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@the_battered_parent

@battered_parent

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Hiding behind a Twitter name to speak out about #ChildToParentViolenceAndAbuse | #AdolescentFamilyViolence. The issue is real. The support not-so-much.

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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
2 years
Sadly,we never found the help we longed for. Our family unit hasn't recovered. We get up & (sometimes barely) make it through each day, but things are not the same. #CPAAwarenessDay
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
3 years
Son (18) charged with assaulting his gf. She's 16. Intervention order in place - he can't go within 100m. She contacted me to tell me. I told her it was not her fault. It was never her fault. Apparently, she's dropped the charges. I'm lost for words. #Familyviolence #cpv #dv
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
3 years
Ashamed, terrified, living minute by minute, pretending everything at home is ok. Why us? #CPAAWARENESSDAY
@RespectUK
Respect
3 years
Parents say they don’t disclose their experiences of CAPVA because they’re ashamed, and many don’t report to the police because they’re scared of their children being criminalised: they only call the police when in crisis. #CPAAwarenessDay
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
3 years
He was 14 when it began, he's now 18. His dad accidentally opened a letter & apologised. We've received messages saying we have committed a federal crime & he will go to police. It's in our "best interest" to meet with him. 5 yrs of abuse, violence & threats. #cpva #apva
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
3 years
It's another level when the DV perpetrator is your child #QandA
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
There needs to be more of this👇🏼. More open conversation about #ChildToParentViolence because it is happening & we (parents, siblings, teens) need help. #Familyviolence
@FamilyLives
Family Lives
4 years
What to do if you are experiencing violence or aggression from your teenager - watch our supportive video
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
..."everyday misery exacerbated by their maternal caring..." << this right here is my struggle. I'm still his mother, he is still my son. #apva #ChildToParentViolence
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Filial abuse remains a largely hidden issue with no statistics to determine how prevalent it is.
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
"But it ONLY happens at home, right?" Passively stating the issues are at home, with us, the parents.
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
I long to say the words "our son's life has turned around". #batteredparent #difficultmothering #cpv #apva
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
- I'm trying to be a good mother. - I'm a co-dependent in the abusive relationship. - I'm enabling the behaviour by not saying "no". - I need to let go. #batteredparent #mypsychologistsays #cpv #apva #ChildToParentViolence
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
15+ harassment phone calls last night, I stopped answering. Abusive voice messages were left. If they were from anyone else, I'd file a complaint. He's my 17 year old son. When is it enough? #batteredparent #cpv #apva #familyabuse #AdolescentToParentViolenceAbuse
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
Today I told my GP.... I'm scared he's going to kill me. #ChildToParentViolence #cpv #Familyviolence #domesticabuse
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
Emotional abuse may be worse than physical abuse - today, anyway. #cpv #Familyviolence #apva
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
Another level today. Not only abused by teen, received harassment text messages from his "friend" saying we are shameful, disgusting & neglectful. In 2019 we had rocks thrown in our windows from his "friends". The unsafe feeling is back. #cpv #apva #ChildToParentViolence #toomuch
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
Today was a bad day. The 17 yo got punched in the face last night. He called first thing this morning saying he needed to see a Dr. I was there within 30mins. Two hours of emotional & psychological abuse. I was scared & anxious, my heart pounding. #ChildToParentViolence #apva
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
A positive in a world of darkness. Our daughter (14) has reignited her love of reading. She has read 10+ novels so far this year. She relishes the smell & feel when getting a new book. I think reading is her escape. #cpv @colleenhoover
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
I'm anxious, I can't sleep, my body is tense, my head hurts, my heart aches. As a parent, I don't think there is a time when you stop trying to help your children but I'm not sure how much I more I can take. #cpv #Familyviolence #MentalHealthMatters #apva #WhyUs
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
Invited teen to dinner tonight. He threatens never to talk to me again unless I apologise (for s'thing that isn't true). It's so, so, so hard being a parent. We're concerned for his well-being & just can't give up. He can't see how much we care. New year, same trauma. #cpv #apva
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@battered_parent
@the_battered_parent
4 years
17 yold hasn't been living with us. He wants $800 to pay off a loan otherwise he will get bashed & end up in hospital. His phone & bag were "stolen" with illegal substances he was selling. The story is not consistent. Either way we'll regret our decision. #CPVA #parenting #help
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