few from among the people.”
[الجامع لأخلاق الراوي وآداب السامع ١/١١٢]
al-Ḥasan al-Baṣrī (رحمه الله):
The most deserving of people to be ascribed to the Qurʾān are those who adhere to it with actions, even if they do not recite it [often].
[الزهد لأحمد، رقم ١٦٦٠، بسند حسن]
I will never understand men and women who are attracted to people who disobey Allah*, have a different aqeedah or even a different faith. We are talking here about being attracted.
We're not just talking about finding someone beautiful/handsome here, because that's possible. You